Date outfits

I always get emails asking what to wear on a first date with a new pot.

Here is my advice from what I have learnt, SD's arent too fashion forward so whilstn you should keep up with the trends men are simple creatures and whilst you may get the odd one or two who are really on trend, really out there wont work. So keep it simple but well presented.

I always wear a dress when I meet a pot but then thats my personality. I am a girly girl and most of the time I am always in dresses, I only own 1 pair of trousers, being a hourglass I work with what suits me.

Always make sure your shoes aren't dirty or scuffed, and that your bag isnt falling apart as these always bring a outfit together. If you have painted your nails make sure no chips, if you haven't make sure they are clean.

Dont plaster yourself in make-up, men hate this and dont try out new looks on a date, trust me i did it and I was so self-concious because it wasnt what i was used too. Same with hair dont try anything new just make sure its clean and your happy.

At the end of the day if your comfortable you will be confident and girls we all know confidence is what attracts a guy, if you seem uncomfortable a guy will either think its to do with them or that your uncomfortable with yourself.

So however you want to dress you dress, they have seen your pics they know what you look like, remember ladies they are lucky to be having a date with us.

We are young confident beautiful women and we do not ever need to sell ourselves short

Love

Jess
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Another post

This is just my thoughts as had a email through FB stating may need to do a repost on sugar negotiaitions, now remember this is just my thoughts on the situation.

Girls who take a pay per visit now me personally that isn't a SB that is a escort situation. The whole concept of a SD in my mind is having a guy who you know month in month out will provide you with a set amount.

Now yes starting to talk about an allowance is hard but at the end of the day if you have met through the net, then he either was on a SD site or through a listing on CL - just have to say how annoying are the people who flag our posts on CL. I dont flag yours cause your ugly!!! - Anyway the hard part is done you both know why you are talking to each other, if he tells you it seems like its only about money with you. You can polietly state thats not the case but before you continue a chat then you thinks its reasonable to know to know both of your expectations meet.

If they dont then you can polietly state you are looking for different things but you wish him well with his search.

I couldn't do multiple SD's but thats me, for one I have a crap memeory so that would work against me. Secondly in my view the guys I have met have always at least stated they could afford my allowance therefore I have no need for another. Chicago sugarbaby was so right when she said know what you goals are.

Like her I know what I want out of this.

I plan to set up a savings account. I want to have a deposit for a house
I have got myself into some debt since me and X split so want to clear that and get to perfect credit once more.
I want to be able to live a WAG lifestyle for the time I am putting myself through University, its just a bit of fun and not my life long ambition to become a WAG just like how they live.

I want to give myself security for the future so any money I do get and this time I am asking for a allowance of £2.5k, I now have a little bar job I am doing my studies, so If I give myself £1.5k a month to spend like crazy I will have £1k to put into savings even if it only lasts a year I will have 12 grand thats I wouldn;t have had anyway and lots and lots of shoes again.

Of course I have the silly stuff I want, like I want to own a Hermes Birkin again, I want lots of Louboutins and I want to holiday when I want where I want. These are the dreams we all have when we begin this journey and they are good things to aim for but just remember ladies, always think of the bigger picture and life after your SD

Love

Jess Bunny
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New pots

Firstly thanks everyone for your well wishes, no I dont know who the girls are, and yes the police are invovlved they are looking at CCTV so see if they can find the incident.

Now on to the good stuff girls, I have a new pot and when I say he is googable damn is this man googable. I only typed in his first name and 100's of entries came up about him including his society wedding and then divorce. He is early 40's which is good and him and his family actually own the company he works for!!! kerchiiing!

He did ask me to meet him where he is now, but well me and flying to meet guys for the first trip it just doesn't happen. For a first meet I am happy to go to them if it's still in this country and I have a hotel booking made and transport to and from paid for by them, or they can come to my home town by no I wont go out of this country.

Now back to my Pot, I'll call him Mr Public, I have entered in his email address and this site came up with a load of email address for bad SD's and all someone had written was is married!!! I am sorry girls but this is sugar daddy land most of them are!

So anyway thats my news ladies

Love

Jess
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Well what a weekend

Well ladies what a weekend in 2 weeks I was supposed to be a new Pot, thanks to the weekends event I have had to cancel with a really lovely guy.

Basically on my way home I was jumped by a few girls and now have a split lip and chin, a messed up hand, broken ribs and concussion -Great!!! First thing I knew about it was coming round in hospital Sunday afternoon!

Made me quite scared of going out now which is going to make meeting Pots a bit difficult though I do always take precautions giving a friend his details, which site he from, my log in details and his screen name, but this has quite shaken me so am undecided as to what to do!

Well just giving you a update whilst I read up on everyone Else's adventures

Love

Jess Bunny

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Just a quick one

I am having a internet dongle posted out to me soon so will be back blogging like before sorry to keep coming and going but all that will be fixed soon

Love

Jess Bunny

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Joined some more sites

So I have joined up some of the new sites that have popped up since I have been gone like classyarrangements.com and established men, but I have to say I don't hold out much hope for them as they don't really seem that well organised or legit, but hey they are free so I am not going to complain, but girls what are your experiences on them. where are you finding your sugardates?


It feels weird writing and not having any experiences to write about, but hopefully I will fix that. I found when I was living with my parents it was hard to get away for dates without too many questions as most of them were with me spending time away. Now I am living alone then it is a lot easier well now I finally internet again.

I have noticed since I have been away a lot more blogs are here and some of them I love reading but some of them, and this is just my opinion, it seems they treat pots like johns and are trying to do £££ per visit, for me and again just my opinion its not about per visit but builiding a relationship with a guy who can support you, even if that means it taking a longer time to find him. After all its hard enough to keep up with one guy let alone more, and we all know how demanding SD's can be for your time.

Love

Jess Bunny

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A lot tougher

I have noticed that this time round I am being a lot tougher with the guys and stating what I want, after all this isn't the time for a softly softly approach when it comes to knowing if they can actually afford me. And then I can take the softly softly approach knwing that they are who they say who they are and understand what I want out of this relationship.

I have had some fun catching up on everyones blogs and so good to see people are starting to get close to finding their guy. I still notice though that some of the newer blogs still treat their prospectives like johns rather than potential SD's for me having multiple SD's isnt what its about its about being able to find he one guy who can give you everything you want and need. But hey thats just me.

Whether it takes a year or 2 I know I will find the right SD who can give me everything I want out of this relationship I also have to say a massice thanks I never imagined when I started this blog that I would have had over 15000 readers AHHHH thats so exciting.

Oh forgot to say I start my Open university law degree this month I am so scared but excited cant wait to either be a prosecution lawyer or coperate lawyer

Love

Jess Bunny
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Also I found this fab thing where you can do a shopping list which others can buy from so will now be do that so when I meet a prospective or potential will just direct him to that will be good for birthdays as well I suppose. And good for when I have a SD can think about what I need properly the boring things for the home lol.

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Well its been over 6 months and a lot has happened I have moved out into my own flat but havent been online just because I cant afford the internet.

I am using it from the library from now on though, as I do want to continue in a search for a new SD. I have managed to rejoin sd.com and am chatting with a few guys but nothing to write about yet, so just a hello to ttell you I am back and sorry for it being so long now I am off to catch up on everyones blogs and will be hopefully chatting about my adventures soon

Love

Jess bunny

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