Tuesday, January 29, 2008

Its a girlie day yay!!!!

Oh I am so tired now, I have just with all my girls for a catch up, we do this once a week, but for a while I have been missing them or done things with X or just really not been bothered, not cause I don't love the girls but you know sometimes when you just can't be bothered to get all blinged out and looking fabulous, which has to be done when we meet.

Anyway so I got up bright and early had the hairdresser give me a blow dry, and I had some really loose curls put in, now as it was just us meeting there was no need for make up artists and stuff like that but some of the other girls I know, not any of my inner circle don't leave the house until they have been "done" professionally - How stupid is that!! So anyway I had on a pair Victoria Beckham jeans in white, A gorgeous ruffle top from Matalan and a pair of Louboutin shoes, I was looking very chic and I had my Zagalini Python bag in Black, I also had on my Mac from Burberry and I was already to go to the Dorchester for some brunch and a girlie catch up. Now Lucy remember her the newest WAG was in need of consoling, she thinks her SD is cheating on her, no he isn't she is just getting really clingy and he is backing away. I don't understand why she isn't secure in her relationship until she started getting clingy he was the greatest guy, but she seems to be pushing him to his limit.

Calling him 3 times a day just to say hi and stuff like that, now men in general hate that behaviour but SD they can't stand it, that's why they are in this relationship so they don't have any of that crap. I think Lucy is going to lose him if she carries on with this behaviour, so me and Izzie have stolen her phone for the day and kidnapped her to stay in my apartment, we are trying to prove to her that if she doesn't contact him for a bit he will come running, so at them moment we are awaiting some pizza and then it is the start of the girlie marathon, we are keeping her away from her phone for 48 hours just to prove our point, now I am certain that by the start of tomorrow she will have a message from her SD asking how she is and how her day has been, so hopefully she can see that she doesn't need to be so full on, and tat she needs to let him do the chasing for a while. I'll let you know tomorrow if our plan has worked or backfired horribly :)

Does anyone know what happened to Babydoll - her blog has disappeared

Love

Jess Bunny

xx

Monday, January 28, 2008

Choosing your Sugar Daddy

Okay, so lets say you have done all the emailing, gotten rid of those who can't meet your needs and you have the chosen handful. What to do now?

Obviously I mean the first date but who do you see first?, do you see them all? How do you decide? All important questions, so who to see first, my advice pick the one you like the most, even if two are neck and neck they can offer you the same, are both as handsome as the other, there has to be whose email brings a smile to your face before you have even read it. This is the one you go on the first date with, as this is the one yu really want your SD to be, what is the point of going on loads of dates wit prospective SD if you want this guy and he wants you, why leave him till last. If you are lucky he could be your first and only date. This is what you are aiming for one date and then you start your SD lifestyle, why meet someone and then hold on for a few weeks and them meet another when you could have already met a great guy and started with your chosen arrangement. If you want to see if the other guy can better the first guys offer, then I am sorry but you are not looking to be a SB, you don't sell yourself to the highest bidder, you go with what your heart tells you.

Treat this process like you would any other dating experience, if you click stick with him, if not then go back to your second choice. Me personally when I was talking to SD online I would only have one serious prospective SD I would write to and then the others were there in case me and the guy I wanted to be my SD didn't work out. I know some girls have more than one SD but to me this is a Courtesan rather than a sugar baby, who just sells herself to who ever can afford her rather than has a relationship with one guy where neither wants any of the relationship hassle, and the guy likes to take care of and pamper the female.

So to the girl who wrote, you must like one more than the other meet with him first, if it doesn't work out then sure meet the other one but don't play both as you cuold get burned and not end up with either. From my experience of talking to my SB friends SD don't like the feeling that they are a maybe until soemthing better comes along, what happens if you really like the guy you are going to meet on Friday but hold off until you have met the other don't like him, and then turn around and the SD you really like has got fed up of waiting and found someone new. I found with X once I had agreed to this arrangement he wanted to get it moving along quite quickly, others may not be as fast as three days but they won't want to be waiting around for weeks.

I hope this helps

Love

Jess Bunny

xx

Sunday, January 27, 2008

Give him some space

Unfortunately one thing you have to learn when you are in a SD relationship is that he will have to cancel meetings with just a moments notice, especially if you have never met before, X as I have mentioned previously is a banker so at the moment his time is really limited, I mean come on even I watch the news I know there are problems with the markets. I would be a bit more concerned if he could drop everything and come and see you the next day and yet he claims to be a VP if a company. So if he keeps on cancelling your first date remember what sector he work in, and look if there are any issues.

If you are already organising a first date though you should have already got him to confirm his identity with him giving you his companies website and then trying to contact him through the information from the website, whether it be by post or Phone.

So anyway, right now I am sitting with my laptop getting ready to watch My Super Sweet 16 on MTV, I have t admit I love the programmes where the show spoilt little rich kids, it's always guaranteed to make me laugh, looking at kids complaining that they have had the wrong colour BMW, or Range Rover. Before I met X I used to watch those programmes along with The OC, and dream of the day I could finally live like that. It still feels so unreal knowing that, this is how I live my life, I don't have money problems, I can look at things in Vogue or Cosmopolitan and know if I wanted them I could buy them, I still look some days at the things I have around me and just can't believe that they are mine. I have decided not to buy anywhere I am instead going to change where I rent I am moving to the Docklands, to a new 3 bedroom , 2 bathroom flat. The only reason I changed my mind is because there is this awesome flat that has the normal gym, spa, concierge and it has a In-house beautician at least this means I don't have to worry about my mani or pedi chipping I can just call down stairs. Also Claire remember her, she is the one with Russia is also moving into to a apartment there.


