Back on the sites

Well I am back to going on seekingarrangement.com but to be honest I find that sugardaddie.com has a better choice for UK daddies, they have more choice of new people it seems its always the same people on SA.com and to be honest I get more emails from SD.COM so its a better ego boost hehehe!

And trust me my ego is needing it at the moment I have put on a couple of pounds and look out of shape, I have attached a picture its not pretty girls, I have also changed my hair colour so letting your see that as well, have gotta hit the gym though so if anyone knows some good tips for tonight up and losing weight let me! As cant really afford a gym but wont be confident until I am back in shape its a bloody double edged sword.

So back to sd.com I have 8 messages waiting for me but at the moment with all my furniture costs and paint for the flat cant afford the £22 membership fee, it feels like I have taken such a huge step back and this is the kind of situation I was in when I first met X, so have been thinking a lot about him lately.

He is still texting and emailing but am still staying strong and no answering back Go me! :)

Now onto my girls the are all still really good, Izzie is coming to visit me next week once I am in my flat, claire has been dumped by the russian, but is out on the London scence and meeting bankers everywhere who love those trashy champagne bottles with sparklers in them!! LOL you gotta love them they are like Eurotrash hehehe. And Lily well fingers crossed she has a job coming up but has had to move back to our hometown but is travelling back and for for auditions

I hope I have some dates soon, thats what I really miss and now am living alone will make it a lot easier to go on those dates, so any SD's reading please ask away now hehehe!



Jess Bunny
xoxox

An update

Well fingers crossed I am moving out next week, its a very grotty one bedroom flat but it will be my own as much as I love my folks living with them is a pain in the ASS!! Especially for my sugardaddy dating its hard to explain where you are going.

I have a date fingers crossed with a nice guy from Germany, he is willing to come over to me, only has time to meet for a few days each month which is great for me but can work with my budget. woo hoo!! Not gonna get too excited though as we all know where a lot of these men lead to, thats right nothing,lol.

I havent been online as my net is playing up at the moment, might have something to do with me not paying my bills but hey who knows lol.

Well I am off to read everyones blog and get myself updated will give more of a update tomorrow

Love

Jess Bunny

xox

Me and X

Well to stop all the debate no I would never ever get back with X to put me in a situation which to one of his clients makes me seem like a whore, thats doesn't sit well with me. Firstly we had been together for years so it wasn't like it was something new where he didn't know what my reaction would be, secondly he was the one who asked when we first started dating that I dont date other guys, which to be honest I wouldn't have anyway. We started this relationship as more of a mistress rather than a SB and just because I was his SB does not in any way mean he can degrade or belittle me.

If anyone was too except that just because they are a SB then me personally I think you are a fool, and you need to work on your self worth before you get into a SD relationship. No man whether he is buying you things or not should put you in the position X put me in. As for him emailing me, yes he emails me every day but no he never gets a reply and if he ever wants to know my thoughts on him he knows this blog address I am quite happy for him to read.

Ladies to suggest that I should accept this mistake because it isnt a normal relationship, I think if you would be willing to accept it you are selling yourself short, regardless of the type of relationship you are having, you SD should respect you regardless of the size of allowance you have.

I am loving the debate though ladies and this is just my thoughts on so please no one take offence but remember ladies, we are LADIES not whores, and just because a guy buys us things doesn't mean that he shouldn't respect you in the same way he respects any other woman.

If he wants to treat you like a whore treat him like a john I guarantee he wouldn't like it or accept it and neither should you.

The way I sum this up is if you had a BF who bought you some clothes or a piece of jewellery could he then offer you around to his friends, no this isn't the same type of relationship, but RESPECT is something all relationships should be built on whether it is a SD or BF relationship.

Remember debate is always healthy though :)

Love

Jess

xoxox

how things are going

Well to be honest the are stuck at the moment I am not really keeping up with SA so not really getting my profile seen, I have joined a new site called elitemeeting.com, but the joining fee is £197.99 so I am going to access my emails which is a pain as I have only been a member a week and I have 89 emails!!!! aaahh, god I wish I had a guy I could just ask to wire me money like some of you girls do, if you know of anyone who wants to help a girl out send them my way hehehe!!

