Living the sugar daddy lifestyle

Thank the lord they have finally given me my accounts back

2011-02-24T23:27:00.000Z

Well its been a struggle but finally had my blogger and facebook account given back after someone took them and changed the passwords and then wrote to the companies saying my email address had been compromised and changed a load of stuff. The weird thing is though they have never actually done anything with them so why take them??

Anyway enough about them more about my stuff I am still with X and we are doing very well, I am still working though only part time 3 days a week and I am still doing my Law degree. My allowance is back upto £10k per month though to be honest if I wanted more I could just ask, but I also have my own money coming in as well not loads but enough and this time round its not just all about the cars and the bags, its about making a life for myself. But hey don't get me wrong I am still loving my fashion and my bling hahaha!!

I am back to wearing a band on my wedding finger and I know what I have with X is amazing and thank the lord that I don't have to be looking.

Well Valentines day has been and gone and X was very generous, with stuff for the flat and for me. I got a lush new 52" TV,a ipad, a lush new buttery leather corner sofa after I put a big cigarette hole in my other one, a new desktop apple computer for all my uni work. And for the fun stuff some 212 sexy perfume along with Sarah Jessica Parker Lovely perfume. A stunning new Diamond ring, a victoria beckham hexagonal crocodile skin bag, a couple of pairs of ysl tribute shoes and chrissy loubs and a lush new mulberry bayswater bag. I was very spoiled but this is because we didn't do xmas gifts really so was a bit of a combination of both.

Love

Jess Bunny
xoxox

I had to stop blogging whilst i thought things through......

2010-11-13T18:34:00.000Z

I know I left again but I had to make sure I was making the right choice for me and not for any other reason.

So yes me and X are back together and I am a SB again with an allowance and such but there is a big difference I am working and am still going to school to do my law degree. I am determined that this time I wont make my whole life about being a SB. I am jess first and a SB second.

Now down to the things you ladies wanna know lol. My allowance well that is at £7500pcm and he covers my rents, and also I am going to do out my flat. I am going car shopping sometime next week, though can't get anything too flash due to work, they might think they are paying too much hahaha! So am thinking maybe a bmw or a mini.

Now there is one picture I am dying to put up but my computer wont upload it for some reason I have a red birkin again yay!!! :) I may see if filming a video works better.

Well will let you know more tomorrow, just wanted to say hi!

Love

Jess Bunny
xoxox

Finally have the internet back again!!!

2010-10-04T22:48:00.000+01:00

So sorry about the delay in writing but my internet was playing up and when I went over to the library to update for some reason they had blocked blogger.com. But X has given me a PAYG internet dongle with £500 loaded so that should keep me going for a bit.

Ok so X well I have been on a date with him since I last wrote and a lot of our issues were resolved especially over what he did for us to break up. I told him how I felt and to be fair the man held his hands up, and said I fucked up, and was trying to act like the big man! Are we back together no, do I get an allowance from him no, but I have told him I will think about it, with some rules in place.

I wont move back to London - I got too wrapped up in his world, and with my grandfather dying in July its made me realise I dont want to, nor can i be away from my family at the moment!

It wont be a case of me dropping everything for him - I have built up a new life for myself again and wont be running to him on his demand.

As before there are to be no others - of course there is still the wife, but if I was to hear about another SB we would be done.

And finally the money I gave back to him, when our relationship ended I want back this may seem weird but I gave that back in anger and this time I wouldnt be doing something as dumb as that!

And he has agreed to those points and put some off his own in, but his I will keep to myself, as they are more personal to him and people who knew him or his circle would know who I was talking about.

But still something holds me back back I have told him I will give him a decision by the end of the month. But in the mean time he has sent me another present a lovely pair of Louboutins will add a picture for you they are just a standard pair but they will help me when I am going on my job interviews, yes that will also be something thats different I will be working I will not depend on a man again and to be honest I think I would be bored going back completly to my old life but we will se what happens.

Love

Jess
xoxox

Okay so he is trying to Woo

2010-09-16T15:40:00.001+01:00

I was annoyed this morning woke up at 8am because some idiot was pounding on the door, so I ran down stairs and shouted fuck off. Only for some poor man to say "I am sorry, I just wanted to deliver this parcel" How frikin bad did I feel. Its just I ended up having friends over late last night they had been out and cause I was poor I couldn't go so at 12am they all poured into my flat, and lets just say a lot of fun was had, the last person didn't leave till 5am!

Well anyway I signed for this parcel thinking it was stuff I had ordered from Amazon for my Law degree. But no on top is single white rose, and underneath was two bags from X. God that man knows my weakness! And a not saying until I agree to go back to him, he will send me a gift so I am thinking right I am not going back to him for a year hahaha! I'm joking!

God this man knows how to work me this morning he sent me a bunch of white roses with a note saying for you nanni! The man remembered my nan's birthday, even I didnt till my mam rung and reminded me yesterday. So not only is he working the materialistic angle but he knows how important my family are too me. I cant believe how hard he is trying I am just shocked, maybe its cause I am feeling weak still cause of my bampi's death. The first grandparent to have passed and the fact he fought so hard for 7 tyears against cancer for it to take him so quickly, when the doctor was pleased with how he was doing has just broken me.

But to know I am missed by him as much as he misses me, and the thing that made me laugh a picture of the black AMEX card with my name on it and a note saying how the AMEX has missed me. I love little jokes like that!

But do I want to go back, I know I will never find another SD like him and certainly not one who will give me an allowance like he did, but can I really go backwards when I have only just started going forwards!

Love

Jess

xoxox

Oh by the way I have posted a video on my facebook profile so you can see me and see that I am real and do look like my pictures lol!

xoxox

Oh and here are my pictures of my presents of X

2010-09-15T11:45:00.000+01:00

Ok so here is a link to a picture of my presents. Aah I love these scarfs and X knew that and still remembered!

Oh and have just realised its grey not white, but god they are so cute! I have spoken to X and thanked him and we ended up speaking for 2 hours but just still stuck over what to do! Aaaah my heart is telling me yes but my head is a muddle!

Love

Jess

xoxox

Jealousy is a terrible thing

2010-09-15T11:36:00.000+01:00

I understand the temptation of going this route, but it isn't right, now is it? Make no mistake about it, you shouldn't and probably deep down you don't, respect yourself. You can make your life whatever you want it to be. If you are in love with someone and you struggle financially, you find a way to make it work. You don't become some rich guys whore, and trade your dignity for material things. Sorry."

This is the comment I woke upto this morning, it was on one of the early blogs where I was still with X and leading the high life, all I can say is jealousy is a terrible thing sweetheart! People make me laugh when they judge the SB life if you dont like it dont read about it why come on someones' blog just to judge them, you must have been looking for stuff about sugarbabies. That makes you very dumb!

Now I keep getting emails asking how to get gifts on a first date or shall I sleep with him on first date to get an arrangement started. My answer NO! This isn't the deli counter its not try before you buy, this is the start of a realtionship and me I dont believe you shoudl give it up on the first date, if he isnt happy with that, then lets be honest he will probably keep you around for a little bit and then you wont hear from him again it wont be a long term thing! And that's coming from my experiences and others who have contacted me wondering why the guy has stoppeed contacting them or taking their calls.

Any guy can flash the cash for a couple of weeks for a day at a time, this is the long game not short term!

For me a pay per visit is not a sugarbaby that is an escort and I do not mean to offend someone if thats what they choose, but a sugarbaby is more than meeting for dinner and sex and getting a evenlope of cash and then your on your way its about finding a guy you conect with, that can help you financially, or with gifts, or with living a lifestyle you want to!

After all there are a number of SB types but for me the main three are:

Allowance SB - a SB who wants an allowance month in month out, the most standard of SB's really its the holy grail of SB's as there arent many SD's out there who are looking to do this!

Gift SB - the SB who just wants some expensive gifts, to be taken shopping, taken on spa days, the odd week away. To be honest this is the most common SD as most men can't afford to be the Allowance SD without their partner becoming suspicious if they have one, or have the time to justify the allowance most SB's want!

Lifestyle SB - this is the SB who just wants to live in the lifestyle maybe being taken to polo, going out to the best resturants, stay in the best hotel, go to the nicest holiday destinations, this SB doesn't wants gifts or an allowance she just wants to live in the lifestyle for a couple of hours a week or month, this is also more fitting of the Sb who also just wants a mentor!

So for me girls my best advice stop giving it up so quick! And stop with the mulitple SD's no SD wants to feel like he is just one of many after all most SD's have big ego's just some of them have the wallets to match!

Now whats going on in my life I was in london over the weekend seeing Izzie, and who did I run into but X!!! I didnt sleep with him but I did give him my card with my address and telephone number! We spoke for hours and well the spark has never gone, so I get home and my neighbour stops me and says she has a package for me that got delievered on sunday.

I open it up and inside are 3 Alexander McQueen scarfs one pink, one white and one black!God this man knows my taste so well.

There was also a not inside now I am not going to tell you everything but basically he tells me he is sorry, that he still loves me and wants me back in his life! And I am seriously thinking about it. I never stopped loving X and to be honest no-one has compared to him in the SD dating world or the regular dating world!

If I do go into it again though some stuff will be changing for a start I wont be moving to London I love my life back home and being so close to my family especially after my bampi passed away so recently I still can't believe its coming upto 2 months that he left us! And secondly if I do give him a second chance this is it! Any mistakes and he wont see me again. I have been pretty good at not contacting him and not weakening, but after my bampi passed I realised life is too short and everyone is allowed one mistake in a relationship and can I really let that one mistake wipe out all the years of happiness!

OOh have been reading loads this past 6 months from a woman called Lousie bagshawe her books are amazing and are all about women coming from nothing to an amazing life. Hopefully you will love them as much as me!

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Venus Envy Venus Envy

All set for the search

2010-08-29T11:36:00.000+01:00

Ok so I have just re-done my profile on SA.com as finding that I have no luck on there at the moment, none of my emails get replies and dont tend to get emails on there. I find my best luck in on SD.com and woke up to 6 emails this morning but can't say I liked one of them. Maybe I am just getting too fussy LOL!

I have been chatting with a few guys on SD.com but I am bored of coming across profiles that state I am not looking for an arrangement or to give an allowance, then I am sorry sweetie but what are you doing on a sugar daddy dating website!! OOh it makes me so anygry and I am hoping that if I do finally find a sugar daddy that they will fund my website so us girls dont waste our time with fakes, and the guys don't waste their time with girls who never want to meet.

I think I will do a 3 strikes and your out option if you say you'll meet and dont after 3 times your off the website that will make it so much easier for both sides then. I know I have been guilty of it myself where you say you would like to meet up with someone but then get chatting to a better prospect and forget about the other one. But I amtalking about the girls who continusally do it.

Well my little rant over, now if anyone fancies helping me out on my profile let me know hehehe!

Love

Jess
xoxox

So I am trying to come back

2010-08-27T17:33:00.000+01:00

Well I thought I had met a really great guy in Mr Builder our date went so well and we were planning the next one, then my Bampi died and I just fell to pieces, although he had battled cancer for 7 years we didnt expect him to go so soon. It just seems everytime I get there something happens, is this a sign that I should just forget it.

So with Mr Builder I just put of emailing him or texting him and now its been a month since the last contact so its too late. I am talking to a few guys on SD.com but no-one really seems worth it. I am looking for an allowance of £2k per month as with my grant from my studies as am now doing my law degree part-time that will be plenty to live off, obvisouly as ime went on I can look to add other things such as a car hired in his name and such but for now £2k seems good. And to be honest in this market and economical time its not that expensive, after all the men I go for are supposed to be multi-millionaires!

How is everyone else finding the sites, any tips for the best ones at the moment. Wish I could get up to London more and hit the clubs as that would be the best way to really look for a sugar daddy.

Have been reading a lot and have added links to the books I have been reading I adore Lousie Bagshawe she writes about the kind of life all us girls want to live so check them out if you can!

Well I do promise to keep up with my updates well if anything actually happens, looking at all the blogs though everyone seems to have gone quiet

Love

Jess
xoxox

Search Amazon.com for louise bagshawe

Its date night

2010-07-10T17:04:00.004+01:00

So me and Mr builder have a date tonight, he has travelled down to my hometown and we are meeting at 8pm. he has just checked into his hotel and sent me a picture of the room which from then going on the hotel website which has pics of every room I know costs £175 per night. So I know he isnt a cheap room which is always good! And I know he is definitely in my hometown lol.

Have decided on a summer dress with a fab pair of heels and a little black bag. The dress is actually just from Peacocks which is like Target in America, but have always had compliments when I have worn it. And asked if its from Topshop, so I know its a winner then its a little cardi on over the top. Hhad my hair done yesterday and make-up will be bronzed but natural.

I am actually so nervous tonight, I feel a little sick, first date in a while and after the hassle of my "normal" ex, but its good to be back out there.

Will let you know how it all goes tomorrow!

Love

Jess
xox

Oooh may have a date

2010-07-05T12:56:00.002+01:00

So I have my profiles up and am getting some good emails from SD.com, but to be honest am not seeing anything I like on SA.com.

I wish I lived in america cause the only verified ones on there are american. I am still really thnking of setting up my own website and having it so that all the sugardaddys have to be verified or they cant join. To me thats the only real way to wade out the fakes, but they I love chatting with some fakes as they stand out a mile off, and love just stringing them along seeming really excited to me the best way to find them out is the guys who talk about how much they have.

In my experience the ones who don't talk about what they have are the ones who have the most! But thats just me!

Anyway a couple of pots one I shall call Mr import as thats what he does, is very googable and I have seen his fb profile so am impressed with him, we talked a few years ago but nothing ever happened but the day i joined he emailed me so will see what happens.

Mr builder is the other pot, he owns his own construction firm but with him he is looking more for a GF than a SB but to be honest I could be open to this, I am single, I am bored of the guys round by me and he seems really lovely. He will be coming to my hometown either on the weekend or by the end of july. He did invite my to go to some Races with him but its on the day of my sisters graduation from University so thats just bad timing.

I keep being emailed about what to do if you dont fancie the guy, uum hello dont do anything then. Me main thing is I have to like and be attracted to a guy to start anything with him! If I didnt then I may as well just become a high class escort, sorry if thats harsh ladies but being with guys you dont fancie and pay per visits just dont for me fall into the catergory of a sugar baby. I am in no way trying to offend anyone that is just my thought.

Sugarbabies get called hookers enough without girls acting like it, I have heard of some girls demanding money to agree to see a guy, if a guy does give you money when you arrive great, it also doesnt mean you have to sleep with him, and I always make it clear that I am going there for an inital meet if they dont like it, oh well I wont meet them then. I do expect a guy to pay for my train ticket so I wont be out of pocket and a hotel if I am staying over but I do tell them they are not gauranteed I will sleep with them, have I slept with a pot? Yes thats cause we got on so well, and I fancied him like hell, but it wasn't cause it was expected.

Well as I said I dont mean to offend anyone thats just my thoughts from my experience of being a SB and what X used to tell me about pot SB's and of course what I have done in my search.

Love

Jess Bunny
xoxox

Hello

2010-07-01T10:27:00.004+01:00

So am you guys will see I have been away from the SD for quite a while, I had some stuff going on that needed to be sorted before I could fully look at going into this lifestyle again. I actually dated a regular guy for a while as well, only 3 months but it didnt work out.

He was a great guy but his ex was a psycho and I didn't need to deal with that. So whilst I have been away I haven't logged into SD.com or SA so am now working my way through all the emails to see if any good pots and of course I am gonna work my way through all the blogs I follow to try to catch up and see if anyone has done it and found a great SD.

So whilst I wish you all luck in your search I hope you will all wish me luck too.

Lets ride together in this bumpy world of SD dating

Love

Jess
xoxox

Is it just me???

2010-02-16T17:06:00.003Z

Or has anyone else noticed that the longer your search continues the more Jaded you become, even if it is a guy who is extremly googable, know his photo is recent and seems really nice, these days instead of finding myself excited I am thinking right whats gonna go wrong with this one.

