Monday, December 31, 2007

Just a few random thoughts thrown together

I am glad that others are enjoying this blog and starting to have their own, maybe then people will realise we are nothing like prostitutes, for a start I am in love with X and yes although his money drew me in, X keeps me there. If you don't find you SD attractive or the sex isn't good then I am sorry to say then you are just taking sex for money, with me X doesn't leave money on the side of the table when he's done, I have my credit card in his name, yes it's a secretive relationship but you know what at least I don't have the hassle of other people encroaching on my relationship.

A couple of girls have left comments now saying that there friends don;t know, all of my "old" friends do, and you know what they are true friends they don't judge, the way I brought it to them was that I was dating a guy who wanted to treat me like a princess, I left out the fact he was married but they all know he's older. My family know I am dating a older guy and that he's rich but they also think that I have a job. And no I am not ashamed of the fact I don't I just don't believe they need to know every single fact of my relationship. I don;t ask my parents about their finances why would they ask about mine.

So anyway I went onto SEEKINGARRANGEMENT.COM yesterday I have to say there doesn't seem to be much choice on their for the British girls, but there are a few good ones on there that I used to chat too, that haven't been snapped up so keep persevering. So anyway remember how I told you one friend was still looking for a sugar daddy well she regularly goes on dates with these guys, so far from the sites she has just found pervy old poor men, I do feel sorry for her, I am glad I am out of the "Rat race" now.

My tips for meeting these guys, well meet in a public place, check his manners, most SD I know are very gentlemanly and have impeccable manners. His car is a big give away, Lisa has met with one guy who claimed to have a net worth of £50 million and then turned up in a shed of his car. I am sorry but most rich men like to have a good car. But don't mistake the classic cars for cheap one, sometimes they cost more than a new car. You choose the venue, try the Savoy or the Dorchester. Another big things X buys his suits off the peg from Saville Row, if a suit is ill fitting or from Next I am sorry girls but he isn't who he says he is. Remember in their business appearance counts for a lot.

Well I can't believe it's new years eve at last I have changed my plans and am now having a get together in my flat and then onto the clubs, I have decided to wear my fantastic Roberto Cavalli dress, with my hair up and professionally done make up, so I am off now to get prepared. I hope you all have a fantastic new years eve.

Just remember you had a life before having a sugar daddy so he is not the be all and end all of your life

Love

Jess Bunny

xx

Saturday, December 29, 2007

The pitfalls of this relationship

OK so this is in answer to a comment left on my last blog, you say you are in love with him that's great but you need to be realistic does he have a wife, if no then fab but don't put to much pressure on him, if he has a wife I'm sorry to be harsh but he wont divorce her, it will cost him to much money. I love X with all my heart and he is the only guy I am with, but it is hard knowing he goes home to his wife and shares a bed with her, but girls don't put pressure on him he is in this relationship as he doesn't want the hassle of leaving his wife and kids or the mundane things that happen in a normal relationship. Yes me and X argue the difference being when we make up I get some diamonds :) But don't break up with him just cause you are falling in love just accept that this may never be as out in the open as you like and you will have the most fantastic relationship of your life.

The biggest pitfall is other women, once they realise what kind of relationship you have they will do anything to try and replace you but just play it cool, don't act jealous at least not around your SD and have fun with it. If you start to get jealous and whiny why would he continue with that when that is the kind of relationship he has at home. Just remember you have and only you can lose him. Yes there will be thinner women and prettier women but he has invested time in you and most businessmen hate to see a investment go down the drain. Most sugar daddys are alpha males and they need their ego massaged so if you see a girl checking him out, point it out, when I tell X some stunning blonde is checking him out you see his chest puffing out, but I know he is coming back to me be secure in your relationship or you will lose it.

Then of course you get the women who think this relationship is degrading to women, god this kind of relationship has been going on for centuries the only difference is now men and women have given it a different name and there are people actively searching for this kind of relationship. Most people I know would love my life I don't have to work, I can go into any shop and purchase whatever I want and I don't have to worry about where my next meal is coming from. What is so bad about that. Yes I could have done it on my own but you know what I didn't want to, I wanted the whole princess lifestyle and I am damn glad I am fortunate to have it.