So Mr Salt & Pepper went all quiet and to be honest I am not going to chase, I sent him one text after a week of not hearing from him but that's it, if he has found someone else, good for him, but no mans wants something that will be handed to him on a plate, successfull men like to chase, to feel they have caught a prize.

I have heard from Izzie and apparently X already has a new girl, I dont think she would appreciate some of the emails he has been sending me, but I havent even dignified them with a answer.

To be honest I have had some weak moments were I have just thought how much easier it would be to go back to him, I have so many bills piling up starting to get the old red letters through aaahh!!! I have been looking for work since I got back home but hey its recession and no one near me is hiring - If anyone knows of any good work from home opportunites let me know.


Its been quite a crappy few weeks my uncle died 2 weeks ago and was buried last tuesday, but of a shock as it was so sudden and he was only 51, makes you realise how short life is. It weird how much death has been around me recently but then I suppose thats life maybe one of them will look out for me and bring me a SD or even a job I wouldn't mind either at the moment LOL.

Love

Jess
xoxox

Ok I think some bloggers are confused

When I read other peoples blog most of them I love and have built such a great sugar family on here and had some great chats on the phone with some of my sugar family. But others I read and I am sure they are confused about the difference between a sugarbaby and a hooker, I think that when they offer themselves out at £££ per visit they are scaring the SD's out there who may be for real but they dont give them a chance.

The way I look at it emails are slow and steady, most of these guys have busy lives and cant organise a date straight away, if they can are they really in such a high powered job.

Now I have nothing against high class escorts I know a girl who is one and she has a amazing life and I am sure we have all watched Belle De Jour and hey who wouldnt want that. But dont get confused between the two as it wont benefit you at all, and it may well put guys off.

To me the rules are if you cant google them they are not as high powered as they want you to believe, get them to put you in a hotel of your choosing even if you live in the city if they ask why tell them the truth, you need to see if they are serious and can meet your expectations, the resturant where yu meet - do they know where the bathrooms are? does the maitre D know them, if not why?

And of course the shoes, the wallet and watch my 3 things that will always give away a guy who is playing, do some research on the best brands and know what to look out for.

I do not mean to knock other girls blogs and mean no offence this is just my tips on why you may not have found your SD yet. Switch your mindframe from short term cash problems to long term cash benefit!!!


Love

Jess Bunny

xoxox

Well its looking good

Well Mr salt and pepper is very googable whihc is very pleasing for me. He told me the name of his company which i goodled along with his name and his picture on there is different to both his profile and the ones he has sent me, so I at least know its him as we both turned on our webcams to prove it was us.

I told him what I would be looking for and he actually offered more. Which is always fun LOL. I am glad as we have chatted on the phone a lot and seem to get along very well and will be meeting up quite soon which is good!!

Oh and girls bird man is back on sa.com with 5 different profiles now each time with a different name - God that man gives me the creep even in his photos he looks really pervy and on 2 of the profiles he states the SB is for both him and his GF eeewww!!!

I havent been on FB for a while so sorry if I haven't replied to your emails just have a lot going on at the moment.

well thats it for now guy chat soon

Love

Jess Bunny

xoxox

OMG

Well my lovely ladies just had to write this.

Net-a-porter my fave online store now has a outlet version for the stuff they can not sell or boought too much off, its good prices and you can get some great stuff at good prices. They do Herve Lerger for more than 40% off

Its called

www.theoutnet.com

Check it out girls

Love

Jess

xox

hello

Well the profile is up and running and I am having some good replies so far.

The best one is the owner of a hedge fund who is very handsome and has salt and pepper hair which I love on a man. He has houses both here and America and he seems very promising as he was the one who initiated contact, I have kind of sat back and not made the first move with emails and just seen what happens.