I thnk my problem is I had it too easy with X I met him in a different way, even though I was on SD dating sites I still met him in a natural way. And of course I was spoilt in what I had off him, and don't get me wrong I am in no way expecting something of a similar standard, my allowance expectation is £2.5 - 3k.

I think the other thing is a lot of men on the dating sites are looking for a easy shag or send you a message or its in his profile that he is not looking to be a sugardaddy, I am sorry then I do not understand why you are on the website. It would be like me joining a "I love darts" website when I dont. A bit of a random comparison but you girls know what I mean LOL.

I wish I was one of the girls who could ask for a present before a meeting or get a guy to send me presents before we meet, but I just don't seem to meet those kind of guys, maybe it's a american thing LOL.

I do have two interesting dates lined up next week hopefully just gotta try and work out my work schedule and of course am going back to my flat tomorrow, couldn't be bothered to go home today so have stayed an extra day, but it does mean I wont have regular internet access which kind of hampers a girls SD seeking!

So how is everyone else feeling about there sugar lives, I see from other blogs I am not the only one who is feeling a bit disheartened by it all

Love

Jess
xoxox

Pride and Prejudice

2010-02-15T18:20:00.002Z

Ok so I am reading Pride and Prejudice at the moment and in there all the women want is a man of wealth, so what is so different to what SB's are looking for???

I am talking a couple of new guys one who looks like Sean Connery only younger and another who his in his 40's and quite sweet! Haven't got a name for him yet, but the other one I will call Mr Connery.

Me and Mr connery are going to have a meet hopefully next week and he will be sending me a train ticket to travel to him, and he offered which is always good!

Well will write a bit more soon though am going back to my flat on Wednesday so will be in drips again. Sorry for that ladies and hopefully it will be sorted soon

Love

Jess
xoxox

Havent really had much to say

2010-02-14T22:12:00.004Z

The stupid dongle doesnt work in my flat as walls so thick I cant get signal but am moving end of this month into a nicer flat so finger crossed will be able to get signal there.

Mr Public well as you know one of our fellow SB's had spoken with him, and after she gave me some advice he did turn to be the same way with me. I was on SD.com replying to some mail and got a message asking why I was cheating already??? Umm hello we havent been on a date, options always need to be open with the amount of fakes and guys looking for a easy lay who are around! So he got dropped!

I am really looking into setting up my own SD website am so fed up of fakes and guys who say I am not looking to be a SD site, umm hello then get off a SD dating website you idiot!!! LOL!

Not sure when I will next be able to post, but will keep you updated if anything happens - on much sadder news the one pair of Loubs I have, I broke the heel, I actually cried after taking them to shoes man who said they cant be fixed, he looked at me like I was mad, but they were my BFF! So now defo need a SD even if its just to buy one pair lol

Love

Jess

xoxox

Date outfits

2010-01-31T19:56:00.003Z

I always get emails asking what to wear on a first date with a new pot.

Here is my advice from what I have learnt, SD's arent too fashion forward so whilstn you should keep up with the trends men are simple creatures and whilst you may get the odd one or two who are really on trend, really out there wont work. So keep it simple but well presented.

I always wear a dress when I meet a pot but then thats my personality. I am a girly girl and most of the time I am always in dresses, I only own 1 pair of trousers, being a hourglass I work with what suits me.

Always make sure your shoes aren't dirty or scuffed, and that your bag isnt falling apart as these always bring a outfit together. If you have painted your nails make sure no chips, if you haven't make sure they are clean.

Dont plaster yourself in make-up, men hate this and dont try out new looks on a date, trust me i did it and I was so self-concious because it wasnt what i was used too. Same with hair dont try anything new just make sure its clean and your happy.

At the end of the day if your comfortable you will be confident and girls we all know confidence is what attracts a guy, if you seem uncomfortable a guy will either think its to do with them or that your uncomfortable with yourself.

So however you want to dress you dress, they have seen your pics they know what you look like, remember ladies they are lucky to be having a date with us.

We are young confident beautiful women and we do not ever need to sell ourselves short

Love

Jess
xoxox

Another post

2010-01-30T18:11:00.004Z

This is just my thoughts as had a email through FB stating may need to do a repost on sugar negotiaitions, now remember this is just my thoughts on the situation.

Girls who take a pay per visit now me personally that isn't a SB that is a escort situation. The whole concept of a SD in my mind is having a guy who you know month in month out will provide you with a set amount.

Now yes starting to talk about an allowance is hard but at the end of the day if you have met through the net, then he either was on a SD site or through a listing on CL - just have to say how annoying are the people who flag our posts on CL. I dont flag yours cause your ugly!!! - Anyway the hard part is done you both know why you are talking to each other, if he tells you it seems like its only about money with you. You can polietly state thats not the case but before you continue a chat then you thinks its reasonable to know to know both of your expectations meet.

If they dont then you can polietly state you are looking for different things but you wish him well with his search.

I couldn't do multiple SD's but thats me, for one I have a crap memeory so that would work against me. Secondly in my view the guys I have met have always at least stated they could afford my allowance therefore I have no need for another. Chicago sugarbaby was so right when she said know what you goals are.

Like her I know what I want out of this.

I plan to set up a savings account. I want to have a deposit for a house
I have got myself into some debt since me and X split so want to clear that and get to perfect credit once more.
I want to be able to live a WAG lifestyle for the time I am putting myself through University, its just a bit of fun and not my life long ambition to become a WAG just like how they live.

I want to give myself security for the future so any money I do get and this time I am asking for a allowance of £2.5k, I now have a little bar job I am doing my studies, so If I give myself £1.5k a month to spend like crazy I will have £1k to put into savings even if it only lasts a year I will have 12 grand thats I wouldn;t have had anyway and lots and lots of shoes again.

Of course I have the silly stuff I want, like I want to own a Hermes Birkin again, I want lots of Louboutins and I want to holiday when I want where I want. These are the dreams we all have when we begin this journey and they are good things to aim for but just remember ladies, always think of the bigger picture and life after your SD

Love

Jess Bunny
xoxoxo

New pots

2010-01-30T16:12:00.003Z

Firstly thanks everyone for your well wishes, no I dont know who the girls are, and yes the police are invovlved they are looking at CCTV so see if they can find the incident.

Now on to the good stuff girls, I have a new pot and when I say he is googable damn is this man googable. I only typed in his first name and 100's of entries came up about him including his society wedding and then divorce. He is early 40's which is good and him and his family actually own the company he works for!!! kerchiiing!

He did ask me to meet him where he is now, but well me and flying to meet guys for the first trip it just doesn't happen. For a first meet I am happy to go to them if it's still in this country and I have a hotel booking made and transport to and from paid for by them, or they can come to my home town by no I wont go out of this country.

Now back to my Pot, I'll call him Mr Public, I have entered in his email address and this site came up with a load of email address for bad SD's and all someone had written was is married!!! I am sorry girls but this is sugar daddy land most of them are!

So anyway thats my news ladies

Love

Jess
xoxoxox

Well what a weekend

2010-01-27T16:20:00.002Z

Well ladies what a weekend in 2 weeks I was supposed to be a new Pot, thanks to the weekends event I have had to cancel with a really lovely guy.

Basically on my way home I was jumped by a few girls and now have a split lip and chin, a messed up hand, broken ribs and concussion -Great!!! First thing I knew about it was coming round in hospital Sunday afternoon!

Made me quite scared of going out now which is going to make meeting Pots a bit difficult though I do always take precautions giving a friend his details, which site he from, my log in details and his screen name, but this has quite shaken me so am undecided as to what to do!

Well just giving you a update whilst I read up on everyone Else's adventures

Love

Jess Bunny

xoxox

Just a quick one

2010-01-23T14:51:00.001Z

I am having a internet dongle posted out to me soon so will be back blogging like before sorry to keep coming and going but all that will be fixed soon

Love

Jess Bunny

xoxox

Joined some more sites

2010-01-14T14:09:00.002Z

So I have joined up some of the new sites that have popped up since I have been gone like classyarrangements.com and established men, but I have to say I don't hold out much hope for them as they don't really seem that well organised or legit, but hey they are free so I am not going to complain, but girls what are your experiences on them. where are you finding your sugardates?

It feels weird writing and not having any experiences to write about, but hopefully I will fix that. I found when I was living with my parents it was hard to get away for dates without too many questions as most of them were with me spending time away. Now I am living alone then it is a lot easier well now I finally internet again.

I have noticed since I have been away a lot more blogs are here and some of them I love reading but some of them, and this is just my opinion, it seems they treat pots like johns and are trying to do £££ per visit, for me and again just my opinion its not about per visit but builiding a relationship with a guy who can support you, even if that means it taking a longer time to find him. After all its hard enough to keep up with one guy let alone more, and we all know how demanding SD's can be for your time.

Love

Jess Bunny

xoxoxo

A lot tougher

2010-01-13T18:05:00.005Z

I have noticed that this time round I am being a lot tougher with the guys and stating what I want, after all this isn't the time for a softly softly approach when it comes to knowing if they can actually afford me. And then I can take the softly softly approach knwing that they are who they say who they are and understand what I want out of this relationship.

I have had some fun catching up on everyones blogs and so good to see people are starting to get close to finding their guy. I still notice though that some of the newer blogs still treat their prospectives like johns rather than potential SD's for me having multiple SD's isnt what its about its about being able to find he one guy who can give you everything you want and need. But hey thats just me.

Whether it takes a year or 2 I know I will find the right SD who can give me everything I want out of this relationship I also have to say a massice thanks I never imagined when I started this blog that I would have had over 15000 readers AHHHH thats so exciting.

Oh forgot to say I start my Open university law degree this month I am so scared but excited cant wait to either be a prosecution lawyer or coperate lawyer

Love

Jess Bunny
xoxox

Also I found this fab thing where you can do a shopping list which others can buy from so will now be do that so when I meet a prospective or potential will just direct him to that will be good for birthdays as well I suppose. And good for when I have a SD can think about what I need properly the boring things for the home lol.

x

hello

2010-01-12T21:45:00.002Z

Well its been over 6 months and a lot has happened I have moved out into my own flat but havent been online just because I cant afford the internet.

I am using it from the library from now on though, as I do want to continue in a search for a new SD. I have managed to rejoin sd.com and am chatting with a few guys but nothing to write about yet, so just a hello to ttell you I am back and sorry for it being so long now I am off to catch up on everyones blogs and will be hopefully chatting about my adventures soon

Love

Jess bunny

xoxox

Back on the sites

2009-08-29T21:34:00.005+01:00

Well I am back to going on seekingarrangement.com but to be honest I find that sugardaddie.com has a better choice for UK daddies, they have more choice of new people it seems its always the same people on SA.com and to be honest I get more emails from SD.COM so its a better ego boost hehehe!

And trust me my ego is needing it at the moment I have put on a couple of pounds and look out of shape, I have attached a picture its not pretty girls, I have also changed my hair colour so letting your see that as well, have gotta hit the gym though so if anyone knows some good tips for tonight up and losing weight let me! As cant really afford a gym but wont be confident until I am back in shape its a bloody double edged sword.

So back to sd.com I have 8 messages waiting for me but at the moment with all my furniture costs and paint for the flat cant afford the £22 membership fee, it feels like I have taken such a huge step back and this is the kind of situation I was in when I first met X, so have been thinking a lot about him lately.

He is still texting and emailing but am still staying strong and no answering back Go me! :)

Now onto my girls the are all still really good, Izzie is coming to visit me next week once I am in my flat, claire has been dumped by the russian, but is out on the London scence and meeting bankers everywhere who love those trashy champagne bottles with sparklers in them!! LOL you gotta love them they are like Eurotrash hehehe. And Lily well fingers crossed she has a job coming up but has had to move back to our hometown but is travelling back and for for auditions

I hope I have some dates soon, thats what I really miss and now am living alone will make it a lot easier to go on those dates, so any SD's reading please ask away now hehehe!

Jess Bunny
xoxox

An update

2009-08-25T00:21:00.002+01:00

Well fingers crossed I am moving out next week, its a very grotty one bedroom flat but it will be my own as much as I love my folks living with them is a pain in the ASS!! Especially for my sugardaddy dating its hard to explain where you are going.

I have a date fingers crossed with a nice guy from Germany, he is willing to come over to me, only has time to meet for a few days each month which is great for me but can work with my budget. woo hoo!! Not gonna get too excited though as we all know where a lot of these men lead to, thats right nothing,lol.

I havent been online as my net is playing up at the moment, might have something to do with me not paying my bills but hey who knows lol.

Well I am off to read everyones blog and get myself updated will give more of a update tomorrow

Love

Jess Bunny

xox

Me and X

2009-08-04T16:25:00.003+01:00

Well to stop all the debate no I would never ever get back with X to put me in a situation which to one of his clients makes me seem like a whore, thats doesn't sit well with me. Firstly we had been together for years so it wasn't like it was something new where he didn't know what my reaction would be, secondly he was the one who asked when we first started dating that I dont date other guys, which to be honest I wouldn't have anyway. We started this relationship as more of a mistress rather than a SB and just because I was his SB does not in any way mean he can degrade or belittle me.

If anyone was too except that just because they are a SB then me personally I think you are a fool, and you need to work on your self worth before you get into a SD relationship. No man whether he is buying you things or not should put you in the position X put me in. As for him emailing me, yes he emails me every day but no he never gets a reply and if he ever wants to know my thoughts on him he knows this blog address I am quite happy for him to read.

Ladies to suggest that I should accept this mistake because it isnt a normal relationship, I think if you would be willing to accept it you are selling yourself short, regardless of the type of relationship you are having, you SD should respect you regardless of the size of allowance you have.

I am loving the debate though ladies and this is just my thoughts on so please no one take offence but remember ladies, we are LADIES not whores, and just because a guy buys us things doesn't mean that he shouldn't respect you in the same way he respects any other woman.

If he wants to treat you like a whore treat him like a john I guarantee he wouldn't like it or accept it and neither should you.

The way I sum this up is if you had a BF who bought you some clothes or a piece of jewellery could he then offer you around to his friends, no this isn't the same type of relationship, but RESPECT is something all relationships should be built on whether it is a SD or BF relationship.

Remember debate is always healthy though :)

Love

Jess

xoxox

how things are going

2009-07-28T20:24:00.003+01:00

Well to be honest the are stuck at the moment I am not really keeping up with SA so not really getting my profile seen, I have joined a new site called elitemeeting.com, but the joining fee is £197.99 so I am going to access my emails which is a pain as I have only been a member a week and I have 89 emails!!!! aaahh, god I wish I had a guy I could just ask to wire me money like some of you girls do, if you know of anyone who wants to help a girl out send them my way hehehe!!

So Mr Salt & Pepper went all quiet and to be honest I am not going to chase, I sent him one text after a week of not hearing from him but that's it, if he has found someone else, good for him, but no mans wants something that will be handed to him on a plate, successfull men like to chase, to feel they have caught a prize.

I have heard from Izzie and apparently X already has a new girl, I dont think she would appreciate some of the emails he has been sending me, but I havent even dignified them with a answer.

To be honest I have had some weak moments were I have just thought how much easier it would be to go back to him, I have so many bills piling up starting to get the old red letters through aaahh!!! I have been looking for work since I got back home but hey its recession and no one near me is hiring - If anyone knows of any good work from home opportunites let me know.

Its been quite a crappy few weeks my uncle died 2 weeks ago and was buried last tuesday, but of a shock as it was so sudden and he was only 51, makes you realise how short life is. It weird how much death has been around me recently but then I suppose thats life maybe one of them will look out for me and bring me a SD or even a job I wouldn't mind either at the moment LOL.

Love

Jess
xoxox

Ok I think some bloggers are confused

2009-07-11T11:36:00.002+01:00

When I read other peoples blog most of them I love and have built such a great sugar family on here and had some great chats on the phone with some of my sugar family. But others I read and I am sure they are confused about the difference between a sugarbaby and a hooker, I think that when they offer themselves out at £££ per visit they are scaring the SD's out there who may be for real but they dont give them a chance.