I have gotten a little bored of living in Kensington now, and what to live somewhere a bit more young and vibrant and it is still near X's London office so he can pop by every now and then. And it will only be a short car ride away from all the main shops so I am just having X do all the reference checks and then I am moving in ASAP. I can't wait. I have lived in my Kensington Flat now since me and X first got together so it will be like a new chapter in our relationship.

So how about all of you lot have any of you bagged yourself a SD yet

Love

Jess Bunny

xx

Saturday, January 26, 2008

First date jitters

So I went shopping today with one of my non SB girlfriends who cam to London for the day to see me, she has a first date with a guy next week and it got me thinking about maybe writing a blog about what you could expect on your first date, what to wear.

So by now if it's your first date you should have spoken about the financial side of things for 2 reasons. Firstly what's the point of meeting if your expectations of this relationship aren't the same and secondly it's easier to do it over email than face-to-face. You can be bolder and if you disagree with what he is offering it's easier to be polite and say "thank you but we are not on the same level" than it is to do it to his face. Imagine if you are looking for a £6k allowance and he is only looking to spend £1k or under. Also some men are just looking for occasional dates when he has company stuff on, or when he needs to get away from the wife others want like me and X have a full time relationship.

Your emails should help you figure out the ins and out s of the relationship, obviously not how may times you have sex, what positions, but how often you want to see each other, who is going to travel to who, that kind of thing.

Now if you work and it is a dinner date try to get the day of and the day after off, the day of so you can get ready and take your time and the day after not so you can stay over with him just so you can have a think about how it went, if you could see your self with him, this is a important decision and you want to let him know ASAP otherwise he may just move on, obviously you don't have to have the day after but try to get the day of the date.

Don't have a facial the day of the date, or for 3 days before it will bring out any impurities and leave you with bad skin for your date, not great!! You should have had a spray tan the night before so you just need to jump in the shower mid afternoon to get rid of the layer colour, I always leave it till the afternoon as you get a nicer colour and always have it done by someone, don't do it your self, you know it will go wrong!! Give yourself a mani and pedi, go for a nice neutral colour, obviously wash you your hair and style it once you have had your shower.

What to wear? Whilst I was shopping today I saw some lovely Black jeans around I go for DVB jeans but there are just as good ones in River Island, New Look or Topshop. The just a nice smart top, you want to be saying with your outfit, yeah I maybe going some place posh but so what I 'll dress to my style and jeans and a top can never go wrong. And the good things with black jeans is they can be mistaken for black trousers anyway so they look smart. Don't dress like you would for a job interview for a start he has to prove himself to you, not the other way round. Go for the no make up look on the face bright eyes and glossy lips. Look to make sure it applied well, no orange line if you can buy some sponges or as I use a Benefit foundation brush, you can't go wrong with one of these. Oh and lastly don't overpower him with perfume, just go light with it and put it on your pulse points.

OK so on your date, I'll go back to my experiences before X I only took enough cash for my taxi fair there and home, always meet in a bar before you go to the restaurant do you want to be stuck eating with a man who bores you to death no! Trust me it drags for hours and hours. This isn't a normal date don't offer to pay for the drinks he wants to be your SD this is what he should be doing, that is also why the bar is a good idea. Always have a friend ring you after half an hour make sure everything is ok and of course if it's not you can make a runner stating a dying dog :)

Never, Never go to bed with them on the first date, for a start no Sugar Daddy wants to think that as soon as his back is turned that his SB is going with other guys even if you have agreed you will see other people, keep him wanting more, it's classier and men will have more respect of you. Yes this relationship gets rid of the crap of waiting 5 dates and then sleeping together but take my advice you sleep with him on the first date and you have lost him. The second or third is fine but never the first. I always had to kiss a man on a first date as for me if you can't kiss eww, I love kissing and thankfully X is very good at it :) If he say he wants to try before he enters an agreement then fine but he can take you on a little shopping trip on your second date then. Try before you buy is saved for the deli counter.

Don't get so drunk you fall about, and keep an air of mystery, if he asks how you think things have gone, then tell him. Izzy told her SD that night that yes she wanted a arrangement with him and it worked out well but she didn't sleep with him that night either.

Well I hope this helps some of you

Love

Jess Bunny

xx

Thursday, January 24, 2008

House hunting.........

OMG, I can't believe Heath Ledger is dead ever since I watched 10 things I hate about you I have thought he was a awesome actor, such a shame. I hope the media leave his little girl and her mother alone so they can mourn in peace.

So I have been going into estate agents lately and looking a properties for sale, I think I want to live in the Docklands area, I love the apartments there, and X's London office is in Canary Wharf so he could pop by a lot more. I have been told the maximum budget is £5 million. The neighbour actually came to check if I was okay when X told me I was all right as one minute he had seen X coming into my apartment next minute he hears me screaming and banging, that's me jumping on the bed :)

I never expected my budget to be so big and I have seen some properties for about £2.5 million, including a awesome penthouse apartment at New Providence wharf check it out on http://www.primelocation.com it is absolutely amazing and the furniture in there is great too, so maybe if I throw in a bit more I can keep the furniture too, and you want to know the best thing, it's going in my name. So if we were ever to split the flat would be mine, and as he is telling me to pay for it on his AMEX card then no bills will come my way. YAY!!!!

So this morning I have been online and done a bit of shopping on http://www.asos.com I love this shop just because it has stuff that looks like designer but you pay half the price for it, as we all now trends come and go so why pay thousands for a dress that a celebrity has and all the rich women you see about are wearing when you can only wear it a few times and then it goes to my friends, family or OXFAM.