I have to say I have had some really lovely emails off everyone in this little sugar family we have created and they are really keeping me going.

I have been accepted onto a law degree course through the Open University and have been told I have funding which is great I can properly fufill my dreams so who knows maybe the whole X episode has worked out for the best and I love the fact that things are happening in my life, yes at the moment I dont have much self confidence but that can only be built one day at a time, oh and big thanks to everyone who reads this blog I cant believe I have passed 9000 readers that blows my mind!!!

Love

Jess

xoxox

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God I forgot how many liars

Being back in the search for a SD I forgot how hard it was.

I now have a profile back on sa.com and its just so hard standing out in the crowd, I have never seen so many good looking women on one site lol. But I have my fingers crossed that magic can strike twice I am looking for an allowance of between £3-5k but if they are happy for my to continue living in Swansea then I can lower that to £2 - 3k as the flat I want here is only £500 pcm but I always aim high at first go and then see what happens.

I think we have been spoilt by the number of eastern european girls who are willing to be a cheap as anything, through my blog and on FB I have met some great people which I am very pleased about and one who is great at gving advice as I am finding I am a bit rusty at the moment lol. She said the best thing last night those who are flashy will be willing to give less than those who are discreet and that is soo true look at X he was discreetly very wealthy.

I think my confidence has been knocked quite a lot by X so am worrying about how I look, whether I am too big all the normal things that us girls go through.

But at least I know I have you guys here with me as well


Love

Jess Bunny
xoxox

Well my new life

Well its back to the daily grind I have a job interview on Thursday its as a receptionist for a solicitors and its very very bad pay, LOL its quite a culture shock getting used to my life again but hey I have been here before and I am damn well sure I can pick myself up again.

I am back on seekingarangement.com and I have a profile up, have had some replies but most guys seem to be from America and even if you are offering me a private jet I am nto travelling that far for a first date lol. It feels so strange to be back in the search again and there are so many other people looking this time its not like when I was on it before and of course I didnt meet X on any website.

I have lowered my expectations greatly and am looking for an allowance between
£3-£5k but I think there is just so much competition out there and am worried that my standards are just too high LOL.

Well as some of my facebook friends will see I have my pictures up on FB decided there was no reason to hide anymore, so a big hello to everyone and thanks to all of you for your messages of support.

Love

Jess Bunny
xox

Let the search begin

Well as heartless as this seems I am getting back on the horse and gonna find myself another SD bu this time I wont be lookin for love just a SD!

Ok so lots of people have been asking what happened, basically X offered me to one of his clients to help his deal along, he has never done anything like that before and I was shocked when he did suggest it. I have never felt so cheap in my life and due to that I wanted no ties in my life to him.

Now I look back on I wish I hadn't given the money and possessions back but at the time I had to do it. But at least I have no debt and I have my family that I can move back in with. I just told them I had lost my job due to recession and also that me and X had split up.

So this blog will take a new direction about my search to get my lifestyle back, I knwo I probably wont get the same amount but I am looking in the reigon of £3-£5k so keep your fingers crossed for me, unfortuantely I dont live in a big city so that makes it harder but hey ho the search will begin

Love

Jess Bunny
xox

hello and goodbye really

well this is a very strange blog for me to write but I am no longer a SB, me and X have split I never saw it coming but something happened which meant that I ended our relationship due to the reason and me ending it, I transfered all my money back to him and the posessions.

Seems very strange I know but the reason for us ending meant I did not want to be tied to X for any reason. I have now moved back home and am sitting here just contemplating life I have already decided that I may look for another SD at another time btu maybe I was too spoilt by X that my sights will be too high but who knows so maybe I will be back and maybe I wont.

I hope I do as I love the little community I have built up with you guys and am still more than happy to reply to emails.

It means that this year I had a very shit birthday but my friends have tried to pick me up and izzie will always be a BFF.

Well thats all I am going to write for now as is all still a bit raw.