The way I look at it emails are slow and steady, most of these guys have busy lives and cant organise a date straight away, if they can are they really in such a high powered job.

Now I have nothing against high class escorts I know a girl who is one and she has a amazing life and I am sure we have all watched Belle De Jour and hey who wouldnt want that. But dont get confused between the two as it wont benefit you at all, and it may well put guys off.

To me the rules are if you cant google them they are not as high powered as they want you to believe, get them to put you in a hotel of your choosing even if you live in the city if they ask why tell them the truth, you need to see if they are serious and can meet your expectations, the resturant where yu meet - do they know where the bathrooms are? does the maitre D know them, if not why?

And of course the shoes, the wallet and watch my 3 things that will always give away a guy who is playing, do some research on the best brands and know what to look out for.

I do not mean to knock other girls blogs and mean no offence this is just my tips on why you may not have found your SD yet. Switch your mindframe from short term cash problems to long term cash benefit!!!

Love

Jess Bunny

xoxox

Well its looking good

2009-07-05T17:18:00.002+01:00

Well Mr salt and pepper is very googable whihc is very pleasing for me. He told me the name of his company which i goodled along with his name and his picture on there is different to both his profile and the ones he has sent me, so I at least know its him as we both turned on our webcams to prove it was us.

I told him what I would be looking for and he actually offered more. Which is always fun LOL. I am glad as we have chatted on the phone a lot and seem to get along very well and will be meeting up quite soon which is good!!

Oh and girls bird man is back on sa.com with 5 different profiles now each time with a different name - God that man gives me the creep even in his photos he looks really pervy and on 2 of the profiles he states the SB is for both him and his GF eeewww!!!

I havent been on FB for a while so sorry if I haven't replied to your emails just have a lot going on at the moment.

well thats it for now guy chat soon

Love

Jess Bunny

xoxox

OMG

2009-07-02T16:17:00.002+01:00

Well my lovely ladies just had to write this.

Net-a-porter my fave online store now has a outlet version for the stuff they can not sell or boought too much off, its good prices and you can get some great stuff at good prices. They do Herve Lerger for more than 40% off

Its called

www.theoutnet.com

Check it out girls

Love

Jess

xox

hello

2009-07-02T14:49:00.005+01:00

Well the profile is up and running and I am having some good replies so far.

The best one is the owner of a hedge fund who is very handsome and has salt and pepper hair which I love on a man. He has houses both here and America and he seems very promising as he was the one who initiated contact, I have kind of sat back and not made the first move with emails and just seen what happens.

I have to say I have had some really lovely emails off everyone in this little sugar family we have created and they are really keeping me going.

I have been accepted onto a law degree course through the Open University and have been told I have funding which is great I can properly fufill my dreams so who knows maybe the whole X episode has worked out for the best and I love the fact that things are happening in my life, yes at the moment I dont have much self confidence but that can only be built one day at a time, oh and big thanks to everyone who reads this blog I cant believe I have passed 9000 readers that blows my mind!!!

Love

Jess

xoxox

God I forgot how many liars

2009-06-25T10:10:00.002+01:00

Being back in the search for a SD I forgot how hard it was.

I now have a profile back on sa.com and its just so hard standing out in the crowd, I have never seen so many good looking women on one site lol. But I have my fingers crossed that magic can strike twice I am looking for an allowance of between £3-5k but if they are happy for my to continue living in Swansea then I can lower that to £2 - 3k as the flat I want here is only £500 pcm but I always aim high at first go and then see what happens.

I think we have been spoilt by the number of eastern european girls who are willing to be a cheap as anything, through my blog and on FB I have met some great people which I am very pleased about and one who is great at gving advice as I am finding I am a bit rusty at the moment lol. She said the best thing last night those who are flashy will be willing to give less than those who are discreet and that is soo true look at X he was discreetly very wealthy.

I think my confidence has been knocked quite a lot by X so am worrying about how I look, whether I am too big all the normal things that us girls go through.

But at least I know I have you guys here with me as well

Love

Jess Bunny
xoxox

Well my new life

2009-06-19T20:53:00.002+01:00

Well its back to the daily grind I have a job interview on Thursday its as a receptionist for a solicitors and its very very bad pay, LOL its quite a culture shock getting used to my life again but hey I have been here before and I am damn well sure I can pick myself up again.

I am back on seekingarangement.com and I have a profile up, have had some replies but most guys seem to be from America and even if you are offering me a private jet I am nto travelling that far for a first date lol. It feels so strange to be back in the search again and there are so many other people looking this time its not like when I was on it before and of course I didnt meet X on any website.

I have lowered my expectations greatly and am looking for an allowance between
£3-£5k but I think there is just so much competition out there and am worried that my standards are just too high LOL.

Well as some of my facebook friends will see I have my pictures up on FB decided there was no reason to hide anymore, so a big hello to everyone and thanks to all of you for your messages of support.

Love

Jess Bunny
xox

Let the search begin

2009-06-15T20:12:00.003+01:00

Well as heartless as this seems I am getting back on the horse and gonna find myself another SD bu this time I wont be lookin for love just a SD!

Ok so lots of people have been asking what happened, basically X offered me to one of his clients to help his deal along, he has never done anything like that before and I was shocked when he did suggest it. I have never felt so cheap in my life and due to that I wanted no ties in my life to him.

Now I look back on I wish I hadn't given the money and possessions back but at the time I had to do it. But at least I have no debt and I have my family that I can move back in with. I just told them I had lost my job due to recession and also that me and X had split up.

So this blog will take a new direction about my search to get my lifestyle back, I knwo I probably wont get the same amount but I am looking in the reigon of £3-£5k so keep your fingers crossed for me, unfortuantely I dont live in a big city so that makes it harder but hey ho the search will begin

Love

Jess Bunny
xox

hello and goodbye really

2009-06-13T21:57:00.002+01:00

well this is a very strange blog for me to write but I am no longer a SB, me and X have split I never saw it coming but something happened which meant that I ended our relationship due to the reason and me ending it, I transfered all my money back to him and the posessions.

Seems very strange I know but the reason for us ending meant I did not want to be tied to X for any reason. I have now moved back home and am sitting here just contemplating life I have already decided that I may look for another SD at another time btu maybe I was too spoilt by X that my sights will be too high but who knows so maybe I will be back and maybe I wont.

I hope I do as I love the little community I have built up with you guys and am still more than happy to reply to emails.

It means that this year I had a very shit birthday but my friends have tried to pick me up and izzie will always be a BFF.

Well thats all I am going to write for now as is all still a bit raw.

Love you all

Jess Bunny

xoxox

OMG

2009-05-22T12:22:00.002+01:00

What I am loving at the moment on TV there is an amazing programme called The Rachel Zoe priject on really which on virgin media is 267 I am not sure about sky sorry guys, anyway she has been my fave stylist since like forever and one day I am going to book her for a day and go on a major shopping spree like you wouldn't believe LOL, Thats my dream so maybe thats what X can get for me for Xmas this year.

I am also loving "the real housewives of" but infortunately for me I cant seem to get it anywhere so if anyone knows where I can buy it let me know it doesnt matter if its an american copy as I have worked out how to change my dvd player to any region. I just think its fab and soo funny!!! MMM maybe someone shoudl do a tv programme about sugar babies now that would be fun and I would defo watch it.

OK so I was asked by Tha princess "if you had a SD and he wanted something longterm, but you knew you would probably be moving far away in the next couple of months to a year, do you think you should tell your SD? Thanks" I always believe in honesty with your sd this relationship is built on trust, trusting him to provide you with what has been agreed and that you stick to what you have said, so to me yes you should tell him maybe he will be fine with it, if you know thats its going to be a year then that would make it easier as you would have a year of fun together, otherwise he could feel put out that he invests his money in you and a 3/4 months later your off, always be honest and you cant go wrong I know its a pain when you are trying to find a SD but this way you will find the best one for you.

Hope that helps and Please leave more questions so I know what more to write about as I dont want to keep repeating myself from my earlier blogs.

Love

Jess Bunny
xoxox

What to write about

2009-05-20T17:20:00.000+01:00

I know I keep on dissapearing guys and I am sorry for that, but please dont send me abusive emails its just I am running out of things to say without repeating myself, and to be honest I do have a short attention span so writing this does get a bit boring I am still working on getting through the emails though I know its taking quite a while but quite a lot of you have emailed me which I am thankfull for.

Now one thing that made me laugh is someone said my chloe bag wasnt real! LOL you would have to be pretty pathetic to think that I cant afford a chloe bag and have a big diamond ring next to, God that makes me sound so up my own ass!! but I dont put up my blog to be attacked and to be honest if you dont like what I write dont read it, I am sure other bloggers get the same but me I always take things personally.

Also another person spoke about X being married and how I should be dusgusted with myself, I would say you would be hard pushed to find a sugar daddy who isnt married, does that bother me - NO!! As harsh as that is, would I rather be lied too and think I could get married and have kids with this guy if thats what I wanted! NO!! Yes our relationship in different but it works for us, I am not looking for forgivness from any kind of god and no I dont think I am going to burn in hell, LOL

No if there is stuff you guys would like covered please write a comment as if you do it in my emails it will just go to the bottom of the pile.

Love

Jess Bunny

xoxoxo

P.S Lets see how long I last blogging this time hehehe

In my mind this is the quickest way to lose a sd

2009-03-16T17:23:00.006Z

I personally do not think its a good idea to do publicity especially if the guy is married. Its the fastest way to scare him away I also think it makes the whole sd thing look sordid and wrong as newspapers write things in a way that sensationalises things now dont get me wrong I love the sunday papers especially the kiss and tell stories but this girl just looks stupid. Talking about how they dont know about each other, uuummm they do now and really if she was having that much money off them why does she feel the need to sell her story to a sunday paper.

Now some of you may say pot, kettle, black as I write this blog but there isnt really anyway that this can be traced back to X, I dont put up pictures of my face and yes you can see pics of my flat and cars on Facebook but there are not pictures that will lead anyone to X and to me X is the most important thing and if this blog in anyway hurt him I would stop.

In my mind the girls who do these things do come across as gold diggers and they may or may not be but no SD wants to be with a gold digger they want to know that you do like them for them and not just their money.

Well as I have said I finally have my facebook profile up and tend to go on their everyday and am adding pictures on their have some of my flat and my cars, would love to put up pictures of us girls but it would make things to arkward for X so cant. But I hope you all join so I can keep in touch with you, my link is on the right of this post up the top.

Love

Jess Bunny
xoxox

Oh and just click on the title of this post to go to the story I am talking about

xx

ooh what a fun day

2009-03-14T14:14:00.004Z

AAAH such a fun day today I decided to do a little shopping day with Izzie today and I am finally figuring out how to take pictures and load them quicker. So I have decided to show off some of my newest purchases.

I have bought the most amazing ring we were passing a jewellers and this was in the window it isnt a great picture as me and Izzie have had a bit of a liquid lunch well as uch as I can with my arm, now I dont know if I told you guys about this but I have my right arm in plaster as I fell over after a night out with my girls, well to be more precise I fell out of the taxi which wasnt very good but the girls have some great pictures of it lets just say the dress was over the head HAHAHAHA.

I have also bought a brand new pair of shoes from faith that were a bargin in the sales at £25 woo hoo, these are going to have to be ones I wear on sober nights out though lol as they are very thin heels and about 5" heels. And i bought my mother a chloe paddington bag ready for Mothers day on the 22nd. OOOH I cant wait I am going home for a week and going to catch up with all my friends and family woo hoo.

Well thats all for now I am off to watch the rugby as the lovely Izzie is a welsh girl and has introduced me to the wonders of men in shorts hmmm such a nice way to spend the afternoon lol.

Love

Jess Bunny
xoxox

Twitter

2009-03-13T18:48:00.001Z

I have joined the world of twitter and am thinking of setting up a facebook site just so I can keep in touch with you guys more easily.

Here is the link to my twitter site:

http://twitter.com/jessbunny1

Stupid cold

2009-03-13T13:14:00.002Z

Uch I am thinking of booking a holiday to get away from this weather I hate waking up every day to cold and rain and it doesnt help that I have been watching "the hills" and looking at the LA sunshine is making me so jealous, maybe I should find a new SD one who lives in America so I can live the dream lol. Only joking maybe I can pesuade X to move him and his entire family to America instead that would probably be easier than trying to find a new SD with the amount of people looking for a SD.

Now for me and my shopping well the old Black card has had a hammering lately as I have had a obsession with doing out my flat I have bought a lush new white sleigh bed, I have finally found a company to do my walk in closet that used to be a extra bedroom I am not too bothered about losing a bedroom as if friends stay over then we have a blow up matress and to be honest its only the girls who stay over and they can crash in with us in our beds lol. So me and Lily will have our very own mariah carey esque wardrobe now.

I am going to have to purchase some gym equipment I am thinking of a stair master and a treadmill as all I seem to be doing lately is eating and all this eating means soon my size 12 toned figure will be expanding and thats not something I want. I like having a hourglass shape but I dont want to go out of shape.

Now I have been asked about double profiles I have seen quite a few of these and to be honest I do think it means they are fake I mean what other reason could they have, if you notice they change their age, their income, what they are offereing?, I just think its too weird why would they need 2 profiles if they weren't lying about something. Lily has actually called one person out on it and they blocked her so I think that says it all some of you may recognise him he has a bird in his picture, so I'm just saying hmmm, why block Lily when she questioned it if there was nothing bad. She did a nice em ail said she liked his profile but had more noticed he had more than one.

Take from that what you will.

Oh it feels so good to be back and I do have some exciting news someone has approached me about doing a book, but I dont want to do one that is a guide so I may write one in a chick lit style thats the kind of stuff I love reading so who knows, I'll have to mull that one over. But I am reading "chasing harry winston" at the moment and to be honest its a bit of a dissapointment I have read the other 2 books its from the author of "A devil wears prada" and its just not the same. But then who knows if I can do any better LOL.

Love

Jess Bunny
xoxoxoxo

Lilly has some dates

2009-03-12T17:18:00.003Z

OMG I am soo exicted Lily has 2 dates coming up on with a guy from sugardaddie.com another with a guy she met on SA.com, it so exciting I get to live my sugarbaby life through her again. The first guy she has a date with is a hedge fund manager the second guy is a judge. So both a very much loaded the judge we have googled a great tool in my eyes and how the hell did we SD date before it became available, as if he isnt googable then he isnt worth it LOL.

So both guys have residences in London, but the Judge lives in the country and comes to London to work which would be more fun, both guys are attractive and very distingushed looking though it does have to say Hedge man is a little tubby but then Lily has always been more about the guy than the looks. Even when she was in school she dated different types from the Jock to the goth she dated them all. Now I have been reading up on some other blogs that are around and I have to say I am quite shocked at the amoun of girls who write that they dont fancie they guy but they will keep him as a option, this is dangerous territory for me and I personally feel when you dont fancie the guy it is more about the money than the guy, then that is when you should consider yourself a courtesan rather than a sb.

I am sorry if that comes across as judgemental but ladies please rememeber what the difference is between these 2 things, for me a sb has always got to be attracted to the man first and for me and my friends we have always said we would date our sd's even if they were broke. To me if you can't say that about a prospective SD then you should just walk away.

Now back to Lils dates, she is supposed to have her date with Hedge sometime next week but it all depends on whether or not he has the time, and Judge is supposed to be the week after. Lily prefers Hedge more thats why she has chosen him as her first date and if there are no sparks then she has Judge who she likes to fall back on.

Very exciting and we are going to go to the shops to buy an outfit for each date so will update you more on that at the time.