About every three months I bring all my girlfriends form back home up and my cousins put all the clothes I don't want up on clothes rails and some bags and shoes and just tell them to go wild anything that's left over well that goes to charity. The OXFAM on 202b Kensington High street is where I drop my stuff off, next time I drop some off I will let you know, so you can have a dig around and see if there is anything you want and I'll tell you some of my special items. See to all you haters I am not a girl just out for what she can get, I am a girl who has fallen in love with a extraordinary man and I live a extraordinary life, but I know I am lucky and very fortunate, when I first met X I was £14,000 in debt, worked three jobs just to make ends meet and went for days without food, all whilst telling my family back home that everything was fine and that I was loving my time here in London. I had no friends up here, as I couldn't go out as I was always working and any money I made went on my bills. I come from a working class background and my parents worked extremely hard to ensure we always had enough of everything so we wouldn't get bullied for being the poor kids.

So next you want to judge me, look at my background. Well after that rant I think I just defo made my decision about continuing to write or not.

Thanks for reading, even if its just Nikita and a few of the others that have left comments your comments mean the world to me, each and every day

Love

Jess Bunny

xx




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Wednesday, January 23, 2008

Do you know what I'm back!!!!!

Thanks Nikita, I really appreciate what you have said I also spoke to X about it and as he said there are a lot of people who want to be in your position, I started this blog to give help to Girls and guys who want this lifestyle and want somewhere to go without being judged.

So as always when I am upset I went shopping the past few days but for once I went shopping for others, my sister is coming up to visit me soon so I went and bought her some fantastic staples for her wardrobe, no clothes as she is on a diet and doing extremely well. So I thought I'd treat her to some bags and shoes X came with me as he is having a bit if stressful time because of the markets, all I know is the news keeps on talking about a recession but I have no idea what this means, and tells me it won't affect me and him. So on X's advice I bought her 5 bags in total one from Chloe, 3 from Gucci and one quilted bag from Chanel in black, and then 2 pairs of shoes from Christian Louboutin, now my sis has never had some really nice jewellery in her life so X bought her a 8 carat Diamond tennis bracelet which I thought was the sweetest thing he could ever have done, he has never met her but they have spoken on the phone and she gave him the seal of approval. So I can't wait for them to meet, my Sister is really cool so I know she wont tell my parents how old X is just his personality and how he treats me, so X has arranged for us three to have a special meal together so those two can get to know each other.

Oh and remember I said X wanted me to get a wedding band to go with the ring I wear on my left hand on my engagement finger, well he totally surprised me with a diamond band from De Beers, it is just so pretty and the sparkle from it is amazing.

Well I'll see you back here tomorrow girlies and here is where the blogging will come back twice as strong

Love

Jess Bunny

P.S. Does anyone know what has happened to Babydoll, she hasn't blogged in a while

xx

Tuesday, January 22, 2008

Sorry I haven't written in a while

I was deciding whether or not to keep up with the blog although you guys can only see one rude comment which covers the jist of what they are all saying, unfortunately I have been receiving these comments every day about 20 per day each signed off with a different name. But of course it may be the same person I don't know. And it really made me think about continuing with the blog, as I didn't start this blog with the view to be insulated, be called a hoar, or even told that I am a slag, to me these things are hurtful, yes I date a married man and he cares for me financially but this is the only man in my life and the only man I have ever fallen in love with.

How does that make me a bad person? Or any of the things that you have called me, yes I fell in love with the wrong man but I am not married so how am I doing anything wrong.

I am still deciding whether or not to continue with the blog, either way I will have a new entry tomorrow either to say good bye or to start writing about my adventures again

Loves

Jess Bunny
xxx

Wednesday, January 16, 2008

uch I hate staying in......

So for the last few days I have stayed in because of my head but tomorrow well I will be back out with my girls, I can't wait. I am going to go the whole hog, go to the hairdressers, hire a make up artist, go a whole new outfit and god I can't wait.

X has a online account so he can check his bill on the black card andn he has told me today I am not spending enough :) I really landed on my feet when I got him as a SD, I gave him his new watch today, and when I told him it was the first thing I bought him, well he got a little teary eyed and told me he didn't deserve me. He is so sweet and crying and he was just a little emotinal that the first thing I bought off the black card was a present for him. Thankfully X's wife is going away on hiliday again soon, and the 2 youngest well they go to bording school so we can go back to seeing eac other all the time. I dont know why X's wife bothers to stay married to him, after all she can't be that in love with him if she always wants to be away from him. So anyway back to the card he asked me if there was something I really wanted to buy, I said no so he suggested I buy myself another little car but put it in my name, so we are going round some dealerships this weekend he has offered to take me to the Bently dealership so I can look at a Bentley continential GTC in black llok it up its a awesome car, I love the model he has, but it is just the coupe version, so X said he wanted us to have matching cars, how cute is that!! X has also told me that he is putting the Range Rover in my name.

I think he is trying to show me that he is as commited as he could possibly be in this type of relationship which means a lot to me, he has told me before that he loves me, as I have told him too but we don't say this regulary as I think it would hurt us both too much. X asked me today if I would stay wit him for the rest of my life in this situation and I actually told him yes, I have never had these kind of feelings in a "normal" relationship so why would I let that go. And do you know the best thing I think X's wife has a bit on the side, there has been a bit of buzz about this round towm for the last 4/5 months so now all that needs to happen is she needs to get caught and then she won't get as much in the divorce as if he divorced her. X would never leave her penniless but he also doesn't want her to have of his money when all she has ever done is bitch about his long hours and that she has never worked in her life.

Yes you may think that this is abit of a double standard for me, but I have worked from the age of 16, and once I decide what career I want then I will go back to work, but for now X just wants me all to himself and wants to be able to call me whenever he wants and I will be there for him, in reason of course if I have plans that have been made for a few weeks then of course he understand that I can't always flake on my friends, and he knows that it is important for my to have friends who understand this lifestyle and don't judge me. But I know if I said I wanted to work or go to University he would be my biggest cheer leader.

Hope you are all enjoying my blogs, I am lovong writing them and seeing your comments it's what keeps me going and writing everyday, s please leave your thoughts and if you have any questions ask away as you can see I do always answer them.