Well rant over

Glad you girls are liking the blog it means a lot to me, so spread the world to all your sugar baby and sugar daddy friends. Abd keep the comments coming I love reading them in the morning, they mean a lot to me.

Love

Jess Bunny

xx

Friday, December 28, 2007

A day out with the girls

Well me and the girls went out today to do a little shopping in the sales, did you see people yesterday I am sorry but I would never queue outside a shop from 5am, I don't care if they were giving away Jimmy Choos, and the people in Next having the full on fist fight, well it was just awful.

My favourite hight street shop has to be River Island and I got some fantastic clothes there today, I have a cute navy little jacket for £25.00, picked up a few bags for when I go out with my friends back home, I hate to rub my life in their face so I always go high street, and I had this fantastic dress for New years eve in there at only £30 absolutely fab. One shop I am really starting to get impressed with is Jane Norman, the clothes there seem to be getting much better and not so cheap looking.

Anyway I have had a few comments left stating that they are getting a certain amount which they are happy with cause of their age, OK age does not come into it, I was only 19 1/2 when I started my sugar daddy relationship and I was getting £6500 it doesn't matter about you age, you should look at how much time you are spending with the guy, I was compensated well as I was willing to for everything when he needed me to, so I could visit him, If your sugar daddy is saying he is only giving you a certain amount because of your age don't accept that reason as its crap, your allowance should depend on the amount of time you spend together not the age difference.

Love

Jess Bunny

xx

Thursday, December 27, 2007

My xmas

Well I hope you all had a fantastic Xmas I certainly did. So I suppose you want to know what I had for Xmas. Well of course I had my Porche, I had a Zagliani Yume bag, a pink Alexander McQueen skull scarf, a cute little Juicy Couture cheque book charm, a ipohone cover from Christian louboutin, a iphone embedded with diamonds from Selfridges I think. And the best thing a 2 week holiday to Dubai with my and my 4 girlfriends as X can't come with me.

As you can see I was very lucky, and I am very very grateful, I can't wait to see X in a few days I'll get to see him, I have cut short my 2 weeks with my family cause I miss him so much and I want to see him before he goes skiing in Aspen. Oh my friend has been accepted on datingarrangements.com she tells me that it isn't very good as there aren't any men on there, but I'd stick with it as they may be having technical problems with it, who knows??

Well sorry it's a short one but I am off out with my family now so speak soon

Love

Jess Bunny

xx

Thursday, December 20, 2007

Not long till Xmas

I am going to be going home soon for Xmas so me and X are spending Saturday and Sunday together, I am off out with some of my girlfriends tonight, so I have had my hair done ready. When we go out together it is a case of who has the best dress, the best jewellery, the nicest bag. I suppose it's a girl thing only me and another of my friends mixes high street and designer, there is now a group of 6 of us including the new SB I spoke about before. We always laugh as we do see some people looking at us very strange as on our nights out we dress to impress each other rather than men. My best friend is called Izzie she like me is dating a banker so she lives a very nice life. It's nice to have a close group of friends who don't judge you for being in this kind of relationship, but understand it, all the ups and downs.

Anyway back to tonight, I have bought another fantastic high street dress, its actually from lipsy, and its a hot pink halterneck dress all the celebs have been seen wearing it, it was actually one of my Xmas presents from Izzie, being such a girly girl she knows I love anything pink and this dress well it is just so girly. Another of my friend has bought me a pair of Christian Loboutins that have the bow at the back, they are so dramatic and so very me. To top of the out fit well it has to be an oversized clutch from Gucci, I love this new trend as it means I don't have to worry about whether I can fit everything into such a small bag. Tonight I am going to BLING myself out, I have a fantastic pair of pink diamond studs and a gorgeous pink diamond 3 carat ring that X bought for me for my birthday.