I'll probably get back to stuff thats goign on in my life and my shopping adventures have just been wanting to catch up but thanks so much for the lovely emails I received yesterday, and as I said any topics you want covered please just leave a comment and I will get round to it

Love

Jess Bunny
xoxox

A few myths busted

2009-03-11T14:14:00.004Z

Hi everyone,

Sorry everyone I have been gone for a while I have gotten out of the habit of sitting down and writing in the blog, but I do promise I am going to try and get back into the habit.

I have recieved loads of emails though and have been working my way through them so If I havent replied yet I am sorry but I am trying to get through them.

Now first of all the main myth I have been getting is that the recession means you should be lowering your expectation. Okay now really girls the recession isnt going to hit the guys who can afford to be sugardaddies, yes it means they will tighten their belts but if you were looking for a £10k allowance you wouldnt have been looking for a guy who would have been paying it out if his allowance. Yes X is having a hard time with the credit crunch, but he was never the kind of guy whose wealth all depended on one factor, yes some of his shares has plummeted and his houses aren't worth so much, but he still has funds spread out and stuff like that. Now if your looking for a £1-£3k allowance I still think although his stability may be affected you have to remember these guys who want to be sd are cash rich, time poor guys, they don't have the time to spend their wages.

I personally think the problem is with the credit crunch a lot more girls are thinking about doing it. I noticed in America tyra Banks has done a show on it, more and more women are jumping into the race. So now more than ever you ladies have to be slow and steady.

Secondly a few of you have emailed saying that a guy you have chatted with has told you how he does a search on all his prospective sb's and how on some of them he has found listing for erotic services on craiglist and blah de blah. This is utter crap, one firstly he would need to pay for these kind of background checks, secondly he would need a lot more information than just your name and you picture to do these.

Now whether this is the same man or different men they are just trying to scare you and make you believe they are more powerful than they are. I mean firstly if you had put your picture up for escort services would you have used your real name, secondly its none of his god damn business if you have, what you or he have done in your past is none of each others business unless you want to share it.

The kind of background check that would need to be done to find these sort of things in the hundreds if not thousands of adverts across the internet would not only be very expensive but would also only really be needed to be preformed if you were dating in the open, which 9 times out of 10 you aren't when you are a sb.

Right well ladies or gentlemen if they vare any topics you would like covered just let me know in the comments box.

And any emails send them to jessbunny1@hotmail.co.uk

Love

Jess Bunny
xoxox

Profiles and emails

2009-01-29T16:27:00.003Z

OK I have had a couple of ladies ask me my thoughts on premium mebership, remember ladies its not just that you will be higher in the viewing you can also so who has looked at you and favourited you which in my experience is great you will not only be able to see who is too shy to contact you, but what kind of guys your profile is attracting, it only cost $20 for 30 days so I think for the first 30 days it will give you a good overall view of what your profile is saying about you.

Now from the emails I have been receiving I would say most of you girls are doing your profiles wrong and rather than coming across as intelligent which you are trying to do you are coming across as concieted and arrogant. Yes its great if your in school and by all means mention that, but dont let theat be all there is too you, great you have a brain but dont ram that down his throat.

In your emails to them especially if you are doing the first email dont just chuck a load of information about how great you are to them and all about your interests, leave him find this out or give a little but not everything.

In pictures I would say use all 3 available pictures one a face close up, and 2 full length one dressed up for a night on the town another more casual daytime look, let them see what they will be getting on their arm, if they are lucky enough to be chose by you.

Hope this helps a bit ladies, and keep sending your emails to jessbunny1@hotmail.co.uk

I am loving getting them

Jess
xoxo

A late Xmas

2009-01-28T17:27:00.003Z

Oh such a lovely few days me and X finally had our Christmas, though we had to have chicken rather than turkey hehehe!

After much dileberating I decided to buy X a piece of the rainforest and bought him 10 acres at £50 each, now with the guy who has everything you have to be more creative and I always go on at him about recycling and not using so much paper so this was good as he knew I had put some thought into it as well. And its like our own insider joke. I also had a chef come in to prepare the food for us, as I am not the greatest cook so didn't want one of my presents to be food poisoning hehehe.

My presents well I had a new apple macbook as I love technology at the moment, a load of Marilyn monroe dvds and a classic Andy warhol style picture of myself. My best present though was a eternity ring with "forever and always" engraved in it.

Now one of the most common emails I have had since I set up my email address is that it hasn't happened yep and it's been a month, trust me ladies it will take time to meet your sugardaddy and you probably will have to go through the bad ones to get to a good one, but as I have always said don't have sex on the first date, to me this is what the fakes want. Just go for lunch and dinner for a chat so you know if there is any point of continuing, he may be for real but most men will be put off if you jump into bed straight away. The real sugar daddys aren't looking for one night stands but for something that they are receiving at the moment companionship, yes sex is a big part but it's not everything.

Jess
xoxox

Good point

2009-01-26T18:01:00.003Z

Some one made a good comment in a rude way today

"You are such a dumb nut!! Are you aware of the recession? and i bet u dont have 100K cash in the bank. If something was to happen to ur SD(god forbidd) Are u the beneficiary can u still keep the Black Card ummm..didnt think so."

Notice how they didn't leave their name or anything - suprise!

I do actually have savings of over 600k spread across bank accounts in switzerland, which X sorted out for me and every so often I make another deposit in them. Also the flat is now in my name along with all my jewellery. I was very aware one of the first things I should do was to save as I had no idea how long this would last was to puy away a small amount each month from my monthly allowance, this is why I say that no bills and such should be put into your name, so that they allowance you have is for yourself and if the agreement ends you do not want bills in your name.

It always makes me laugh when people talk like I dont realise what is going on with the world, I have friends and family and coming from a small town it is affecting them. At the moment I am paying my sisters rent from my "faboulosly paid job". my fmaily think I have I send money to my parents and at them moment out of the money I recieve I am also covering Lily's expenses whilst she is in London. So yes whilst this blog does mostly cover all the great things along with some advice Please don't leave stupid comments about what I do. It always makes me laugh that the people who do, don't leave their names or anything!

Jess Bunny
xoxox

I couldnt be bothered with shopping until today

2009-01-22T18:28:00.003Z

And now I have been a bad girl and gone a little overboard HAHAHA!

Me and online shopping are like the devil when we get together, but god it was so worth it. I have bought myself one of those power plate machines, you know those things that vibrate well I am on my little health fix and on this you just have to stand on it in different positions and boom its great!!!

But apart from that as you girls all know I have a little problem with the high street and well me and River Island havent been friends for a few months since Leigh and well know I have spent over £3000 but guys I do have over 60 items coming to me so that isnt bad, now I am not one of those girls who buys a new wardrobe for every season but once I started I just couldn't stop also some are for my best mate Lily who has a few SD dates coming up which is all from the adverts we put up for her which is fun.

Lily obviously stopped looking when Leigh died but now well as heartless as it sounds life has to go on, and Leigh was the biggest believer in that. And well also he loved hearing about our crazy life in London. I got asked in a comment was asking £5-£10k a bit optomistic in this current climate, well no not when you aren't looking at guys whose net worth is small and would be based on his annual salary. I think in this current time if you are looking for a big monthly allowance then it is going to have to be a guy whose net worth is £50 million plus. And who wont have to depend on their annual salary for your allowance

As much as this sounds really stupid and really calculated do you think the guys aren't going for the prettiest, the girls with the biggest boobs. These sites let you be really direct and if you aren't looking for love you just want fun with a guy who you like that can give you a good life for however long you last the treat it a bit like a business venture and aim for the best. Its just like fishing you just need to have the right bait.

So anyway back to the clothes well I bought so much that my wardrobes are now at bursting point so me and Lily are going to have the 3rd bedroom of my flat made into a walk in wardrobe/dressing room you know like the ones starts have so if anyone knows of any companys that do these please let me know.

Its so good to be back guys Oh and I have also set up a hotmail account so you can email me privately with any questions?

jessbunny1@hotmail.co.uk

Love

Jess Bunny
xoxox

Why I have been away for so long

2009-01-12T22:41:00.002Z

Hi everyone,

I know I have been away for a long time but since my last post I had a awful thing happen. My amazing best mate from back home was knocked down and killed by a drunk driver, as you can imagine this devestated me. I had known Leigh since I was 4 months old and he was like a brother to me so it was like losing a member of my family.

I went home as soon as I heard and stayed for a week for the funeral and to be with his family and mine. X was amazing throughout this time and arranged for me to get a helicopter to my town as it would take a while to get there.

I have been back for quite a while umm, but I havent really done anything and was not in the right frame of mind to be blogging and although it still hurts I know I have to live every day like its my last as you don't know what is round the corner. My girls have been rallying round me as has X and the only good thing to come out of it is that he has seen me at my worst and is still here LOL. Trust me the snotty nose was running from all the crying :)

As you can imagine our Xmas was put on hold so we are going to celebrate its this month using the same dates just obvisouly a month later. So that is something to look forward to.

So hopefully 2009 will be a hell of a lot better.

Love

Jess Bunny
xxx

The adverts are up

2008-11-28T11:31:00.002Z

Oh it's all so exciting again, Lilly adverts are up, we have put one one sugardaddie.com and one on seekingarrangement.com they are both very different to one another so we are just going to see who looks the best to the replies she gets. It's like looking for sugar daddy all over again. The seeking arrangement site is what I am preferring as you can put what financial assistance you want I have told her to aim high and we have put her in for £5 - £10k. As she needs someone to help her get studio time and stuff and that stuff is expensive.

It so hard knowing what to write in a profile, I do think the best thing is to be upfront if you are all about the money then go for it, some men like that and need money hungry girls as they are submissive and want women who are out of their reach, if you want love then go for it and say you are open to it, there is a certain type of sugar daddy for every type of sugar baby so I see no harm in going for what you want. At least that way you wont sell out and then be disappointed in yourself.

I still say no sex on the first date though, to me the first date should be about you sounding each other out much sure each other is for real, that is the guy is looking for a dominant woman then that's what she is she hasn't just written stuff in chats so she can have his money, men need to know that you are having a good time.

Ok, I have had a few comments so in the next blog I will answer those sorry its taken me a few days to get back into the habit of writing but I cant wait to hear some of your stories about how you got your sugar daddys

Love

Jess Bunny
xoxo

I know you all will appreciate these

2008-11-27T21:11:00.005Z

Oh dear god I have just bought the most beautiful shoes I have ever seen, I have never seen shoes like this and it was only by chance I logged onto net-a-porter.com, they are some of the most pricest Louboutin I have purchased at £975 but the are just so beautiful they are 6" heels which I am not to great at walking in, but hey shoes like these were made for girls who have taxis LOL. At least that's what Izzie just told me when she saw them.

Well I just had to share the wonders that are these now I am going back to my girlie night in with Lilly and Izzie, we are hitting the sugar daddy sites to scope out some good ones for Lilly.

Love

Jess Bunny
oxoxox

I couldn't take it.....

2008-11-27T12:46:00.003Z

I have taken the Birkin out the other day for its first outing since I bought it, but I just couldn't handle it what with people with drinks and food I was so worried it would get dirty, it just freaked me out. I mean that bag was £52k that's half the amount for a house from where I come from. So anyway I knew me and that bag were just not going to work so I put it back on EBAY and it sold for £55k, so the £3k profit I made I have donated to a charity that is close to my heart. X laughed at me, and I know it seems stupid but to me a bag I just chuck around, want to put on the floor and I just couldn't relax and what's the point of having a bag if you are then just going to Keep it in the wardrobe.

So to make up for my loss I have the goodness that is Lilly, she is my best mate from back home who has moved into my flat, It is so good having her here, she is the only one from back home who knows about my lifestyle and Its intrigued her, so he is going to join a couple of sites so hopefully I can share some of her dating experiences with you. It was so good her moving in that's why I haven't written for a while as we have just been catching up, I miss being away from home, and its weird when I am back home because I can't share everything with everyone, its sometimes easier not to be there, as I can't be myself fully with my friends and family, but I wouldn't change my life and who knows maybe one of these days I'll tell them.

My family know I am dating a wealthy guy, but they don't know that I am a sugar baby, they think I work as a executive assistant for a banking company, which I told them before the bloody recession now they are worried about me losing my job. AAAHHH! LOL.

OOOH I just have to say I saw a girl ahead of me today in Primark with a pink credit card, I so want one was going to ask her where she got it from but I got shouted at by Lilly so I didn't, I have no shame. I bought a fabulous dress whilst in Primark, its a black dress with a champagne coloured top that has a bow on it I think with a pair of my Louboutin heels on it will look like a million dollars.

Love

Jess Bunny
xoxoxox

Xmas is coming

2008-11-20T19:31:00.002Z

Aaah how fast has this year come around, I cant believe it is nearly 4 weeks till Xmas, oh well I am just going to have to start shopping for it, lol.

The bad thing about xmas is that I cant buy all my friends and family what I want without telling them that it's fake or anything like that and then I just seem cheap, though my sister and mum love that stuff so that's OK. I know I am going to buy my sister some classic pearl drop earrings, as my sister has more of a dressed down style but when she does go out she always goes for a drop earring, where as me I just like to bling away.lol!!!

I have seen some Fabulous dresses for the Xmas season, buy Grazia magazine and you will see what I mean it is the stuff inspired by Strictly come dancing, I am very much a girly girl, and X does love to see me when I am all dressed up. I like to look good on his arm. I am also taking my best friend away to LA the girl who is coming to live with me, so I may just buy some stuff out there in some of the lingerie stores for him. I think as he is a older guy he is more into the 50's style which is good for me as it is definitely what I am loving all the high waited Knickers and bra's are awesome and La Senza has some fab green sets in at the moment.

I do think you'll find most sugardaddy's do prefer a more classy look, yes every now and then I do like to trash it up with a outfit or 2 but it's not something I'd do every day LOL.

Well I am off to look at some stuff online to do some Xmas shopping and I need some new decorations, Oooh its so exciting

Love

Jess Bunny

xoxoxo

Ok starting to annoy me now

2008-11-20T09:11:00.003Z

Right this blog is in answer to my friends business all I have had is questions about it off one person, first of all this blog is not about her business so I am not going to go into the ins and outs of it, but yes its like millionaiure matchmaker with a few noticeable differences, secondly the business is already up and running and is successful so it doesnt matter whether you think it will be successful or not it alreadys is, she has 10 male clients each paying a minimum of £45k you do the maths. I am sorry to write about this, but I am loyal to my friends and when people start attacking their ideas and saying "oh I dont think it will work" it annoys me, and to who ever has written the comments if you dont like that my friends business is a success well thats your issue and stop trying to bring it down and if you dont like my comments then dont read my blog!

I'll be back with a regular blog later

Love

Jess Bunny

xoxoxo

Oh dear God.......

2008-11-12T14:42:00.003Z

I have just spent the most money ever on a bag, me and X were sitting in bed and i grabbed my laptop and went to ebay, i wanted a Hermes scarf don't ask me why just thought it would put together a jeans and vest top combo very nicely, but some Birkins came up, there was a white ostrich skin Birkin for sale, which I just have to say even X said was very nice and I bought it, now I know you guys are probably think and what, ok guys you may want to sit down for this it cost me.......£52,500.29 Oh god I feel sick just even thinking about it, but hey it all goes on the centurion.

What made X laugh the most is I went out to buy some wine to help me recover, and one of those charity workers stopped me for some animal charity to make a monthly donation so I have signed up for £50 a month LOL. Even the charity worker was shocked but hey it made me feel a little better, but not much, I can't imagine taking it out and using it I'll be too scared in case someone spills something on it. Oh god what have I done.

So I thought I would tell you a bit about my girlfriends, well me and Izzie are still best mates and still loving the life we have, Claire is still with Russia and things are going from strength to strength it is now just her and one other sugarbaby but Claire has the better flat and car, Lullah and Jazz are now no longer with their sugardaddies, but Jazz fell in love with a banker and has got engaged and still lives the same lifestyle, and Lullah well she now running a dating website which partners up rich men with women, and with the joining fee being £45k she isn't doing too badly for herself, thought its taken some time for it to really kick off.