Love

Jess Bunny

xx

Tuesday, January 15, 2008

I've done a little research for you.......

OK so I was a little bored last night, as I couldn't go out with my girls cause of my headache, it's a killer!!! So instead I went on seeking arrangement and looked at some of the guys on there, obviously I don't know whether the guys are being truthful in their profiles but if they are then seem to be the best around.

I will give you their names where they are from and either their net worth or what assistance amount they are offering. I have some British and some American guys

gosoftly - Houston - $20k+
dfwERdoctor - Dallas - worth
luca the third - London/LA - £10k +
WhostheDaddy - London - worth £5 - £25 million
Richard - London - £5 - £10k
david - London - worth more than £50 million
pierre - London - worth £5 - £25 million
Tiberus - Belgium - worth more than 67 million Euro dollars
SurfMaster - California - $10 - $20k
Pocket Aces - LA - more than $20k

So spell them exactly how I have spelt them when you type in their names, there are probably more good guys out there but I got bored after a while, :) I have converted
all the money except the US $ but if you want to know what they are just halve them. I hope some of you manage to strike up conversations with these guys if you do let me know what they are like so I know if my research was good or not LOL.

I didn't really do much yesterday I had a real lazy day not really getting dressed other than into my Juicy Couture cashmere sweat suit, I love that it's so lovely when you put it on and I drove to Macky D's and ordered the biggest amount of food I could one thing I miss from there is the Cheesy Bites they had over Xmas, oh my god I could eat three bags of them in one go, aprt from the Macky D's I have been doing well on my healthy eating plan, and doing the Jordan workout, I have lost three inches from my waist and inch from each thigh and I feel much more comfortable I have only lost 5 pounds but I much prefer to look Toned rather than a size 0

Well I hope you are enjoying the blog, I love all your comments I show them to X so keep them coming girls

Love

Jess Bunny

xx

Monday, January 14, 2008

Thank you

Thanks for all your get well messages apart form a headache now I fell fine my head is a little sore from where the stitches are and I am a bit afraid to wash my hair but I did that yesterday so it's not like it's too bad.

So it seems a lot of girls are having trouble with meeting Prospective SD, take my advice girls always chat about money before you meet, it is stupid to waste your time with someone who wont meet your expectations If you are on a website specifically for SD dating, the men won't think any less of you for setting out what you expect, do so in your profile then the people who contact you or reply back know what to expect and accept that when they email you or answer to your message, when you have been emailing a few times ask seen as they are chatting to you, if they can meet your expectations. Unless you are chatting to a guy who has up £10 - £20k don't expect this and remember all you British girls the prices are in American dollars so if the amount is $3k - $5k to us British that mean £1 - £3k, that caught me out a couple of time when I was on there, Obviously if you are making first contact to a guy it will probably be a British guy explain that you are looking for £3 - £5k, or put up on you expected assistance $5k - $10k and explain in what you are looking for that you don't expect that much in UK £ but are looking for what it would be at the exchange rate which is £3k - £5k. Go into this knowing what you want, do you want a flat, car and allowance, if so go online at look at flat prices in the area you want, look at contract hire car websites http://www.nationwidevehiclecontracts.co.uk, this is the best one I have found lately, look I even do your research, lol and obviously decide what kind of allowance you want.

Right there are 3 ways to tell if a man is wealthy, look at his shoes most rich guys don't buy shoes off the peg, most guys I know like handmade European shoes even the Americans, look at the wallet I don't mean is it full of money, normally they are made from a soft leather and come from one of the big designers, and lastly there watch this will be a high end watch no Argos or H.M Samuels watch I am sorry but I have yet to find a rich man who isn't all about watches,, how would it look in the business world! Most guys need to Impress their clients no Matter how high up the corporate ladder they are.

Well I hope this has given you some helpful tips, let me know what you think, and of course ask any questions I always answer them.

Love

Jess Bunny

Sunday, January 13, 2008

Its all changed.....

So x's wife has come home so now it's back to getting stolen moments here and there, so once he'd left this morning I decide to use the black card for some retail therapy. As it's made of titanium it is a struggle to get it into some of the card machines, but it works at all the cash points so it's not too bad.

X loves watches so the first thing I bought him was a new watch from Cartier, I also picked up some new diamond and pearl earring for me from Tiffany & Co. I went a little crazy in Office and picked up 7 pairs of shoes, and I bought a new bag from Burberry.
It's weird to think after spending practically every day with him, that I will have to go back to just odd days but hey I knew that this was what I was getting myself in to it's just hard after getting used to having him around. So I took his advice and started looking at some bands, I have decided that I will go with a full Diamond band, either from Tiffany or from De Beers, I have sent him the few I like through email so it will be up to him which one I get, I am so excited to out it on.

So as I know have a limitless allowance I am now going to take my family on holiday to Monaco my dad is a big F1 fan so I just want to show him around. And once summer comes along me and my sister are going to Marbella, X has a yacht so he says we can stay on there it has 3 staterooms and a fabulous deck, my sister is so excited to go and I am so glad I can share this with here.

I did the most stupid thing to day and slipped in the bath and cracked my head open so once I got home from shopping and had my fateful bath I had to go to casualty I have had to have a couple of stitches and Izzie is coming over to stay with me tonight to make sure I am ok, but apart from a headache and feeling a bit sick I am ok, so nothing too serious.

Love

Jess Bunny

Saturday, January 12, 2008

OMG I can't believe it.......

So today I had quite a bit of mail, along with my clothes my Hermes bag finally arrived, so I am so proud, and the best thing of all.