So onto X well for Xmas I have bought him a Cartier watch and and money note holder with a small 1/2 carat diamond encased in it, and it's set in platinum. For some reason X hates carrying a wallet so he has these note things and it does look lovely. Saturday we are going down Bond street to do some Xmas shopping for me and Sunday we are going to have a lazy day in the flat watching Xmas films and giving each other our presents, and well I can think you can guess what else :-)

Now back to the girlys well there is Izzie, Jazz, Lullah, Claire, Lucy and me. Lucy being the newest one to join us, only Claire doesn't have a SD but she is looking and for now she works in Fashion PR, to help fund her life, but we do always treat her to bit and bobs and we never make her pay for nights out with us. I would say fashion wise we are like Football WAGS we are always on trend and we do like to see who has the most expensive bag or car. Izzie is winning her bag cost £6500 she saw that Colleen had one and rung round every boutique until she could track one down, I cant remember the name of it but buy either LOOK or Grazia and it's in there. Apart from Claire none of us work, Lucy has just given her job up she worked as a secretary for X and met her SD through him. I would say we are all quite sweet, we know we live a fab life and never take it for granted, just enjoy every day as it comes.

I hope you are enjoying these blogs I am not really getting much feedback but at lot of you seem to be reading it so leave me some comments let me know what you think and if you like my blog tell all your friends :)

Love

Jess Bunny

Happy Christmas

xoxoxoxo

Wednesday, December 19, 2007

Not as easy as it looks

Having this life isn't all that easy now yes some of you may roll your eyes when I say that, but basically you got this life on how you look, and by that I don't mean looking like a model prefect size 6, I mean that your sugar daddy was attracted to you cause of the way you looked, as I mentioned I am slim size 12 X likes my curves but I know if I let myself go then he would move on or say something to me. I lost a bit of weight over the summer and dropped to a size 8 and he hated it, my curves are what attracted him to me in the first place, but I got a little paranoid that he wanted a size 8, perfect looking girl. Men don't all want that it doesn't matter what size you are just be height weight proportionate and stay that size. I find the best exercise is Pilates just because it makes you look long and lean, without being overly muscular.

I make sure I have a facial twice a month, but I wash with clearasil I have found this works for me at keeping my skin clear. I also use Benefit Honey... snap out of it scrub at least 3 times a week, of get rid of dead skin. Once I got with X the first thing I did was have a make up lesson, you can get these at MAC, BENEFIT, or most cosmetic counters. I personally use Benefit cosmetics, along with Models prefer. Models prefer do great foundation and their trio concealer is one of the best around, check out QVC for their prices or MODELSPREFER.COM. Good make up is the key as all the professional say do it in good light, I now have a dressing room and I have installed a table a chair with a mirror and lights around it just like you see on T.V ad I love it. I always wear a full face of make up as I personally think you put more together and X likes a very groomed look.

Your hands and feet are a big thing to as I think this says a ot about you, I have a mani and pedi every 2 weeks, what's the point of having fabulous shoes and then showing off horrible feet, LOL. As for hair removal, well I epilate, its quick, easy and you can do it at home, I have never found those waxing strips to do anything apart from leave wax in my carpet. But never do your own bikini line, that means ingrown hairs and girls that ain't attractive.

So apart from this what makes my life difficult well you never know if this is all going to end, I'm a lot more secure in my relationship now but in the beginning you know it can be taken away just as quickly as you found it. But just enjoy it whilst it lasts for however long it lasts. And of course you have new women going for your man everyday, but as long as you stay strong, don't become the jealous woman, causing fights then you should really keep him, don't bring drama into his life if he wanted that he wouldn't be in this kind of relationship and 9 times out of 10 that's what he gets when he goes home anyway.

So my final bit of advice just remember he chose you, so he obviously liked you for who you were then, so don't worry about changing your self, if he didn't like you he wouldn't have entered into an agreement with you.

Love

Jess Bunny xx

Tuesday, December 18, 2007

What to ask for as a sugar baby

Ok so this is probably the most important thing, you have to realise what you want out of this experience do you like me want to be able to give up work, or are you in school and just don't want to have to take a waitress job to be able to have fun or keep up with the latest fashions, the easiest is if I probably look at these separately.