Well that's all for now I need to go lie down after my spending, I am so glad to be abck girls, let me know of some of your experiences and as before and questions just leave me a comment

Love

Jess Bunny

xoxox

Hello everyone

2008-11-06T20:47:00.003Z

Well hello everyone god it has been far too long since the last one!

I finally sorted out the problem and here I am once again, Well me and X are still together, still going strong. I have finally bought my apartment in the docklands and its been done to the specifications I wanted, I had to make sure there was no leather as my best friend is a vegetarian and she wont sit on leather, but I have now got the huge cloth sofas which you can just collapse into. I love them and so does X, he loves coming here and watching the TV.

I will write more tomorrow, just thought i'd let you know I am back

Love

Jess Bunny

xoxox

It's getting harder

2008-06-18T16:42:00.005+01:00

I am totally in love with shoes at the moment, I think because X is on holiday with his wife and kids I am at a loose end, I spoke to him last night and it was so good to hear his voice, X's wife has never really wanted to go on holiday with him in the last few years we have been together so I was a bit shocked when he announced they were going to the holiday home in Dubai and she had insisted that he go, it made me feel a bit insecure about our relationship but I do understand why he has gone and he is only going for a week whilst they have gone for 3 weeks so I have 2 weeks of him on his own which is good.

I have been checking out a few of the sugar daddy sites, which I like to do every now and then to see what's around especially as Lucy is still on the lookout for a new one, she says she has learnt from her mistakes but who knows. I do think as well because she sees everything we have she feels a bit left out and is trying to get too much, too soon she has set a very high standard which very few genuine guys will commit to straight away. I do think its getting harder for girls looking for a sugar daddy as most guys now seem to think they will be able to get away with promising you the world and getting you to fall into bed with them. I personally think you should treat this like any relationship and not sleep with a guy on the first date, but neither should you expect him to give you anything on a first date.

To me a first date is about sounding each other out, seeing if you would get on as a couple, obviously you finding out if he is who he says he is - remember my tips girls, check the shoes, watch and wallet. I think a lot more girls are looking for a sugar daddy too, it has become more acceptable for women to come outright and say it and for them to act like a guy about it.

So girls let me know if there is stuff you want me to talk about, I don't want it to get boring and your comments always help

Love

Jess Bunny

xoxox

A little shopping mad

2008-06-16T13:52:00.004+01:00

God I have spent so much time shopping over the last few days, me and Izzie have been having a blow out. So some stuff we have hit the shops the others I have got online. My most extravagant piece has to be my Roberto Cavalli Antique lace maxi dress costing £4105, its all in white and is a trully fantastic piece of clothing, just worried about how dirty the bottom will get as I am certailey not amazon Glamazon, even with wedges its drags but hey thats what dry cleaning is for right!

Me and the girls have also got a night out coming up for Claires birthday so I picked up the dress you can see above just have to find the right shoes to go with it now. That dress is from Donna Karan, I have never found anything from her collection that I have liked beofre so when I saw this I knew it was me as I am really loving the 50's style at the moment and at £1910 it wasnt too bad for something that I will wear again and again. Now I know what you girls are thinking that for me that isnt too bad but add in the £3487 I spent in River Island and that is a lot of clothes I didn't even know it was possible to spend that much in River Island but they have some great stuff in there at the moment, when the total was read out the girl just kind of looked on in shock who served me. I felt like so embarassed as 4 people had to help me carry out my bags to the car which Izzie had to go and get and pull up closer to us.

I do really love my life but it makes me wonder what it would be like trying to start out as a sugar babe on the look out at the moment, there are so many sites which attract so many fakes, I watched this fantastic program,me on on Living2 on Tuesday at 9pm its called "The millionaire Matchmaker" and its about a oman who had a dating service for millionaires who want a wife and it showed all the tips and stuff its on every Tuesday so check it out girls she gave some really good advice.

Oh and to California girl write a comment with your email address on and your name and post it and then delete it, I will get sent a copy but no-one else will be able to see it.

Hope this helps.

Love

Jess Bunny

xoxo

hey guys sorry I have been away

2008-06-12T19:22:00.002+01:00

I felt I had run out of things to say so thought I would take a little break and also I got out of the habit of doing it so I got a little lazy,lol.

Well I have been on holiday twice this year once to Dubai as part of my Xmas pressie from X with the girls and then we went to Marbella, we were actually there when Jade goody was there, and all I will say is people can slate her but she has good legs on here. lol. Both holidays have been great and am really feeling relaxed and ready to start blogging again. I have been reading quite a bit since I last wrote my favourite books are by Louise bagshawe and Tasminia Perry, both of them write about the life of the rich and stylish so check them out if you can.

I have had Venneers put on my teeth a few weeks ago it was part of my birthday present from X, I am 24 now and always hated my teeth so once I saw Katie Prices I knew I defintely wanted them, thankfully didnt have half the amount of pain as she has and I absoultely love them. My teeth have never looked so good. Also for my birthday I had a set of Louis Vuitton luggage the trunk cases as I think they are so lovely and me and X went to see the Monaco Grand Prix which was amazing!! I got to star spot like you wouldn't believe.

Ooh I also wanted to let you girls that haven't found your sugar daddy yet into handbag heaven, I have found a site that does the most amazing knock offs I have ever seen. http://www.poshbagz.com I have been using this for the past few months for bags that I know I will only use once or twice to go with an outfit, I dont ant to spend thousands on something and only use it once so this is the perfect site, also for all you girls who cant affords the real thing yet, I bought a balenciaga bag to match one I already had to check the quality and trust me, you can not tell.

Well Hope you enjoy, its good to be back, let me know if any of you girls have found or are having problems with your sugar daddy

Love

Jess Bunny

xoxo

OMG

2008-04-10T16:13:00.004+01:00

OMG look at the most amazing pair of shoes I have just bought from EBAY, I just had to share them with you, they cost £482 but they are sooo amazing, and I have finally figured out how to upload pics to the site, so when I buy stuff online I can show it to you yay.

Love

Jess Bunny

xxx

Too much too soon

2008-04-10T13:23:00.002+01:00

OK, so I have been emailing a few girls privately and have found the same thing with all of them, you are expecting too much too soon. One girl Lily and I know I am alright to mention her as I asked expected to have a very expensive car bought for her within a month, girls this is not going to happen. You may get a car leased or a not as flash car but don't expect him to buy you a car just like that, a sugar daddy is a business man, and a very successful one as well he will want to see some return on his investment before he puts up the big money and I don't mean the sex I mean he will want to see how you are together as a "couple".

When I first went with X I had a Porche but this was leased and in his name. I can't remember my starting allowance I think it was about £3500 and then went up. Even if he buys you the car you want it won't go in your name. The one thing I have tried to be most insistent about it how you get your allowance, if you have it in cash or into your bank account you may have to end up explaining to the Goverment where you got the money from and paying Tax on it. Not good!!! Also if you are having your money by cash that mean that all bills and stuff like that will go in your name, therefore if you break up you will have to take the fall. Trust me I have seen this happen.

Take a credit card, and if you want to save away some of your money take it out of a ATM through your credit card and put it into savings like that, also he can't not give you all of your allowance that way, even if you take it all out of the ATM fine but do it through a credit card. If you only listen to one piece of advice please let it be that.

Now I don't mean to upset anyone with this entry I am just writing it as a blog as the same things have been mentioned again and again with the girls I am talking too, and apart from Lily I ahave mentioned no names so don't worry girls most of you are making the same errors.

If you push for too much too soon, most guys will just see you as a Gold digger rather than a Sugar baby and trust me they are very different things.

Love Jess Bunny

xxx

Holidays!!!!

2008-04-09T12:46:00.002+01:00

Me and the girls go to Dubai next month as part of my Xmas pressie from X, I can't wait to get a tan and everything and do lots and lots of shopping, last time I went to Dubai I went with X who has a place on the Island shaped like a palm tree but this time as it's just girl X wants us to stay at a hotel. We are flying there and back by private jet so I am sooo excited, it will make us all feel like film stars haven't really started doing any shopping, so net-a-porter and Bond street here I come over the next few weeks. Me and Izzie might even pop upto Cricket in Liverpool and see what all the fuss is about.

Did you see the Balenciaga dress Coleen wore to the Grand National that would be such a lush dress to have to go on holiday so hopefully they will still have some in or be able to point me in the right direction. I defo have to buy some new bikinis and all in one pieces too. I normally just buy all my swimwear from River Island as I don't see the poing in spending a fortune on something will be wrecked from chlorine after a while. I was looking around got a absolute bargain yesterday it's a navy sailor dress from Primark for £8 I bought a white blazer that has a navy stripe to go with it I think that was like £12, it looks so much more expensive and can be worn with flip flops or heels. I also want some maxi Dresses but being 5"5, I'm not really sure so will have to investigate that a bit more.

Love

Jess Bunny

xxx

Bit of a catch up

2008-04-08T10:10:00.003+01:00

So I thought I would bring up smack bang upto date with everything that has happened, I am still renting a flat in the Dockland area, just haven't found one yet that I want to purchse though am thinkig of going to the owner of my current flat and asking to buy it from him.

X and his Wife are still together the rumors about her seeing someone else died down, so either she is being more careful or she ended things with the guy. He still won't divorce her, as he knows he would end up giving her half of his money as she started dating him once he got to a top level so has been with him since the big manoey started coming in. But that's life and I am happy with what me and X have so I won't complain.

Claire and Russia are still together and she still lives in the same apartment block as me, so we are always popping in to see one another which is lots of fun. But she is going back to her job in Fashion PR as she is bored with not doing anything. That's what I forgot to tell you I am now doing a home study course in Event management, I have decided that's the field I want to get into. Lullah is still dating her footballer, he plays for a premiership side so she is very well looked after. Lucy well her jelousy got the better of her, so her SD dumped her, but I manager to convinve X to give her, her old job back and she lives with Claire. Jazz is still ticking away happily with her SD.

And Izzie she is still my best friend and still with her SD, we are both still haveing the times of our lives and helping each toher through this mad roller coaster but wouldn't have it any other way.

Love

Jess Bunny

xxx

My shopping trips.....

2008-04-06T15:19:00.004+01:00

I don't know why but on most of my shopping trips lately I have been buying cocktail dresses. I have recently discovered the great dresses of Marchesa, they are really pricey but so beautiful. I bought yesterday A beautiful dress from Zac Posen called the Tomato gown but at £3752 I am going to have to make sure I have lots of wear out of it.

I actually went to a grand national party yesterday and wore a fab dress from Oscar De La Renta, I bought it from Net-a-porter.com so have added onto my blog for you to see, it's called Taffeta embroidered dress as soon as I put it on X just loved it and I felt such a grown up wearing it http://www.net-a-porter.com/product/27564. I didn't win either which was a bit sad, but the champagne made up for it.

I am still looking for my house I just haven't been able to find one where I walk in a think wow, as I am on a health kick at the moment I am also looking for one with a gym and pool attached, I am really looking for a apartment in the Docklands area but who knows. I would love to live in Aldrely Edge as there are some really beautiful homes there but it's too far away from X.

Now as for whether you should email your prospective sugar daddy, yes but make it a jokey one tease about the weather difference especially seen as we have had some snow, keep it light hearted and n pressure just end it with have a fab holiday and that's it. Don't add i'll see you soon. Hope this helps

Love

Jess Bunny

xx

How long to wait......

2008-04-03T12:39:00.002+01:00

OK, so I was asked when is the right time to sleep with your sugar daddy, there is only one answer to this when it feels right for you. Obviously most men want this kind of relationship so they don't have all the games and the long wait but if it doesn't feel right then you should wait, and any respectable man will respect that. If after 2 dates you wish to sleep with him go ahead.

My only advice on this is don't do it on the first date, a lot of guys will be placing adverts or answering adverts just to get sex anyone can book into a nice hotel for one night, you need to see proof that they can sustain this lifestyle. Look at what they wear, if they are comfortable in their surroundings or so they seem to have never been there before, ask them to take you to their favourite restaurant for the 1st date, do they know him there or does he have to ask where the toilets are. They are all little things to look out for when you are deciding whether he is just playing you or not.

Hope this helps

Love

Jess Bunny
xx

I love shoes....

2008-03-11T19:54:00.002Z

I bought the most gorgeous pair of shoes today, I have been hankering after them for a while but today I decided to bite the bullet and buy them, they are from Prada and the heel of them has a Pink flower on it and the shoe part in a greeny blue. They are the most beautiful pair of shoes I have ever owned. I will try and take a picture or find a picture of them to show you.

Sorry it's such a short one today but haven't really got the time to write but just had to write about these shoes hee hee

Love

Jess Bunny

xx

A little crazy.....

2008-03-05T13:45:00.002Z

So I went shopping all this week and i just worked out how much I spent £14k, shit I haven't spent like that in a long time but my mum's birthday is coming up this month and it was mothers day. For my mum's birthday I have paid for her and her 3 best friends to go to new york and given her $1500 to spend, she also has a spa package and some clothes and a Louis Vitton overnight bag. And for mothers day well she got a diamond and sapphire tennis bracelet, which she thinks is made from created diamonds but is actually very real so if she loses it I will kill her,lol.

I finally got myself my Bentley GTC I had it done in White with beige leather interior it is absolutely gorgeous, well I think I am in love with this car he he.

Me and X are still getting along really well and we just seem to be getting better and better every day, his wife is turning into a bit of a party animal so we are able to see each other more and more he spends a lot of his time with me now. And we have finally managed to book a holiday away together we are going back to Dubai in May so I can stock up on some jewellery. I haven't yet found the house I want to buy so am still renting my apartment but at least I can hold out till I find the perfect one.

So I have been chatting to someone I met through Craigslist about finding a SD. she seems to have had some really crappy experinces throught the sites and guys being fake and promising the world and never delivering.

So how have your experinces been girlies and any guys who are reading this - have you met anyone who isn't quite what they made themselves out to be.

Love

Jess Bunny

xx

hello

2008-02-25T12:20:00.003Z

Hi all,

Sorry I haven't written for so long just had a lot going on at the moment, one of my best friends from back home died unexpectedly so have been a bit caught up with dealing with that.

X has been wonderul throughout this hard time for me, and really shown me he cares, I haven't really been out much but I have decided now is the time to start living again my mates death shows that you need to live life for now.

So girlies hold onto your hats cause today I am going on a shopping trip to end all shopping trips ha ha. Let everyone know I am back

Have missed you all

Love

Jess Bunny

xxx

Paris or bust!!!!

2008-02-01T16:18:00.000Z

Sorry I have been M.I.A but me and Izzie decided to take a little trip over to Paris for a few days, we spent an amazing few days in the Le Meurice OMG how amazing are the suites in that place, Izzie decided she needed a little break as her SD has gone away on business.

I love the whole atmosphere in Paris there isn't really anywhere else like it in the world, so whilst Izzie went wild in Chanel, Dolce and Gabbana and Versace, me I went a little crazy in the cute little boutiques they have there. I bought 5 formal dresses to wear as I have a few dinners coming up and events that I want to make a splash in. One of my dresses is a gorgeous hot pink number it cost over £5000 but when I put it on I just fell in love I had my own celebrity moment in it. It gave my curves where I needed them and made me look slimmer as if by magic. I think I must have spent over £15,000 on this trip just on 5 dresses but at least I know no one else will be wearing my dresses as the good things about those boutiques is they only stock one or two of each item. I also bought some great Lingerie whilst I was away especially some great silk stockings which are just so hard to find these days.

We also paid a visit to the spa in the hotel and it was the most amazing and tranquil place I have ever been to, I had the Iroise body scrub and my skin has never looked so amazing in all my life it just a sheen to it like I have been polished like you do with floors. I also has a Beauté des Mains - Soin Perfection des Mains which is a hand treatment which nourishes the skin and cuticles and all that day I couldn't stop looking at my hands. If ever you get a chance to go then do.

Well I have to be off I am off to Embassy tonight to party like a rock star.