Well X handed me a necklace jewellery box today so I opened it expecting to find a necklace, what I actually got was even better, in it was a BLACK AMEX CARD, if you don't know what this is the Google it is basically a card with no limit on it, I mean it does have one but the limit is a few million, I was expecting this for another few month as I explained, X was going to give it to me for our anniversary. Even his wife doesn't have one, he is the sole card holder, I only know this cause he showed me a statement and on it, it shows her is the only card holder. So I asked what this meant and he said I had proven myself to him that I will stick by him so he wanted to reward me!!! Ha Ha I am so excited, X has said I can spend whatever I want on it there is no limit to my allowance. I think he has done this so he is better than Russia. Men and their egos :) Also he wants me so start looking for a flat to buy, so I think we are getting even more serious, I already wear a diamond ring on my engagement finger but know he wants me to get a band to wear with it.

I know he will never divorce his wife just for the fact it will cost him so much but it means a lot to me that he wants me to wear a band and a engagement ring, its the most commitment a sugar babe can get.

Love

Jess Bunny

xx

Friday, January 11, 2008

A little online shopping

So I know I don't normally do two posts but I am just recovering from my online shopping trip, I was a bit bored and thought I would check out some of the high street websites, I think I went a little overboard Oops!!

Luckily I know with X if there is anything I really really wanted I could just call him up and I could get it, It's very rarely that I spend all of my budget but I am going back home in February for two weeks and rather than have my designer labels shoved in their faces, I prefer to stick with high street labels. So I shall break it down to you everything I have bought and bear in mind I will wear this when I come home as well in fact I shall probably start wearing it when it arrives which is tomorrow as I asked for Saturday delivery. So in Miss Selfridge I have ordered 26 items which total £729.00 in Warehouse I have ordered 13 items which is £558.95 Oasis I ordered 30 items which comes in at £1'220.95 and at my fave high street store River Island I bought 32 items which came to £998.64. That totals £3507.54 which isn't bad when you consider I have bought 101 Items and some of that is leather bags and Jackets, I worked it out that it is about £34.72 per item but thinking about how much wear I will get out of these clothes it's great value. I was just a little shocked as it only took me 45 mins to spend this amount of money. I haven't done something like that since I first became a sugar babe, thankfully X will only laugh when he hears this total as he wears hand made shoes and hand made suits so this is like a drop in the ocean to him, to me though it is still a big deal, I know I bought a Hermes Birkin the other day but that was from X and not out of my allowance.

Don't get me wrong I know I am very fortunate to have such a generous sugar daddy, not many get to live this high standard of life, but I guess I was just lucky in meeting X that he wants to spend so much on me.

Now I am going to take a bath and try to recover over how much I have spent it works out at £78.00 a minute!!! That is bad!!!

Love

Jess Bunny

xx

Do you have to be pretty to be a sugar babe?

OK so G left a comment asking if you have to be pretty to be a sugar babe, every sugar daddy likes something different in a girl, just as in any relationship some guys will find you attractive others wont. But you have to make the best of what you have, so always make sure you are groomed well, make up is applied very well and you hands and feet are looked after. As I have said before always buy the best clothes you can buy, River Island, Dorothy Perkins, Topshop and Oasis are in my opinion the best for those with a small budget. A sugar daddy is ultimately looking for the best Sugar babe he can have, one to show of to his mates and give his ego a massage.

I think all sugar daddy's like their sugar babe to be in shape, so workout not to get thinner but to get toned, there are loads of different workout DVD on the market go to http://www.amazon.co.uk to read up on the reviews you can even rent them from Amazon a kinda try before you buy. Lets be honest you wouldn't like a flabby , overweight sugar dad so why would they want that in a sugar babe. At the end of the day they are providing you with a lifestyle you could not otherwise achieve without quite a few years of hard work and dedication the least you can do is stay in shape for them. And the plus point is whether you are a size 16 or size you will look better in clothes if your body is in shape, the sit better on your frame with a toned figure.

I don't think I am incredibly attractive more of a girl next door, I am not suoer skinny just a comfortable size 10, so really the main answer is no you don't have to look like a supermodel, just the nest that you can!


Hope this helps girls.

Love

Jess Bunny

xx

Thursday, January 10, 2008

My health kick

Before I start I thought I'd say I am missing your comments, I like to know what you think, so please keep up with comments, let me know what you think about my posts
thank you

Well remember I said I had gone on a health kick, well for the past week I have been doing "The Jordan workout" now some of you may scoff and think it is dead easy well I have dropped a dress size so I now wear a size 10 comfortably. When I first bought this DVD to be honest I didn't expect much from it but it does work you can feel it after you have done the workout and especially after the toning part I can hardly work so I have combined the DVD with eating healthy and I am just so much more toned than before.

So finally Lucy came to me yesterday and wanted help with how she dresses as she thinks she doesn't dress as well as the rest of us, she isn't doing badly but as with any new sugar babe who comes into money she got a little label crazy. First we went to the hair salon and got her cheap looking extensions out and replaced with real hair extensions, and took her a nice honey blond rather than bleach blond which doesn't really look great on anyone other than Pamela Anderson! Then off to Selfridges where we worked with a personal shopper at getting her style more refined and more suitable. She bought some really great staple pieces for her wardrobe like a good pair of black trousers from Valentino, a trench coat from Burberry and some lovely tops that can match up with stuff he already has to make her whole wardrobe look better. Next it was off to Topshop and River Island for some of the more Fashiony pieces, me I don't think it's worth paying hundreds if not thousands of pounds for something you may not be able to wear in the spring unless you are going to wear it to death, I look at clothes at price per wear rather than the overall cost. I do tend to be buy the expensive classics and my cocktail dresses from the more expensive designers and I buy the odd few high fashion pieces, but for stuff I know I will not wear so much I stick to the high street or go on www.asos.com. I was always taught you spend as much as you can on a coat, your bags and your shoes.

So Lucy is now looking more put together rather than a girl who has gone wild in the designer shops. As I have said before I looked awful when I first got my budget I was so used to wearing high street I only wanted to wear loud clothes with the big labels so everyone could tell I was wearing designer, now I now it's more fashionable to mix high street with designer. It's great news about Nikita coming to live in London, now she will be able to have even more fun with her sugar daddy lifestyle, will your allowance be going up???