Love you all

Jess Bunny

xoxox

OMG

What I am loving at the moment on TV there is an amazing programme called The Rachel Zoe priject on really which on virgin media is 267 I am not sure about sky sorry guys, anyway she has been my fave stylist since like forever and one day I am going to book her for a day and go on a major shopping spree like you wouldn't believe LOL, Thats my dream so maybe thats what X can get for me for Xmas this year.

I am also loving "the real housewives of" but infortunately for me I cant seem to get it anywhere so if anyone knows where I can buy it let me know it doesnt matter if its an american copy as I have worked out how to change my dvd player to any region. I just think its fab and soo funny!!! MMM maybe someone shoudl do a tv programme about sugar babies now that would be fun and I would defo watch it.

OK so I was asked by Tha princess "if you had a SD and he wanted something longterm, but you knew you would probably be moving far away in the next couple of months to a year, do you think you should tell your SD? Thanks" I always believe in honesty with your sd this relationship is built on trust, trusting him to provide you with what has been agreed and that you stick to what you have said, so to me yes you should tell him maybe he will be fine with it, if you know thats its going to be a year then that would make it easier as you would have a year of fun together, otherwise he could feel put out that he invests his money in you and a 3/4 months later your off, always be honest and you cant go wrong I know its a pain when you are trying to find a SD but this way you will find the best one for you.

Hope that helps and Please leave more questions so I know what more to write about as I dont want to keep repeating myself from my earlier blogs.

Love

Jess Bunny
xoxox

What to write about

I know I keep on dissapearing guys and I am sorry for that, but please dont send me abusive emails its just I am running out of things to say without repeating myself, and to be honest I do have a short attention span so writing this does get a bit boring I am still working on getting through the emails though I know its taking quite a while but quite a lot of you have emailed me which I am thankfull for.

Now one thing that made me laugh is someone said my chloe bag wasnt real! LOL you would have to be pretty pathetic to think that I cant afford a chloe bag and have a big diamond ring next to, God that makes me sound so up my own ass!! but I dont put up my blog to be attacked and to be honest if you dont like what I write dont read it, I am sure other bloggers get the same but me I always take things personally.

Also another person spoke about X being married and how I should be dusgusted with myself, I would say you would be hard pushed to find a sugar daddy who isnt married, does that bother me - NO!! As harsh as that is, would I rather be lied too and think I could get married and have kids with this guy if thats what I wanted! NO!! Yes our relationship in different but it works for us, I am not looking for forgivness from any kind of god and no I dont think I am going to burn in hell, LOL

No if there is stuff you guys would like covered please write a comment as if you do it in my emails it will just go to the bottom of the pile.

Love

Jess Bunny

xoxoxo

P.S Lets see how long I last blogging this time hehehe

In my mind this is the quickest way to lose a sd

I personally do not think its a good idea to do publicity especially if the guy is married. Its the fastest way to scare him away I also think it makes the whole sd thing look sordid and wrong as newspapers write things in a way that sensationalises things now dont get me wrong I love the sunday papers especially the kiss and tell stories but this girl just looks stupid. Talking about how they dont know about each other, uuummm they do now and really if she was having that much money off them why does she feel the need to sell her story to a sunday paper.

Now some of you may say pot, kettle, black as I write this blog but there isnt really anyway that this can be traced back to X, I dont put up pictures of my face and yes you can see pics of my flat and cars on Facebook but there are not pictures that will lead anyone to X and to me X is the most important thing and if this blog in anyway hurt him I would stop.

In my mind the girls who do these things do come across as gold diggers and they may or may not be but no SD wants to be with a gold digger they want to know that you do like them for them and not just their money.

Well as I have said I finally have my facebook profile up and tend to go on their everyday and am adding pictures on their have some of my flat and my cars, would love to put up pictures of us girls but it would make things to arkward for X so cant. But I hope you all join so I can keep in touch with you, my link is on the right of this post up the top.

Love

Jess Bunny
xoxox


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