Thanks for all those of you who are still reading the blog. I am missing your comments though, how is your SD experience coming along

Love

Jess Bunny

xx

Its a girlie day yay!!!!

2008-01-29T14:20:00.000Z

Oh I am so tired now, I have just with all my girls for a catch up, we do this once a week, but for a while I have been missing them or done things with X or just really not been bothered, not cause I don't love the girls but you know sometimes when you just can't be bothered to get all blinged out and looking fabulous, which has to be done when we meet.

Anyway so I got up bright and early had the hairdresser give me a blow dry, and I had some really loose curls put in, now as it was just us meeting there was no need for make up artists and stuff like that but some of the other girls I know, not any of my inner circle don't leave the house until they have been "done" professionally - How stupid is that!! So anyway I had on a pair Victoria Beckham jeans in white, A gorgeous ruffle top from Matalan and a pair of Louboutin shoes, I was looking very chic and I had my Zagalini Python bag in Black, I also had on my Mac from Burberry and I was already to go to the Dorchester for some brunch and a girlie catch up. Now Lucy remember her the newest WAG was in need of consoling, she thinks her SD is cheating on her, no he isn't she is just getting really clingy and he is backing away. I don't understand why she isn't secure in her relationship until she started getting clingy he was the greatest guy, but she seems to be pushing him to his limit.

Calling him 3 times a day just to say hi and stuff like that, now men in general hate that behaviour but SD they can't stand it, that's why they are in this relationship so they don't have any of that crap. I think Lucy is going to lose him if she carries on with this behaviour, so me and Izzie have stolen her phone for the day and kidnapped her to stay in my apartment, we are trying to prove to her that if she doesn't contact him for a bit he will come running, so at them moment we are awaiting some pizza and then it is the start of the girlie marathon, we are keeping her away from her phone for 48 hours just to prove our point, now I am certain that by the start of tomorrow she will have a message from her SD asking how she is and how her day has been, so hopefully she can see that she doesn't need to be so full on, and tat she needs to let him do the chasing for a while. I'll let you know tomorrow if our plan has worked or backfired horribly :)

Does anyone know what happened to Babydoll - her blog has disappeared

Love

Jess Bunny

xx

Choosing your Sugar Daddy

2008-01-28T13:58:00.000Z

Okay, so lets say you have done all the emailing, gotten rid of those who can't meet your needs and you have the chosen handful. What to do now?

Obviously I mean the first date but who do you see first?, do you see them all? How do you decide? All important questions, so who to see first, my advice pick the one you like the most, even if two are neck and neck they can offer you the same, are both as handsome as the other, there has to be whose email brings a smile to your face before you have even read it. This is the one you go on the first date with, as this is the one yu really want your SD to be, what is the point of going on loads of dates wit prospective SD if you want this guy and he wants you, why leave him till last. If you are lucky he could be your first and only date. This is what you are aiming for one date and then you start your SD lifestyle, why meet someone and then hold on for a few weeks and them meet another when you could have already met a great guy and started with your chosen arrangement. If you want to see if the other guy can better the first guys offer, then I am sorry but you are not looking to be a SB, you don't sell yourself to the highest bidder, you go with what your heart tells you.

Treat this process like you would any other dating experience, if you click stick with him, if not then go back to your second choice. Me personally when I was talking to SD online I would only have one serious prospective SD I would write to and then the others were there in case me and the guy I wanted to be my SD didn't work out. I know some girls have more than one SD but to me this is a Courtesan rather than a sugar baby, who just sells herself to who ever can afford her rather than has a relationship with one guy where neither wants any of the relationship hassle, and the guy likes to take care of and pamper the female.

So to the girl who wrote, you must like one more than the other meet with him first, if it doesn't work out then sure meet the other one but don't play both as you cuold get burned and not end up with either. From my experience of talking to my SB friends SD don't like the feeling that they are a maybe until soemthing better comes along, what happens if you really like the guy you are going to meet on Friday but hold off until you have met the other don't like him, and then turn around and the SD you really like has got fed up of waiting and found someone new. I found with X once I had agreed to this arrangement he wanted to get it moving along quite quickly, others may not be as fast as three days but they won't want to be waiting around for weeks.

I hope this helps

Love

Jess Bunny

xx

Give him some space

2008-01-27T12:57:00.000Z

Unfortunately one thing you have to learn when you are in a SD relationship is that he will have to cancel meetings with just a moments notice, especially if you have never met before, X as I have mentioned previously is a banker so at the moment his time is really limited, I mean come on even I watch the news I know there are problems with the markets. I would be a bit more concerned if he could drop everything and come and see you the next day and yet he claims to be a VP if a company. So if he keeps on cancelling your first date remember what sector he work in, and look if there are any issues.

If you are already organising a first date though you should have already got him to confirm his identity with him giving you his companies website and then trying to contact him through the information from the website, whether it be by post or Phone.

So anyway, right now I am sitting with my laptop getting ready to watch My Super Sweet 16 on MTV, I have t admit I love the programmes where the show spoilt little rich kids, it's always guaranteed to make me laugh, looking at kids complaining that they have had the wrong colour BMW, or Range Rover. Before I met X I used to watch those programmes along with The OC, and dream of the day I could finally live like that. It still feels so unreal knowing that, this is how I live my life, I don't have money problems, I can look at things in Vogue or Cosmopolitan and know if I wanted them I could buy them, I still look some days at the things I have around me and just can't believe that they are mine. I have decided not to buy anywhere I am instead going to change where I rent I am moving to the Docklands, to a new 3 bedroom , 2 bathroom flat. The only reason I changed my mind is because there is this awesome flat that has the normal gym, spa, concierge and it has a In-house beautician at least this means I don't have to worry about my mani or pedi chipping I can just call down stairs. Also Claire remember her, she is the one with Russia is also moving into to a apartment there.

I have gotten a little bored of living in Kensington now, and what to live somewhere a bit more young and vibrant and it is still near X's London office so he can pop by every now and then. And it will only be a short car ride away from all the main shops so I am just having X do all the reference checks and then I am moving in ASAP. I can't wait. I have lived in my Kensington Flat now since me and X first got together so it will be like a new chapter in our relationship.

So how about all of you lot have any of you bagged yourself a SD yet

Love

Jess Bunny

xx

First date jitters

2008-01-26T17:17:00.000Z

So I went shopping today with one of my non SB girlfriends who cam to London for the day to see me, she has a first date with a guy next week and it got me thinking about maybe writing a blog about what you could expect on your first date, what to wear.

So by now if it's your first date you should have spoken about the financial side of things for 2 reasons. Firstly what's the point of meeting if your expectations of this relationship aren't the same and secondly it's easier to do it over email than face-to-face. You can be bolder and if you disagree with what he is offering it's easier to be polite and say "thank you but we are not on the same level" than it is to do it to his face. Imagine if you are looking for a £6k allowance and he is only looking to spend £1k or under. Also some men are just looking for occasional dates when he has company stuff on, or when he needs to get away from the wife others want like me and X have a full time relationship.

Your emails should help you figure out the ins and out s of the relationship, obviously not how may times you have sex, what positions, but how often you want to see each other, who is going to travel to who, that kind of thing.

Now if you work and it is a dinner date try to get the day of and the day after off, the day of so you can get ready and take your time and the day after not so you can stay over with him just so you can have a think about how it went, if you could see your self with him, this is a important decision and you want to let him know ASAP otherwise he may just move on, obviously you don't have to have the day after but try to get the day of the date.

Don't have a facial the day of the date, or for 3 days before it will bring out any impurities and leave you with bad skin for your date, not great!! You should have had a spray tan the night before so you just need to jump in the shower mid afternoon to get rid of the layer colour, I always leave it till the afternoon as you get a nicer colour and always have it done by someone, don't do it your self, you know it will go wrong!! Give yourself a mani and pedi, go for a nice neutral colour, obviously wash you your hair and style it once you have had your shower.

What to wear? Whilst I was shopping today I saw some lovely Black jeans around I go for DVB jeans but there are just as good ones in River Island, New Look or Topshop. The just a nice smart top, you want to be saying with your outfit, yeah I maybe going some place posh but so what I 'll dress to my style and jeans and a top can never go wrong. And the good things with black jeans is they can be mistaken for black trousers anyway so they look smart. Don't dress like you would for a job interview for a start he has to prove himself to you, not the other way round. Go for the no make up look on the face bright eyes and glossy lips. Look to make sure it applied well, no orange line if you can buy some sponges or as I use a Benefit foundation brush, you can't go wrong with one of these. Oh and lastly don't overpower him with perfume, just go light with it and put it on your pulse points.

OK so on your date, I'll go back to my experiences before X I only took enough cash for my taxi fair there and home, always meet in a bar before you go to the restaurant do you want to be stuck eating with a man who bores you to death no! Trust me it drags for hours and hours. This isn't a normal date don't offer to pay for the drinks he wants to be your SD this is what he should be doing, that is also why the bar is a good idea. Always have a friend ring you after half an hour make sure everything is ok and of course if it's not you can make a runner stating a dying dog :)

Never, Never go to bed with them on the first date, for a start no Sugar Daddy wants to think that as soon as his back is turned that his SB is going with other guys even if you have agreed you will see other people, keep him wanting more, it's classier and men will have more respect of you. Yes this relationship gets rid of the crap of waiting 5 dates and then sleeping together but take my advice you sleep with him on the first date and you have lost him. The second or third is fine but never the first. I always had to kiss a man on a first date as for me if you can't kiss eww, I love kissing and thankfully X is very good at it :) If he say he wants to try before he enters an agreement then fine but he can take you on a little shopping trip on your second date then. Try before you buy is saved for the deli counter.

Don't get so drunk you fall about, and keep an air of mystery, if he asks how you think things have gone, then tell him. Izzy told her SD that night that yes she wanted a arrangement with him and it worked out well but she didn't sleep with him that night either.

Well I hope this helps some of you

Love

Jess Bunny

xx

House hunting.........

2008-01-24T12:33:00.000Z

OMG, I can't believe Heath Ledger is dead ever since I watched 10 things I hate about you I have thought he was a awesome actor, such a shame. I hope the media leave his little girl and her mother alone so they can mourn in peace.

So I have been going into estate agents lately and looking a properties for sale, I think I want to live in the Docklands area, I love the apartments there, and X's London office is in Canary Wharf so he could pop by a lot more. I have been told the maximum budget is £5 million. The neighbour actually came to check if I was okay when X told me I was all right as one minute he had seen X coming into my apartment next minute he hears me screaming and banging, that's me jumping on the bed :)

I never expected my budget to be so big and I have seen some properties for about £2.5 million, including a awesome penthouse apartment at New Providence wharf check it out on http://www.primelocation.com it is absolutely amazing and the furniture in there is great too, so maybe if I throw in a bit more I can keep the furniture too, and you want to know the best thing, it's going in my name. So if we were ever to split the flat would be mine, and as he is telling me to pay for it on his AMEX card then no bills will come my way. YAY!!!!

So this morning I have been online and done a bit of shopping on http://www.asos.com I love this shop just because it has stuff that looks like designer but you pay half the price for it, as we all now trends come and go so why pay thousands for a dress that a celebrity has and all the rich women you see about are wearing when you can only wear it a few times and then it goes to my friends, family or OXFAM.

About every three months I bring all my girlfriends form back home up and my cousins put all the clothes I don't want up on clothes rails and some bags and shoes and just tell them to go wild anything that's left over well that goes to charity. The OXFAM on 202b Kensington High street is where I drop my stuff off, next time I drop some off I will let you know, so you can have a dig around and see if there is anything you want and I'll tell you some of my special items. See to all you haters I am not a girl just out for what she can get, I am a girl who has fallen in love with a extraordinary man and I live a extraordinary life, but I know I am lucky and very fortunate, when I first met X I was £14,000 in debt, worked three jobs just to make ends meet and went for days without food, all whilst telling my family back home that everything was fine and that I was loving my time here in London. I had no friends up here, as I couldn't go out as I was always working and any money I made went on my bills. I come from a working class background and my parents worked extremely hard to ensure we always had enough of everything so we wouldn't get bullied for being the poor kids.

So next you want to judge me, look at my background. Well after that rant I think I just defo made my decision about continuing to write or not.

Thanks for reading, even if its just Nikita and a few of the others that have left comments your comments mean the world to me, each and every day

Love

Jess Bunny

xx

Do you know what I'm back!!!!!

2008-01-23T12:14:00.000Z

Thanks Nikita, I really appreciate what you have said I also spoke to X about it and as he said there are a lot of people who want to be in your position, I started this blog to give help to Girls and guys who want this lifestyle and want somewhere to go without being judged.

So as always when I am upset I went shopping the past few days but for once I went shopping for others, my sister is coming up to visit me soon so I went and bought her some fantastic staples for her wardrobe, no clothes as she is on a diet and doing extremely well. So I thought I'd treat her to some bags and shoes X came with me as he is having a bit if stressful time because of the markets, all I know is the news keeps on talking about a recession but I have no idea what this means, and tells me it won't affect me and him. So on X's advice I bought her 5 bags in total one from Chloe, 3 from Gucci and one quilted bag from Chanel in black, and then 2 pairs of shoes from Christian Louboutin, now my sis has never had some really nice jewellery in her life so X bought her a 8 carat Diamond tennis bracelet which I thought was the sweetest thing he could ever have done, he has never met her but they have spoken on the phone and she gave him the seal of approval. So I can't wait for them to meet, my Sister is really cool so I know she wont tell my parents how old X is just his personality and how he treats me, so X has arranged for us three to have a special meal together so those two can get to know each other.

Oh and remember I said X wanted me to get a wedding band to go with the ring I wear on my left hand on my engagement finger, well he totally surprised me with a diamond band from De Beers, it is just so pretty and the sparkle from it is amazing.

Well I'll see you back here tomorrow girlies and here is where the blogging will come back twice as strong

Love

Jess Bunny

P.S. Does anyone know what has happened to Babydoll, she hasn't blogged in a while

xx

Sorry I haven't written in a while

2008-01-22T13:52:00.000Z

I was deciding whether or not to keep up with the blog although you guys can only see one rude comment which covers the jist of what they are all saying, unfortunately I have been receiving these comments every day about 20 per day each signed off with a different name. But of course it may be the same person I don't know. And it really made me think about continuing with the blog, as I didn't start this blog with the view to be insulated, be called a hoar, or even told that I am a slag, to me these things are hurtful, yes I date a married man and he cares for me financially but this is the only man in my life and the only man I have ever fallen in love with.

How does that make me a bad person? Or any of the things that you have called me, yes I fell in love with the wrong man but I am not married so how am I doing anything wrong.

I am still deciding whether or not to continue with the blog, either way I will have a new entry tomorrow either to say good bye or to start writing about my adventures again

Loves

Jess Bunny
xxx

uch I hate staying in......

2008-01-16T13:58:00.000Z

So for the last few days I have stayed in because of my head but tomorrow well I will be back out with my girls, I can't wait. I am going to go the whole hog, go to the hairdressers, hire a make up artist, go a whole new outfit and god I can't wait.

X has a online account so he can check his bill on the black card andn he has told me today I am not spending enough :) I really landed on my feet when I got him as a SD, I gave him his new watch today, and when I told him it was the first thing I bought him, well he got a little teary eyed and told me he didn't deserve me. He is so sweet and crying and he was just a little emotinal that the first thing I bought off the black card was a present for him. Thankfully X's wife is going away on hiliday again soon, and the 2 youngest well they go to bording school so we can go back to seeing eac other all the time. I dont know why X's wife bothers to stay married to him, after all she can't be that in love with him if she always wants to be away from him. So anyway back to the card he asked me if there was something I really wanted to buy, I said no so he suggested I buy myself another little car but put it in my name, so we are going round some dealerships this weekend he has offered to take me to the Bently dealership so I can look at a Bentley continential GTC in black llok it up its a awesome car, I love the model he has, but it is just the coupe version, so X said he wanted us to have matching cars, how cute is that!! X has also told me that he is putting the Range Rover in my name.