Love

Jess Bunny

xx

Wednesday, January 9, 2008

Back to normal posts

So guys back to normal today, no angry or upset posts, from now on I am going to stick to my posts and reading your comments which are very much appreciated, though I do have to say I am loving the newest blog that's around it's called "a sugar babe in construction" I will put up a link to her post later so you can keep up with her search for a sugar daddy. And of course keep reading Nikitas it is a good blog, and I was just a little over-sensitive probably as my day with X was ruined, I love her blogs it is completely different to mine but good none the less

So I bet you are wondering what I bought with the free rain of a BLACK AMEX, well my Hermes bag, I actually bought a new sat nav as well, which is pink it's actually only from Halfords I was so excited when I found it. I bought a few new pairs of Louboutins from EBAY, along with a new quilted Chanel purse in pink I have it in black and red already but since I saw Lily Allen with a pink on e I have been searching for one and I always seen to miss them so yesterday I managed to get one yay!! I also bought a new dress remember the pink moon dress Victoria wore in LA with the matching Hermes bag, well I have wanted one for ages for when I go out, I haven;t been able to find one I like the Navy looked to secretarial on me and the red just doesn't work with my skin tone, so I went on my fave online shop net-a-porter.com and found one in Dove grey, now I haven't been on net-a-porter looking at dresses for a while or when I have I've been looking for cocktail dresses so I was just browsing yesterday and came across this and well I have fallen in love. I'll be able to wear it when I go for a meal out or dress it down for a day shopping with the girls.

Talking of the girls I bet you are wondering how Claire and Russia are getting along, well very well is the answer, she is moving into a new apartment at the end of the month, beginning of February, Russia has given her his Mercedes SLK to drive until she decides what car she wants permanently and her allowance well to start with her allowance will be £10k - can you believe it that's mad, and it will go up every moth there are together until it reaches £20k!!!! Now believe me I thought my allowance was big but damn!! Now she wont be his only SB he already has 2 others set up on similar deals, what his wife thinks I have no idea but how can she not know? He must hardly spend anytime with her. But if I look on the great side maybe we will have another 2 SB to join our little circle.

On the blog I was talking about earlier unfortunately she has been let down by her prospective SD and unfortunately this happens a lot Claire was on the hunt for a good year and a half before she found Russia, he didn't just fall into her lap, but when she found one well she struck gold. Some girls on the site are just looking at money but girls if you don;t fancy them or there is no chemistry wait until the right one comes along, otherwise you are just behaving like a hooker rather than a SB, make sure he is right for you both financially and physically and then you will have a fantastic relationship with a lot of fun along the way

Love

Jess Bunny

Tuesday, January 8, 2008

Two posts

OK I am writing 2 posts today as something has quite upset me, as you know another blog was set up after mine that gave a completely different life as a sugar babe to mine, mainly as she was a part time sugar babe. Now as I have written on her comments I read it every day and thought it was a fab blog, so today she gets a comment that she isn't telling people about her life and the first thing she does or so it feels like to me is attack what I get as a sugar babe, yes I know I am damn lucky to have such a generous SD and friends that can deal with and understand my life, God as I said before Izzie I met through sugardaddie.com by emailing her to say I was looking for some one to help deal with this crazy lifestyle.

She went on to make a comment about how "she cant flaunt her lifestyle and designer clothes as she has to think about her family" I am sorry but I have a mother, father and 3 sisters who I am all very close to and to who get advantages of my life every time I see them. I don't flaunt or brag about my lifestyle to them you are only getting told about the amazing things as this is what my blog is about, it's not like I ring my mother every other day just to let her know what I have bought.

I am sorry to rant a bit but I don't see why another sugar babe is passing judgement on another one's life, that was precisely the reason I started this blog was so we could share our experiences without fear of being attacked. Sorry to write this post but when I read it, it did really upset me.

Love

Jess Bunny

The topsy turvy world

Uch I am so annoyed, X and me are sitting in the airport waiting to go back to London, unfortunately there is something going wrong with one of X's deals and he is so anal about his work that he won't let his workers deal with it, but he has given me his black card and told me to go crazy once we get back to London. I am not annoyed with X as being a sugar baby I have to expect plan to change and for him to disappear when you enter into this relationship I suppose you expect that and you have to accept it. I am more annoyed at myself for letting myself get so excited about our few days together uninterrupted and peaceful.

X has told me I can spend whatever I like there is no limit so as we speak I am buying for a Hermes Birkin bag on EBAY, it's a lovely tan colour one and is going to cost close to £5,000 but and this is a big but if I was ever to sell this bag I know i could get double the amount for it so it's a investment. I have wanted this bag for ages and the moment X told me I had no limit to shop I knew this was what I was going to buy, fortunately this doesn't eat into my limit either. I also tend to buy most of my Christian Louboutin shoes from EBAY just because they always have the latest styles and I can always find the ones I want in my size. I must buy about 2 pairs a week and the good thing for all you girl who can't tell anyone well tell everyone you got them on EBAY for £100, they sell them unworn and no-one can ever disprove you, you were just the lucky one who found the bargain after months of looking. I think I may jump in the bath and do some shopping online when I get home, to be honest the weather is supposed to be crappy back in London and I can relax whilst I shop.

Seen as I have decided to stick at my blog, I have bought a brand new laptop it's the pink one from DELL I actually showed X my blog last night and he loves it, he thinks I should write more about how good in bed he is though,lol. Typical man!!