For those who want a life like mine, and want to be able to give up work. In all honestly unless you live in a big city I would expect to move, I moved from my home to London once I found my sugar daddy and its about 3/4 hours away. Familiarise yourself with the nice areas of town for me its Knightsbridge, Chelsea or some areas of the docklands. You need to be looking at sugar daddys' with at least a budget of £6k per month, as for cars there are two types you should look at either a convertible or a 4x4. In the first few months expect this to be rented until you know that both of you are happy with each other and that this is definitely the partnership for you. Take a look at WWW.LEASECARSDIRECT.CO.UK this has the one of the best ranges of some of the nicest cars at good prices. As for your allowance well if you are willing to be at his beck and call, see him whenever he likes, then I would suggest a starting point of around £5k. If you are going to say you will see him 3 times a week expect a starting point of around £1500 per month. X takes care of all my bills and everything is in his name, don't ever allow stuff to go in your name if things end badly everything financial will come back to you, always have stuff in his name. Flat, car, phone. I have my allowance through a credit card in his name where I am an additional named card holder, either do this or have it put into your bank account don't take a card in your name, for one you wont get as much credit as him and two it will fall on you to pay it.

Ok now for those part time girls, in all honestly I would just expect an allowance, I would expect it to be anything for £250 per week up to £750 per week and expect to see him at least 2 a week, either for drinks, food or sometimes I have heard of part time girls not having an allowance and just being taken shopping each time they meet, or receiving a gift, such as shoes or a bag or a new dress. I wouldn't expect too much as these are busy guys and they aren't going to give you the world if you can't be there when they need or want you.

I hope this has helped a bit.

Jess Bunny

xx


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Monday, December 17, 2007

The sugar daddys to look out for.

My sugar daddy like many others is a banker, this is good on many levels works long hours so you have plenty of time to your self, gets paid fantastically well, mine gets a little over £5 million a year just in his bonus, and yes there is that the bonuses, no other profession gets a bonus like the guys who work in the city, if you can I would always go for a banker for a sugar daddy. The only bad side is that with them working such long hours its hard to meet them, but through friends who have been trying to get a sugar daddy I would say the best place is the internet.

Now I have noticed especially in the UK that craigslist is becoming a very popular place to put an advert up for a sugar daddy, word it well and you'll get the cream of the crop but you will have to find the good ones out of the idiots who right back either telling you your a slag and ugly, or the fantasits but there are some good guys on there two. I have a girlfriend who has added such a advert and so far ahas attracted 3 bankers, so is just find the right one for her.

There have as well started sites that cater for this relationship, as I have said previously SEEKINGARRANGEMENT.COM is one of the best, as they have certified guys on there who have paid to have their identity and wealth check and confirmed and verified, also it is free for all sugar babes to search, post a profile and send and receive emails. I used to have a profile on this site and did find a reasonable amount of guys on this site.

Another great one is of course SUGARDADDIE.COM this has a good choice of uk guys on it, though I have found personally that older men seem to go on this one. And look out for the fake photos, I have found quite a few profiles with pictures of lesser known celebrities.

The newest is DATINGARRANGEMENTS.COM but this seems to be a difficult one to join though it does say it has footballers, bankers and entrepreneurs on its lists so stick with it as it may be one of the best if it follows up on what it promises.

So the other great professions to look out for, well business owners of course sales and marketing, Manufacturing companies, and property developers all seem to have good money and of course available funds. That's something to be careful of someone may be worth £5 million but if its all tied up where is there any free cash to spend on you.

So there is my thoughts, tomorrow I'll let you know what I think you should be asking for when you find your sugar daddy

Hope you all are enjoying my blog.

Jess Bunny

xx

Sunday, December 16, 2007

A new sugar baby

We had a new girl come out with us last night that was introduced to us by one of X'S banker clients. You can tell she is new to this lifestyle as I think she has bought every designer known to man and thrown them all on together. It was an awful sight, she had terrible nail extensions, the chavvy French manicure ones, a tan that left her as orange as a satsuma and a dress so short I saw things of hers only her sugar daddy needs to see. But I am going to take her shopping soon so she looks a bit better as I am sure I probably done the same as her when I got into my sugar baby role I think thats why X introduced us really.

She seems a lovely girl if not a bit competitive, but I'm sure once she gets used to her role she will chill out a bit. I do think it's hard for a new sugar baby to come onto the scene as it is very daunting just being welcomed into this world, it's even harder if you have no one who understands your life. Tell people your a WAG they are jealous, tell people you are a sugar baby they call you a slag. But get the right friends around you and you will have the best time of your life.