I think he is trying to show me that he is as commited as he could possibly be in this type of relationship which means a lot to me, he has told me before that he loves me, as I have told him too but we don't say this regulary as I think it would hurt us both too much. X asked me today if I would stay wit him for the rest of my life in this situation and I actually told him yes, I have never had these kind of feelings in a "normal" relationship so why would I let that go. And do you know the best thing I think X's wife has a bit on the side, there has been a bit of buzz about this round towm for the last 4/5 months so now all that needs to happen is she needs to get caught and then she won't get as much in the divorce as if he divorced her. X would never leave her penniless but he also doesn't want her to have of his money when all she has ever done is bitch about his long hours and that she has never worked in her life.

Yes you may think that this is abit of a double standard for me, but I have worked from the age of 16, and once I decide what career I want then I will go back to work, but for now X just wants me all to himself and wants to be able to call me whenever he wants and I will be there for him, in reason of course if I have plans that have been made for a few weeks then of course he understand that I can't always flake on my friends, and he knows that it is important for my to have friends who understand this lifestyle and don't judge me. But I know if I said I wanted to work or go to University he would be my biggest cheer leader.

Hope you are all enjoying my blogs, I am lovong writing them and seeing your comments it's what keeps me going and writing everyday, s please leave your thoughts and if you have any questions ask away as you can see I do always answer them.

Love

Jess Bunny

xx

I've done a little research for you.......

2008-01-15T11:29:00.000Z

OK so I was a little bored last night, as I couldn't go out with my girls cause of my headache, it's a killer!!! So instead I went on seeking arrangement and looked at some of the guys on there, obviously I don't know whether the guys are being truthful in their profiles but if they are then seem to be the best around.

I will give you their names where they are from and either their net worth or what assistance amount they are offering. I have some British and some American guys

gosoftly - Houston - $20k+
dfwERdoctor - Dallas - worth
luca the third - London/LA - £10k +
WhostheDaddy - London - worth £5 - £25 million
Richard - London - £5 - £10k
david - London - worth more than £50 million
pierre - London - worth £5 - £25 million
Tiberus - Belgium - worth more than 67 million Euro dollars
SurfMaster - California - $10 - $20k
Pocket Aces - LA - more than $20k

So spell them exactly how I have spelt them when you type in their names, there are probably more good guys out there but I got bored after a while, :) I have converted
all the money except the US $ but if you want to know what they are just halve them. I hope some of you manage to strike up conversations with these guys if you do let me know what they are like so I know if my research was good or not LOL.

I didn't really do much yesterday I had a real lazy day not really getting dressed other than into my Juicy Couture cashmere sweat suit, I love that it's so lovely when you put it on and I drove to Macky D's and ordered the biggest amount of food I could one thing I miss from there is the Cheesy Bites they had over Xmas, oh my god I could eat three bags of them in one go, aprt from the Macky D's I have been doing well on my healthy eating plan, and doing the Jordan workout, I have lost three inches from my waist and inch from each thigh and I feel much more comfortable I have only lost 5 pounds but I much prefer to look Toned rather than a size 0

Well I hope you are enjoying the blog, I love all your comments I show them to X so keep them coming girls

Love

Jess Bunny

xx

Thank you

2008-01-14T14:07:00.000Z

Thanks for all your get well messages apart form a headache now I fell fine my head is a little sore from where the stitches are and I am a bit afraid to wash my hair but I did that yesterday so it's not like it's too bad.

So it seems a lot of girls are having trouble with meeting Prospective SD, take my advice girls always chat about money before you meet, it is stupid to waste your time with someone who wont meet your expectations If you are on a website specifically for SD dating, the men won't think any less of you for setting out what you expect, do so in your profile then the people who contact you or reply back know what to expect and accept that when they email you or answer to your message, when you have been emailing a few times ask seen as they are chatting to you, if they can meet your expectations. Unless you are chatting to a guy who has up £10 - £20k don't expect this and remember all you British girls the prices are in American dollars so if the amount is $3k - $5k to us British that mean £1 - £3k, that caught me out a couple of time when I was on there, Obviously if you are making first contact to a guy it will probably be a British guy explain that you are looking for £3 - £5k, or put up on you expected assistance $5k - $10k and explain in what you are looking for that you don't expect that much in UK £ but are looking for what it would be at the exchange rate which is £3k - £5k. Go into this knowing what you want, do you want a flat, car and allowance, if so go online at look at flat prices in the area you want, look at contract hire car websites http://www.nationwidevehiclecontracts.co.uk, this is the best one I have found lately, look I even do your research, lol and obviously decide what kind of allowance you want.

Right there are 3 ways to tell if a man is wealthy, look at his shoes most rich guys don't buy shoes off the peg, most guys I know like handmade European shoes even the Americans, look at the wallet I don't mean is it full of money, normally they are made from a soft leather and come from one of the big designers, and lastly there watch this will be a high end watch no Argos or H.M Samuels watch I am sorry but I have yet to find a rich man who isn't all about watches,, how would it look in the business world! Most guys need to Impress their clients no Matter how high up the corporate ladder they are.

Well I hope this has given you some helpful tips, let me know what you think, and of course ask any questions I always answer them.

Love

Jess Bunny

Its all changed.....

2008-01-13T15:12:00.000Z

So x's wife has come home so now it's back to getting stolen moments here and there, so once he'd left this morning I decide to use the black card for some retail therapy. As it's made of titanium it is a struggle to get it into some of the card machines, but it works at all the cash points so it's not too bad.

X loves watches so the first thing I bought him was a new watch from Cartier, I also picked up some new diamond and pearl earring for me from Tiffany & Co. I went a little crazy in Office and picked up 7 pairs of shoes, and I bought a new bag from Burberry.
It's weird to think after spending practically every day with him, that I will have to go back to just odd days but hey I knew that this was what I was getting myself in to it's just hard after getting used to having him around. So I took his advice and started looking at some bands, I have decided that I will go with a full Diamond band, either from Tiffany or from De Beers, I have sent him the few I like through email so it will be up to him which one I get, I am so excited to out it on.

So as I know have a limitless allowance I am now going to take my family on holiday to Monaco my dad is a big F1 fan so I just want to show him around. And once summer comes along me and my sister are going to Marbella, X has a yacht so he says we can stay on there it has 3 staterooms and a fabulous deck, my sister is so excited to go and I am so glad I can share this with here.

I did the most stupid thing to day and slipped in the bath and cracked my head open so once I got home from shopping and had my fateful bath I had to go to casualty I have had to have a couple of stitches and Izzie is coming over to stay with me tonight to make sure I am ok, but apart from a headache and feeling a bit sick I am ok, so nothing too serious.

Love

Jess Bunny

OMG I can't believe it.......

2008-01-12T12:07:00.000Z

So today I had quite a bit of mail, along with my clothes my Hermes bag finally arrived, so I am so proud, and the best thing of all.

Well X handed me a necklace jewellery box today so I opened it expecting to find a necklace, what I actually got was even better, in it was a BLACK AMEX CARD, if you don't know what this is the Google it is basically a card with no limit on it, I mean it does have one but the limit is a few million, I was expecting this for another few month as I explained, X was going to give it to me for our anniversary. Even his wife doesn't have one, he is the sole card holder, I only know this cause he showed me a statement and on it, it shows her is the only card holder. So I asked what this meant and he said I had proven myself to him that I will stick by him so he wanted to reward me!!! Ha Ha I am so excited, X has said I can spend whatever I want on it there is no limit to my allowance. I think he has done this so he is better than Russia. Men and their egos :) Also he wants me so start looking for a flat to buy, so I think we are getting even more serious, I already wear a diamond ring on my engagement finger but know he wants me to get a band to wear with it.

I know he will never divorce his wife just for the fact it will cost him so much but it means a lot to me that he wants me to wear a band and a engagement ring, its the most commitment a sugar babe can get.

Love

Jess Bunny

xx

A little online shopping

2008-01-11T15:20:00.000Z

So I know I don't normally do two posts but I am just recovering from my online shopping trip, I was a bit bored and thought I would check out some of the high street websites, I think I went a little overboard Oops!!

Luckily I know with X if there is anything I really really wanted I could just call him up and I could get it, It's very rarely that I spend all of my budget but I am going back home in February for two weeks and rather than have my designer labels shoved in their faces, I prefer to stick with high street labels. So I shall break it down to you everything I have bought and bear in mind I will wear this when I come home as well in fact I shall probably start wearing it when it arrives which is tomorrow as I asked for Saturday delivery. So in Miss Selfridge I have ordered 26 items which total £729.00 in Warehouse I have ordered 13 items which is £558.95 Oasis I ordered 30 items which comes in at £1'220.95 and at my fave high street store River Island I bought 32 items which came to £998.64. That totals £3507.54 which isn't bad when you consider I have bought 101 Items and some of that is leather bags and Jackets, I worked it out that it is about £34.72 per item but thinking about how much wear I will get out of these clothes it's great value. I was just a little shocked as it only took me 45 mins to spend this amount of money. I haven't done something like that since I first became a sugar babe, thankfully X will only laugh when he hears this total as he wears hand made shoes and hand made suits so this is like a drop in the ocean to him, to me though it is still a big deal, I know I bought a Hermes Birkin the other day but that was from X and not out of my allowance.

Don't get me wrong I know I am very fortunate to have such a generous sugar daddy, not many get to live this high standard of life, but I guess I was just lucky in meeting X that he wants to spend so much on me.

Now I am going to take a bath and try to recover over how much I have spent it works out at £78.00 a minute!!! That is bad!!!

Love

Jess Bunny

xx

Do you have to be pretty to be a sugar babe?

2008-01-11T11:49:00.000Z

OK so G left a comment asking if you have to be pretty to be a sugar babe, every sugar daddy likes something different in a girl, just as in any relationship some guys will find you attractive others wont. But you have to make the best of what you have, so always make sure you are groomed well, make up is applied very well and you hands and feet are looked after. As I have said before always buy the best clothes you can buy, River Island, Dorothy Perkins, Topshop and Oasis are in my opinion the best for those with a small budget. A sugar daddy is ultimately looking for the best Sugar babe he can have, one to show of to his mates and give his ego a massage.

I think all sugar daddy's like their sugar babe to be in shape, so workout not to get thinner but to get toned, there are loads of different workout DVD on the market go to http://www.amazon.co.uk to read up on the reviews you can even rent them from Amazon a kinda try before you buy. Lets be honest you wouldn't like a flabby , overweight sugar dad so why would they want that in a sugar babe. At the end of the day they are providing you with a lifestyle you could not otherwise achieve without quite a few years of hard work and dedication the least you can do is stay in shape for them. And the plus point is whether you are a size 16 or size you will look better in clothes if your body is in shape, the sit better on your frame with a toned figure.

I don't think I am incredibly attractive more of a girl next door, I am not suoer skinny just a comfortable size 10, so really the main answer is no you don't have to look like a supermodel, just the nest that you can!

Hope this helps girls.

Love

Jess Bunny

xx

My health kick

2008-01-10T13:26:00.000Z

Before I start I thought I'd say I am missing your comments, I like to know what you think, so please keep up with comments, let me know what you think about my posts
thank you

Well remember I said I had gone on a health kick, well for the past week I have been doing "The Jordan workout" now some of you may scoff and think it is dead easy well I have dropped a dress size so I now wear a size 10 comfortably. When I first bought this DVD to be honest I didn't expect much from it but it does work you can feel it after you have done the workout and especially after the toning part I can hardly work so I have combined the DVD with eating healthy and I am just so much more toned than before.

So finally Lucy came to me yesterday and wanted help with how she dresses as she thinks she doesn't dress as well as the rest of us, she isn't doing badly but as with any new sugar babe who comes into money she got a little label crazy. First we went to the hair salon and got her cheap looking extensions out and replaced with real hair extensions, and took her a nice honey blond rather than bleach blond which doesn't really look great on anyone other than Pamela Anderson! Then off to Selfridges where we worked with a personal shopper at getting her style more refined and more suitable. She bought some really great staple pieces for her wardrobe like a good pair of black trousers from Valentino, a trench coat from Burberry and some lovely tops that can match up with stuff he already has to make her whole wardrobe look better. Next it was off to Topshop and River Island for some of the more Fashiony pieces, me I don't think it's worth paying hundreds if not thousands of pounds for something you may not be able to wear in the spring unless you are going to wear it to death, I look at clothes at price per wear rather than the overall cost. I do tend to be buy the expensive classics and my cocktail dresses from the more expensive designers and I buy the odd few high fashion pieces, but for stuff I know I will not wear so much I stick to the high street or go on www.asos.com. I was always taught you spend as much as you can on a coat, your bags and your shoes.

So Lucy is now looking more put together rather than a girl who has gone wild in the designer shops. As I have said before I looked awful when I first got my budget I was so used to wearing high street I only wanted to wear loud clothes with the big labels so everyone could tell I was wearing designer, now I now it's more fashionable to mix high street with designer. It's great news about Nikita coming to live in London, now she will be able to have even more fun with her sugar daddy lifestyle, will your allowance be going up???

Love

Jess Bunny

xx

Back to normal posts

2008-01-09T13:29:00.000Z

So guys back to normal today, no angry or upset posts, from now on I am going to stick to my posts and reading your comments which are very much appreciated, though I do have to say I am loving the newest blog that's around it's called "a sugar babe in construction" I will put up a link to her post later so you can keep up with her search for a sugar daddy. And of course keep reading Nikitas it is a good blog, and I was just a little over-sensitive probably as my day with X was ruined, I love her blogs it is completely different to mine but good none the less

So I bet you are wondering what I bought with the free rain of a BLACK AMEX, well my Hermes bag, I actually bought a new sat nav as well, which is pink it's actually only from Halfords I was so excited when I found it. I bought a few new pairs of Louboutins from EBAY, along with a new quilted Chanel purse in pink I have it in black and red already but since I saw Lily Allen with a pink on e I have been searching for one and I always seen to miss them so yesterday I managed to get one yay!! I also bought a new dress remember the pink moon dress Victoria wore in LA with the matching Hermes bag, well I have wanted one for ages for when I go out, I haven;t been able to find one I like the Navy looked to secretarial on me and the red just doesn't work with my skin tone, so I went on my fave online shop net-a-porter.com and found one in Dove grey, now I haven't been on net-a-porter looking at dresses for a while or when I have I've been looking for cocktail dresses so I was just browsing yesterday and came across this and well I have fallen in love. I'll be able to wear it when I go for a meal out or dress it down for a day shopping with the girls.

Talking of the girls I bet you are wondering how Claire and Russia are getting along, well very well is the answer, she is moving into a new apartment at the end of the month, beginning of February, Russia has given her his Mercedes SLK to drive until she decides what car she wants permanently and her allowance well to start with her allowance will be £10k - can you believe it that's mad, and it will go up every moth there are together until it reaches £20k!!!! Now believe me I thought my allowance was big but damn!! Now she wont be his only SB he already has 2 others set up on similar deals, what his wife thinks I have no idea but how can she not know? He must hardly spend anytime with her. But if I look on the great side maybe we will have another 2 SB to join our little circle.

On the blog I was talking about earlier unfortunately she has been let down by her prospective SD and unfortunately this happens a lot Claire was on the hunt for a good year and a half before she found Russia, he didn't just fall into her lap, but when she found one well she struck gold. Some girls on the site are just looking at money but girls if you don;t fancy them or there is no chemistry wait until the right one comes along, otherwise you are just behaving like a hooker rather than a SB, make sure he is right for you both financially and physically and then you will have a fantastic relationship with a lot of fun along the way

Love

Jess Bunny

Two posts

2008-01-08T17:40:00.001Z

OK I am writing 2 posts today as something has quite upset me, as you know another blog was set up after mine that gave a completely different life as a sugar babe to mine, mainly as she was a part time sugar babe. Now as I have written on her comments I read it every day and thought it was a fab blog, so today she gets a comment that she isn't telling people about her life and the first thing she does or so it feels like to me is attack what I get as a sugar babe, yes I know I am damn lucky to have such a generous SD and friends that can deal with and understand my life, God as I said before Izzie I met through sugardaddie.com by emailing her to say I was looking for some one to help deal with this crazy lifestyle.