So Jenn has asked about talking about allowances, well when I was looking for a SD on the web I used to chat for a bit see if we clicked and beofre I would give out any personal details I would say that before we continued we should find out if our financial expectation met, most guys were happy to do this, I found most men happy to get it out of the way I always said once this is discussed once, we won't discuss it again unless he brought it up and this kept most men sweet. I spoke to X about this and he has said most men have a figure in their mind of what they are willing to spend, but he has told me that to barter would to seem a little desperate if it is your first sugar daddy then I would say when you put a profile up on seeking arrangement then use the box that say financial assistance accepted, therefore if someone replies or contacts you then they are accepting the amount you have stated. Also look at their net worth if they are worth £1 million can they afford £10k per month on top of all their expenses, probably not, so be practical in what you ask for. But don't just jump on the first guy that comes along stick with your search until you find the best one possible for you.

Hope that helps, and I just got conformation that I have won the Birkin, I can't wait, I am so excited.

Love

Jess Bunny

xx

Monday, January 7, 2008

The nicest suprise

So remember I said X had said he could top Russia, well my surprise was being woken at 8am and being told to get ready for a day of shopping, so normally when X takes me shopping he likes to take a cab, no point of parking he is so worried about his cars, he thinks someone will damage it, accidentally or not. For those interested he has a Maserati Gran Turismo, a Range rover, a Mercedes and BMW X5, and some old vintage cars, and and he has a Lamborghini, not that he drives it anywhere I think he bought it just to look at, men and their toys ha ha. So back to the day well X told me he had a driver arranged who dropped us off at Heathrow, now my mind starts racing, thinking a day trip to Milan or Paris or maybe even Dublin as they have great shops over there, but no he does one better and takes me to Manchester I have been saying for a while that I want to come here and do some shopping so we flew business class, it only takes an hour, and now we have been holed up in The Lowry Hotel, in a gorgeous suite, I haven't actually been shopping yet, the suite is just to nice to move from so we are staying until tomorrow our flight arrives back at Heathrow at 8.45pm I think so tomorrow X has told me will be filled with shopping. I am so excited I am just going to stick to the city centre I think as me and X always get lost going round the boutiques, we both have a bad sense of direction I suppose :)

So once I am back tucked up in my Flat I will let you know what I have bought or probably when we are stuck in the airport, wish me luck HA HA

So all you part time sugar babies, if your man is saying you can't go away yes you can, a little day trip now and then isn't too bad me and X have been to paris countless times on the Eurostar, it takes less time for me to go to Paris than to my home town by train.

Love

Jess Bunny

xx

Sunday, January 6, 2008

X is home

So X is back in the country, last night I had a fantastic night, I ordered a chef who came to my apartment, made Xs' favourite meal, bought some underwear from Agent Provacature, like Ann summers only a bit more upmarket and told X to be around mine for 10pm.

When he came in well I had tea lights all over the flat as the living room kitchen is open plan and the food on the table. We sat and ate food at the dining table and then X got to see my real present the underwear! Well girls I won't go into details but lets just say the smile hasn't left his face yet. :) As the wife is still in Aspen then X is out at the moment buying us some breakfast, luckily we have a very good concierge in my apartment building who knows the best places for everything. I told X about Claire and Russia last night and bless him, he done the manly thing of puffing out his chest and getting very jealous. And saying anything Russia could do he could do better. So I think I have something coming my way, What is it with men and their egos?

I still can't believe Claire has managed to find such a great sugar daddy through a website, if I hadn't seen the presents he bought her I don't think I would have believed her. Oh one thing I should mention Claire is about 5"7 a size 8 and really pretty, but she has one of the kindest hearts, so see every sugar daddy is looking for something different. Now as with most Russians he is married, they marry quite young over there, so don't think you can become their wife, but from what I hear around town they are very very generous with their money.

I am so glad to see this new blog http://shinyobjectsandme.blogspot.com its all about a girl wanting to become a sugar baby so a new take on my blog and from a completely different angle so show her some support girls like you have for me. Oh and nikkita I would do something like I did for X for Adams birthday

I hope you are still enjoying the blog, I am missing your comments so remember to leave your thoughts.

Love

Jess Bunny

xx

Saturday, January 5, 2008

The jackpot!!!

Well my girl has hit the jackpot, remember my friend Claire who was looking for a sugar daddy, well she found one and found a great one, she is know dating a Russian guy, for all those who aren't aware the rich Russians are involved in OIL, so that means he is loaded, she met him through seekingarrangement.com, so girls that site does work. She has proven that.

Now she had her first meeting Friday, they met at Embassy nightclub in Mayfair a little favourite club of ours, they went for a mean and then down to the private members club, you can try getting on the guest list or like us take out a membership as we go there a lot. So from what Claire tells me he was very gentlemanly threw down a couple of thousand as they had a VIP table and basically spoiled her rotten. He dropped her back to her flat which is in a not so great part of town, and she thought that was it until he rung again, which he said he would do next week. Anyway this morning she wakes up and there is a delivery of 2 dozen white roses, with a note on it to be ready in an hour. An hour later a car arrives to pick her up and she is taken to Bond street where her Russian is waiting in Chanel ready to spend. I thought this kind of start would only happen in a book but she has been round with her goodies to prove it, he must have spent another couple of grand on her this afternoon.

Russia has also told her that he doesn't want his "woman" living in such poverty, this with the girl who wears nothing but designer and eats out nearly every night, ha ha!! So he has given her a few properties to look at which he own and has told her to choose one to live in, they haven't spoken about an allowance yet but he doesn't seem like a tight guy, so I think she has definitely landed on her feet, is it bad I am jealous, I love X but this seems like a fairytale, and that is the best part of this relationship, the start of it and the excitement of something new.

So girls my advice stick with the websites they obviously do work, now like I said me and Claire have both been on dodgy dates through it but wade through the bad ones and you will find your golden ticket :)

Love

Jess Bunny

xx



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Friday, January 4, 2008

My first few months

OK so now I have been a sugar babe for a while, it doesn't take me long to spot a new sugar babe, its going to be the girl with the longest hair extensions, the deepest tan, the longest nails and the most designer labels thrown together.