I think that it's hard these days trying to attract the right sugar daddy, you kind of have to dress for the role, I don't think you have to be stick thin, but just make sure that you are height weight proportionate, always look done so make sure your hair is clean, your make up well applied, you need to master the art of wearing a full face and not looking like you are wearing much. Even if you can't afford designer just make sure your clothes are in good condition, as soon as they start to lose their colour get rid of them. The best website for clothes is www.asos.com, as this sells clothes in the style of the celebrities clothes and they can be quite cheap as well as having some great new designer ranges on their.

Don't go to high fashion, but make sure you look on trend, but the most important advice I could give is don't except second best, know what you want out of this experience and stick to your guns until you find it. Sugar daddys will respect you more if you don't change your mind just cause they say no, move on until you find what you are looking for, and certainly don't sleep with them if they offer you money, as that is a hooker.


Tomorrow I'll give you a few ideas about where to find potential Sugar Daddys

Saturday, December 15, 2007

My big suprise!!!!!

OH MY FREAKING GOD, the BMW call was a fake, I got home yesterday to a porch 911 turbo with a big pink bow(pink being my fave colour) X had planned it all along so that I thought it would be one things and it turns out to be another. God now what am I going to be him, I need help!!!

I also had a little Xmas delivery of my own, My fave place to shop online is net-a-porter.com, and so i ordered some dresses to get me through the party season, I now have a stunning Roberto Cavalli dress, as well as some nice ones from Dolce and Gabbana ones. I always think a little black dress is the nicest I actually was shocked into finding a fantastic petrol grey pleated strapless dress from new look, which incidentally they now stock in purple a steal at £40, see guys I mix designer and high street with the best of them.

I have quite a hangover today so as I'm chatting with you I am waiting for the concierge to come back with a bacon sandwich, luckily as I always give good Xmas tips then he will do just about anything for me. Bless him. X thinks he has a little crush on me but he's old enough to be my grandpa - what is it with me and old men :)

So now I am off to the hairdressers today for some hair extensions I had the POB a few months ago, but I miss having long hair even though X loves to run his fingers through my hair, admittedly they get stuck if he tries with my extensions in. Then I am off to a nail appointment, then I have a make-up artist coming round, I am only going out with the girls round London, but us lot meeting up is like a fashion photo shoot. Tonight I am going to be wearing my slate grey dress from New Look and a pair of Black 5" Christian Louboutins. My dress always gets talked about and everyone is shocked that it is high street. I'll let you know about all the other fashion tomorrow

Have a fab nite out girls


Jess Bunny xx

Friday, December 14, 2007

Christmas is coming

OMG yesterday I had a phone call to make sure of the date to drop of a brand new series 7 BMW. It's coming here in two days, I haven't told X I know ill let him think its a surprise, I always seem to get a car for Christmas last year he got me my Range Rover before that I was driving a rental Porche but then for Xmas I got a big black Range Rover. I also got 5 pairs of Louboutins, diamond tennis bracelet, and a shopping trip to New York with 3 of my closest friends. As for him well its hard to buy a man who has everything anything, and of course its got to be something that the "wife" wont notice, so i got him a brand new Hermes briefcase. That's what was on the top of my list this year a Hermes bag but I suppose I'll just have to wait and see.

Christmas is a weird time of year for us as we don't spend Xmas together as he has to spend it with his family, but that's fine it just means I get to go home for 2 weeks and spend some time with my family. They don't know that I am in this kind of relationship, they think that I have a extremely well paid job being a PA to someone very big in the financial world, hence the fake name, lol.

Even though in my first post I let you know how me and x got together I should probably tell you that before that I was looking to be a sugar baby, it was something I came across on the internet and had a lot of money problems, in my mind the websites don't really work, there is a lot of chat and not much action, but the best one I found was http://www.seekingarrangement.com as this one is free to send and receive emails, lots of the site say its free but then you can only put a profile up. I met one guy through seeking arrangement and to be honest he made my skin crawl, he hadn't put a photo up and when we met he was the 60 year old with missing teeth and really fat, I sat trough dinner out of politeness then he asked if I wanted to go to his room, UCH I just got up and walked out letting him know that was a hooker he was looking for not a SB, EWW I still feel sick talking about it.

