Saturday, August 29, 2009

Back on the sites

Well I am back to going on seekingarrangement.com but to be honest I find that sugardaddie.com has a better choice for UK daddies, they have more choice of new people it seems its always the same people on SA.com and to be honest I get more emails from SD.COM so its a better ego boost hehehe!

And trust me my ego is needing it at the moment I have put on a couple of pounds and look out of shape, I have attached a picture its not pretty girls, I have also changed my hair colour so letting your see that as well, have gotta hit the gym though so if anyone knows some good tips for tonight up and losing weight let me! As cant really afford a gym but wont be confident until I am back in shape its a bloody double edged sword.

So back to sd.com I have 8 messages waiting for me but at the moment with all my furniture costs and paint for the flat cant afford the £22 membership fee, it feels like I have taken such a huge step back and this is the kind of situation I was in when I first met X, so have been thinking a lot about him lately.

He is still texting and emailing but am still staying strong and no answering back Go me! :)

Now onto my girls the are all still really good, Izzie is coming to visit me next week once I am in my flat, claire has been dumped by the russian, but is out on the London scence and meeting bankers everywhere who love those trashy champagne bottles with sparklers in them!! LOL you gotta love them they are like Eurotrash hehehe. And Lily well fingers crossed she has a job coming up but has had to move back to our hometown but is travelling back and for for auditions

I hope I have some dates soon, thats what I really miss and now am living alone will make it a lot easier to go on those dates, so any SD's reading please ask away now hehehe!



Jess Bunny
xoxox

Tuesday, August 25, 2009

An update

Well fingers crossed I am moving out next week, its a very grotty one bedroom flat but it will be my own as much as I love my folks living with them is a pain in the ASS!! Especially for my sugardaddy dating its hard to explain where you are going.

I have a date fingers crossed with a nice guy from Germany, he is willing to come over to me, only has time to meet for a few days each month which is great for me but can work with my budget. woo hoo!! Not gonna get too excited though as we all know where a lot of these men lead to, thats right nothing,lol.

I havent been online as my net is playing up at the moment, might have something to do with me not paying my bills but hey who knows lol.

Well I am off to read everyones blog and get myself updated will give more of a update tomorrow

Love

Jess Bunny

xox

Tuesday, August 4, 2009

Me and X

Well to stop all the debate no I would never ever get back with X to put me in a situation which to one of his clients makes me seem like a whore, thats doesn't sit well with me. Firstly we had been together for years so it wasn't like it was something new where he didn't know what my reaction would be, secondly he was the one who asked when we first started dating that I dont date other guys, which to be honest I wouldn't have anyway. We started this relationship as more of a mistress rather than a SB and just because I was his SB does not in any way mean he can degrade or belittle me.

If anyone was too except that just because they are a SB then me personally I think you are a fool, and you need to work on your self worth before you get into a SD relationship. No man whether he is buying you things or not should put you in the position X put me in. As for him emailing me, yes he emails me every day but no he never gets a reply and if he ever wants to know my thoughts on him he knows this blog address I am quite happy for him to read.

Ladies to suggest that I should accept this mistake because it isnt a normal relationship, I think if you would be willing to accept it you are selling yourself short, regardless of the type of relationship you are having, you SD should respect you regardless of the size of allowance you have.

I am loving the debate though ladies and this is just my thoughts on so please no one take offence but remember ladies, we are LADIES not whores, and just because a guy buys us things doesn't mean that he shouldn't respect you in the same way he respects any other woman.

If he wants to treat you like a whore treat him like a john I guarantee he wouldn't like it or accept it and neither should you.

The way I sum this up is if you had a BF who bought you some clothes or a piece of jewellery could he then offer you around to his friends, no this isn't the same type of relationship, but RESPECT is something all relationships should be built on whether it is a SD or BF relationship.

Remember debate is always healthy though :)

Love

Jess

xoxox