When I first became a sugar babe the first thing I did was get hair extensions, lathered myself in fake tan and did the whole nail extension thing, to be honest at first I was a bit scared to go shopping I mean I went from having say £300 per month after all my bills were paid to having a budget of £6500 to spend however I liked. I used to find the boutiques and Bond street so intimidating, I hate the shop girls who look at you like you shouldn't be in there, once I flashed my gold card about they soon shut up and the filthy looks stopped. And honestly some of them are really nice just let them know what you are looking for give them your budget and their attitude soon changes. My first "big" purchase was a pair of 1 carat diamond stud earrings, it was something I always wanted as they are so classic and go with everything. I walked into Cartier and asked to look at them, I remember being so shocked at the price I even rung X just to amke sure the card could accept that amount, he just laughed as it was no big deal but to me spending £2000 in one go was massive.

My other mad spending spree was going wild in Topshop I remember when I first started on one of my first shopping trips I spent £600 in one go and in Topshop 2 years ago that was a lot of clothes.

I think it's hard getting used to money when you have never had it but don't act like it's a bad thing it's one of the best feelings knowing you can walk into anywhere and buy anything X has a black card and he has told me for our 3 year anniversary I will be getting a additional card, now this is the card that doesn't really have a limit on it at least not one that you could spend any time soon :)

So what about you, what are the best things you bought at the beginning

Love

Jess Bunny

xx

Thursday, January 3, 2008

Let me explain a bit better

So I should have probably explained a bit better how I got to meet X's wife, well a lot of the wives of rich men like to throw charity parties, they like to out do each other with these parties and it ends up being less about the charity and more about them and how lavish the bash is. So my friends' sugar daddy was invited to take a table at one of these events and invited me along, no he isn't aware of me and X, I asked X if I could go, it seemed fair to fore warn him, he knew I wasn't looking to expose our relationship so it was fine.

As the host X's wife had to mingle and I was sitting at my friends table who is considered important at these events as he tends to give a lot at the auctions they hold, she came over to chat, since then I have been to about 3 of these events and that's how we have met. The 22 year old I know through my social scene, the younger girl I know about through another sugar baby and the little boy well he is the apple of X eye, so he talks about him all the time.

I have decided this year to get on a health kick, I don't want to lose weight just get fitter, all the parties are starting to catch up with me I think, so anyway me and Lucy (the newest SD WAG) went an bought a fitness DVD and done it round mine, OMG I didn't realise just how unfit I was until I put this on. Now I could just take the easy route and have that new thing liposculpture but because I just want to tone up I know I am going to have to stick at it, the last bit of exercise I used to do was using a "lateral thigh trainer" I do have a treadmill in my flat but now it just holds my shoes and bags. Oops ha ha!!!

So X will be home tomorrow, so I am planning a special night in, it's weird how you miss your SD, but never tell your SD that you miss him in a whiny voice, when I first started I used to say I missed kissing him or the sex, it's a roundabout way of saying you miss him, but he wont start to think you are getting clingy or that you are demanding more of his time, do this and I can guarantee he will run a mile. I didn't tell X I missed him until he said one day when we hadn't seen each other for a few days he missed me and even then if he says that don't make a big deal out of it. Once X left I was jumping round but whilst he was there it was just a case of saying "yeah I missed you too" and moving on. Then I look like I miss him but don't need him which is what a SD needs to feel, they don't want to feel like your ATM machine but they don't want you to turn into a nagging girlfriend, they have that at home.

Loving all you r comments guys, is there anything specifically you want me to write about, any problems or suggestions are always welcome.

Love

Jess Bunny

xx

Wednesday, January 2, 2008

A brand new year

Well 2007 flew by for me, I think I really learnt how to handle my lifestyle and this year well now I am in my stride, I have good friends, great family and a fantastic man, who incidentally in coming back from Aspen early, him and the wife had a big row, her loss my gain.

So maybe I should tell you a bit about X's wife, I have met her a few times, she has the typical rich wife look, she is 38 had too much plastic surgery and way too thin. I have seen photos from when she was younger and she was absolutely beautiful but now well she just looks jaded and too plastic. X has 3 kids one is 22 another is 18 and another is 14. I know the 22 year old from the party scene and she is a fab girl, she is training to be a doctor and has her head screwed on right. The 18 year, god what a nightmare, have you ever seen "my super sweet 16" on MTV well she is just like that, a spoiled brat, X gives into everything she wants, but hey that's none of my business. The 14 year well from what I hear he is a little heartbreaker in school but really down to earth.

So anyway lets not talk about that, it's unimportant to us sugar babes, lets talk about New Years eve, well my plans never really came to, we ended up staying at my apartment, 10 friends turned into 40 and a house party was in order, I wonder why champagne gives such a devastating hangover? So the apartment suffered a bit a lot of wine and champagne was spilled but it was a fantastic way to spend new years eve, we could see the fireworks from my roof terrace. But devestating new I broke the heel on my Jimmy choos, a remembrance ceremony will be held tomorrow :) ha ha.

I am so excited for snow tomorrow, I am like a child when it comes to snow.

So a brand new year, what are my plans, well definitely going to keep up with the blog, I love reading everyone's comments and its good to know I can help a few of you new babies out there, I know how hard it was for me when I first started. I think I may look at doing a part time course in something, no idea what but something else to keep my brain working, a well this year X has promised me we will go on Safari, it's something I have wanted to do for a few years and this year I am going to make it happen. What else well one of my friends from home is coming to live with me she wants to be a singer so she is moving to the capital in with me yay!!! Lots more fun to come.

So my new years resolutions are to continue to be thankful for the life I have, to smoke less, not eat so many bacon sandwiches and to alays try to be home beofre 4am after a night out

Hope you all had a good new years eve

Love

Jess Bunny

xx