So let me know what are your experiences with these websites.

Jess Bunny xx

Thursday, December 13, 2007

Life as a Sugar daddy WAG

I would say I live the life that most women can only dream of, I have the knowledge that I can go into any shop at any time and buy whatever I want. Yes I have to work hard to keep in shape I mean why would my SD want a fat SB, he likes me to keep in shape, and with all that he gives me that's the least I can do for him. I do yoga every day and work out with a kettle ball twice a week. I am a size 12, so not too skinny but I make sure the curves I have are only in the right place. As I have said before I wouldn't say I am extraordinarily beautiful, I have the girl next door kind of look so it goes to show this lifestyle isn't just for models, anyone can be a sugar baby.

Now when it comes to style I would say I model myself on a WAG, always up to date with fashion and always looking polished, I would say to be a successful SD WAG you need to make sure you have a polished look. If you can't afford designer but you want to be a SB then go high street, just make sure you look well put together and always spend as much as you can on shoes and handbags, as these will make any outfit look expensive. Dune or Office do some fantastic shoes at good prices.

When I say you should look polished I mean your hair should be done, your make up well applied, tide marks around your chin wont attract a SD, if you chip your nail polish between manicures then remove it and go for a neutral shade until you can get to a nail salon. Most SD WAGS i know have a tan, now sunbeds are bad for you skin so go with a spray tan but NEVER, NEVER do it yourself, in some places you can get a good spray tan for as little as £10. And this is really an investment in your future.

Never thrown too many looks together this will intimidate a prospective SD, you want to look classic, he needs to know that people would walk down the street and think "yes she looks good", you want girls to be jealous of your style and men to want to know more about you. If you go to high fashion SD will be intimidated but if you look like you don't care SD won't want to know. Think Jessica Alba, Alex Curran or colleen. Victoria is just too high fashion at the moment.

If you have any questions, leave my a comment

Jess Bunny xx

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Wednesday, December 12, 2007

Hi and welcome to my blog

Hi, my name is "Jess bunny" I live in what some people would call an odd lifestyle, people have been known to confuse my lifestyle with a hooker. I am with a guy who is 52, Oh I forgot to mention I am 23, he is a wealthy guy who loves to shower me with gifts and expensive things. Yes he is married, and yes he has kids one of whom is actually only 21, but we have fun and I live a lifestyle I could have otherwise never had.

So before I start my day to day writing I thought I would write an introduction, I live in London, in a fantastic 3 bed apartment in Kensington, I have a Porche and a Range Rover, and my sugar daddy gives me an allowance of £8500 per month. No I don't work, I spend ,my days shopping and having fun with a few of my girlfriends, most of whom live the same lifestyle as me. You could say we are the sugar daddy WAGS. We all love designer clothes, drive expensive cars and live a lifestyle most can only dream of.

My sugar daddy is a banker, one of my friends is dating a footballer, another a entrepreneur. I wouldn't say I am beautiful just pretty, I have a normal size figure, so I am not a model. So I guess it goes to show anyone can lead this lifestyle if they just attract the right man.

So how did we get together, well I was working selling a gas and electric company on the streets, and he stopped and signed up, he did later cancel but he wanted to stop and chat, he asked me for a coffee I said yes. We started dating and he got fed up of me always working and living in a hell hole whilst he lived an amazing life, just dripping in money. When it was first offered to me I refused this lifestyle but when my credit card got rejected and I could no longer buy myself food, I just thought why the hell not.

Within 3 days of accepting this offer I was living somewhere new, driving my dream car, and shopping in places I would have never thought possible, and so my new life began.

So why am I writing this blog some my ask, well I am fed up of sugar babys getting a bad name, we aren't doing anything wrong men and women have this style of relationships for years its just now it has a different name, so yes you can judge me, but at least I am in love with this man unlike his wife who has told him that she is with him for the money, therefore who is more of a hooker me or her.

Jess bunny

xx






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