She went on to make a comment about how "she cant flaunt her lifestyle and designer clothes as she has to think about her family" I am sorry but I have a mother, father and 3 sisters who I am all very close to and to who get advantages of my life every time I see them. I don't flaunt or brag about my lifestyle to them you are only getting told about the amazing things as this is what my blog is about, it's not like I ring my mother every other day just to let her know what I have bought.

I am sorry to rant a bit but I don't see why another sugar babe is passing judgement on another one's life, that was precisely the reason I started this blog was so we could share our experiences without fear of being attacked. Sorry to write this post but when I read it, it did really upset me.

Love

Jess Bunny

The topsy turvy world

2008-01-08T14:06:00.000Z

Uch I am so annoyed, X and me are sitting in the airport waiting to go back to London, unfortunately there is something going wrong with one of X's deals and he is so anal about his work that he won't let his workers deal with it, but he has given me his black card and told me to go crazy once we get back to London. I am not annoyed with X as being a sugar baby I have to expect plan to change and for him to disappear when you enter into this relationship I suppose you expect that and you have to accept it. I am more annoyed at myself for letting myself get so excited about our few days together uninterrupted and peaceful.

X has told me I can spend whatever I like there is no limit so as we speak I am buying for a Hermes Birkin bag on EBAY, it's a lovely tan colour one and is going to cost close to £5,000 but and this is a big but if I was ever to sell this bag I know i could get double the amount for it so it's a investment. I have wanted this bag for ages and the moment X told me I had no limit to shop I knew this was what I was going to buy, fortunately this doesn't eat into my limit either. I also tend to buy most of my Christian Louboutin shoes from EBAY just because they always have the latest styles and I can always find the ones I want in my size. I must buy about 2 pairs a week and the good thing for all you girl who can't tell anyone well tell everyone you got them on EBAY for £100, they sell them unworn and no-one can ever disprove you, you were just the lucky one who found the bargain after months of looking. I think I may jump in the bath and do some shopping online when I get home, to be honest the weather is supposed to be crappy back in London and I can relax whilst I shop.

Seen as I have decided to stick at my blog, I have bought a brand new laptop it's the pink one from DELL I actually showed X my blog last night and he loves it, he thinks I should write more about how good in bed he is though,lol. Typical man!!

So Jenn has asked about talking about allowances, well when I was looking for a SD on the web I used to chat for a bit see if we clicked and beofre I would give out any personal details I would say that before we continued we should find out if our financial expectation met, most guys were happy to do this, I found most men happy to get it out of the way I always said once this is discussed once, we won't discuss it again unless he brought it up and this kept most men sweet. I spoke to X about this and he has said most men have a figure in their mind of what they are willing to spend, but he has told me that to barter would to seem a little desperate if it is your first sugar daddy then I would say when you put a profile up on seeking arrangement then use the box that say financial assistance accepted, therefore if someone replies or contacts you then they are accepting the amount you have stated. Also look at their net worth if they are worth £1 million can they afford £10k per month on top of all their expenses, probably not, so be practical in what you ask for. But don't just jump on the first guy that comes along stick with your search until you find the best one possible for you.

Hope that helps, and I just got conformation that I have won the Birkin, I can't wait, I am so excited.

Love

Jess Bunny

xx

The nicest suprise

2008-01-07T16:20:00.000Z

So remember I said X had said he could top Russia, well my surprise was being woken at 8am and being told to get ready for a day of shopping, so normally when X takes me shopping he likes to take a cab, no point of parking he is so worried about his cars, he thinks someone will damage it, accidentally or not. For those interested he has a Maserati Gran Turismo, a Range rover, a Mercedes and BMW X5, and some old vintage cars, and and he has a Lamborghini, not that he drives it anywhere I think he bought it just to look at, men and their toys ha ha. So back to the day well X told me he had a driver arranged who dropped us off at Heathrow, now my mind starts racing, thinking a day trip to Milan or Paris or maybe even Dublin as they have great shops over there, but no he does one better and takes me to Manchester I have been saying for a while that I want to come here and do some shopping so we flew business class, it only takes an hour, and now we have been holed up in The Lowry Hotel, in a gorgeous suite, I haven't actually been shopping yet, the suite is just to nice to move from so we are staying until tomorrow our flight arrives back at Heathrow at 8.45pm I think so tomorrow X has told me will be filled with shopping. I am so excited I am just going to stick to the city centre I think as me and X always get lost going round the boutiques, we both have a bad sense of direction I suppose :)

So once I am back tucked up in my Flat I will let you know what I have bought or probably when we are stuck in the airport, wish me luck HA HA

So all you part time sugar babies, if your man is saying you can't go away yes you can, a little day trip now and then isn't too bad me and X have been to paris countless times on the Eurostar, it takes less time for me to go to Paris than to my home town by train.

Love

Jess Bunny

xx

X is home

2008-01-06T10:38:00.000Z

So X is back in the country, last night I had a fantastic night, I ordered a chef who came to my apartment, made Xs' favourite meal, bought some underwear from Agent Provacature, like Ann summers only a bit more upmarket and told X to be around mine for 10pm.

When he came in well I had tea lights all over the flat as the living room kitchen is open plan and the food on the table. We sat and ate food at the dining table and then X got to see my real present the underwear! Well girls I won't go into details but lets just say the smile hasn't left his face yet. :) As the wife is still in Aspen then X is out at the moment buying us some breakfast, luckily we have a very good concierge in my apartment building who knows the best places for everything. I told X about Claire and Russia last night and bless him, he done the manly thing of puffing out his chest and getting very jealous. And saying anything Russia could do he could do better. So I think I have something coming my way, What is it with men and their egos?

I still can't believe Claire has managed to find such a great sugar daddy through a website, if I hadn't seen the presents he bought her I don't think I would have believed her. Oh one thing I should mention Claire is about 5"7 a size 8 and really pretty, but she has one of the kindest hearts, so see every sugar daddy is looking for something different. Now as with most Russians he is married, they marry quite young over there, so don't think you can become their wife, but from what I hear around town they are very very generous with their money.

I am so glad to see this new blog http://shinyobjectsandme.blogspot.com its all about a girl wanting to become a sugar baby so a new take on my blog and from a completely different angle so show her some support girls like you have for me. Oh and nikkita I would do something like I did for X for Adams birthday

I hope you are still enjoying the blog, I am missing your comments so remember to leave your thoughts.

Love

Jess Bunny

xx

The jackpot!!!

2008-01-05T21:06:00.000Z

Well my girl has hit the jackpot, remember my friend Claire who was looking for a sugar daddy, well she found one and found a great one, she is know dating a Russian guy, for all those who aren't aware the rich Russians are involved in OIL, so that means he is loaded, she met him through seekingarrangement.com, so girls that site does work. She has proven that.

Now she had her first meeting Friday, they met at Embassy nightclub in Mayfair a little favourite club of ours, they went for a mean and then down to the private members club, you can try getting on the guest list or like us take out a membership as we go there a lot. So from what Claire tells me he was very gentlemanly threw down a couple of thousand as they had a VIP table and basically spoiled her rotten. He dropped her back to her flat which is in a not so great part of town, and she thought that was it until he rung again, which he said he would do next week. Anyway this morning she wakes up and there is a delivery of 2 dozen white roses, with a note on it to be ready in an hour. An hour later a car arrives to pick her up and she is taken to Bond street where her Russian is waiting in Chanel ready to spend. I thought this kind of start would only happen in a book but she has been round with her goodies to prove it, he must have spent another couple of grand on her this afternoon.

Russia has also told her that he doesn't want his "woman" living in such poverty, this with the girl who wears nothing but designer and eats out nearly every night, ha ha!! So he has given her a few properties to look at which he own and has told her to choose one to live in, they haven't spoken about an allowance yet but he doesn't seem like a tight guy, so I think she has definitely landed on her feet, is it bad I am jealous, I love X but this seems like a fairytale, and that is the best part of this relationship, the start of it and the excitement of something new.

So girls my advice stick with the websites they obviously do work, now like I said me and Claire have both been on dodgy dates through it but wade through the bad ones and you will find your golden ticket :)

Love

Jess Bunny

xx

My first few months

2008-01-04T11:13:00.000Z

OK so now I have been a sugar babe for a while, it doesn't take me long to spot a new sugar babe, its going to be the girl with the longest hair extensions, the deepest tan, the longest nails and the most designer labels thrown together.

When I first became a sugar babe the first thing I did was get hair extensions, lathered myself in fake tan and did the whole nail extension thing, to be honest at first I was a bit scared to go shopping I mean I went from having say £300 per month after all my bills were paid to having a budget of £6500 to spend however I liked. I used to find the boutiques and Bond street so intimidating, I hate the shop girls who look at you like you shouldn't be in there, once I flashed my gold card about they soon shut up and the filthy looks stopped. And honestly some of them are really nice just let them know what you are looking for give them your budget and their attitude soon changes. My first "big" purchase was a pair of 1 carat diamond stud earrings, it was something I always wanted as they are so classic and go with everything. I walked into Cartier and asked to look at them, I remember being so shocked at the price I even rung X just to amke sure the card could accept that amount, he just laughed as it was no big deal but to me spending £2000 in one go was massive.

My other mad spending spree was going wild in Topshop I remember when I first started on one of my first shopping trips I spent £600 in one go and in Topshop 2 years ago that was a lot of clothes.

I think it's hard getting used to money when you have never had it but don't act like it's a bad thing it's one of the best feelings knowing you can walk into anywhere and buy anything X has a black card and he has told me for our 3 year anniversary I will be getting a additional card, now this is the card that doesn't really have a limit on it at least not one that you could spend any time soon :)

So what about you, what are the best things you bought at the beginning

Love

Jess Bunny

xx

Let me explain a bit better

2008-01-03T22:31:00.000Z

So I should have probably explained a bit better how I got to meet X's wife, well a lot of the wives of rich men like to throw charity parties, they like to out do each other with these parties and it ends up being less about the charity and more about them and how lavish the bash is. So my friends' sugar daddy was invited to take a table at one of these events and invited me along, no he isn't aware of me and X, I asked X if I could go, it seemed fair to fore warn him, he knew I wasn't looking to expose our relationship so it was fine.

As the host X's wife had to mingle and I was sitting at my friends table who is considered important at these events as he tends to give a lot at the auctions they hold, she came over to chat, since then I have been to about 3 of these events and that's how we have met. The 22 year old I know through my social scene, the younger girl I know about through another sugar baby and the little boy well he is the apple of X eye, so he talks about him all the time.

I have decided this year to get on a health kick, I don't want to lose weight just get fitter, all the parties are starting to catch up with me I think, so anyway me and Lucy (the newest SD WAG) went an bought a fitness DVD and done it round mine, OMG I didn't realise just how unfit I was until I put this on. Now I could just take the easy route and have that new thing liposculpture but because I just want to tone up I know I am going to have to stick at it, the last bit of exercise I used to do was using a "lateral thigh trainer" I do have a treadmill in my flat but now it just holds my shoes and bags. Oops ha ha!!!

So X will be home tomorrow, so I am planning a special night in, it's weird how you miss your SD, but never tell your SD that you miss him in a whiny voice, when I first started I used to say I missed kissing him or the sex, it's a roundabout way of saying you miss him, but he wont start to think you are getting clingy or that you are demanding more of his time, do this and I can guarantee he will run a mile. I didn't tell X I missed him until he said one day when we hadn't seen each other for a few days he missed me and even then if he says that don't make a big deal out of it. Once X left I was jumping round but whilst he was there it was just a case of saying "yeah I missed you too" and moving on. Then I look like I miss him but don't need him which is what a SD needs to feel, they don't want to feel like your ATM machine but they don't want you to turn into a nagging girlfriend, they have that at home.

Loving all you r comments guys, is there anything specifically you want me to write about, any problems or suggestions are always welcome.

Love

Jess Bunny

xx

A brand new year

2008-01-02T19:28:00.000Z

Well 2007 flew by for me, I think I really learnt how to handle my lifestyle and this year well now I am in my stride, I have good friends, great family and a fantastic man, who incidentally in coming back from Aspen early, him and the wife had a big row, her loss my gain.

So maybe I should tell you a bit about X's wife, I have met her a few times, she has the typical rich wife look, she is 38 had too much plastic surgery and way too thin. I have seen photos from when she was younger and she was absolutely beautiful but now well she just looks jaded and too plastic. X has 3 kids one is 22 another is 18 and another is 14. I know the 22 year old from the party scene and she is a fab girl, she is training to be a doctor and has her head screwed on right. The 18 year, god what a nightmare, have you ever seen "my super sweet 16" on MTV well she is just like that, a spoiled brat, X gives into everything she wants, but hey that's none of my business. The 14 year well from what I hear he is a little heartbreaker in school but really down to earth.

So anyway lets not talk about that, it's unimportant to us sugar babes, lets talk about New Years eve, well my plans never really came to, we ended up staying at my apartment, 10 friends turned into 40 and a house party was in order, I wonder why champagne gives such a devastating hangover? So the apartment suffered a bit a lot of wine and champagne was spilled but it was a fantastic way to spend new years eve, we could see the fireworks from my roof terrace. But devestating new I broke the heel on my Jimmy choos, a remembrance ceremony will be held tomorrow :) ha ha.

I am so excited for snow tomorrow, I am like a child when it comes to snow.

So a brand new year, what are my plans, well definitely going to keep up with the blog, I love reading everyone's comments and its good to know I can help a few of you new babies out there, I know how hard it was for me when I first started. I think I may look at doing a part time course in something, no idea what but something else to keep my brain working, a well this year X has promised me we will go on Safari, it's something I have wanted to do for a few years and this year I am going to make it happen. What else well one of my friends from home is coming to live with me she wants to be a singer so she is moving to the capital in with me yay!!! Lots more fun to come.

So my new years resolutions are to continue to be thankful for the life I have, to smoke less, not eat so many bacon sandwiches and to alays try to be home beofre 4am after a night out

Hope you all had a good new years eve

Love

Jess Bunny

xx

Just a few random thoughts thrown together

2007-12-31T10:50:00.000Z

I am glad that others are enjoying this blog and starting to have their own, maybe then people will realise we are nothing like prostitutes, for a start I am in love with X and yes although his money drew me in, X keeps me there. If you don't find you SD attractive or the sex isn't good then I am sorry to say then you are just taking sex for money, with me X doesn't leave money on the side of the table when he's done, I have my credit card in his name, yes it's a secretive relationship but you know what at least I don't have the hassle of other people encroaching on my relationship.

A couple of girls have left comments now saying that there friends don;t know, all of my "old" friends do, and you know what they are true friends they don't judge, the way I brought it to them was that I was dating a guy who wanted to treat me like a princess, I left out the fact he was married but they all know he's older. My family know I am dating a older guy and that he's rich but they also think that I have a job. And no I am not ashamed of the fact I don't I just don't believe they need to know every single fact of my relationship. I don;t ask my parents about their finances why would they ask about mine.

So anyway I went onto SEEKINGARRANGEMENT.COM yesterday I have to say there doesn't seem to be much choice on their for the British girls, but there are a few good ones on there that I used to chat too, that haven't been snapped up so keep persevering. So anyway remember how I told you one friend was still looking for a sugar daddy well she regularly goes on dates with these guys, so far from the sites she has just found pervy old poor men, I do feel sorry for her, I am glad I am out of the "Rat race" now.

My tips for meeting these guys, well meet in a public place, check his manners, most SD I know are very gentlemanly and have impeccable manners. His car is a big give away, Lisa has met with one guy who claimed to have a net worth of £50 million and then turned up in a shed of his car. I am sorry but most rich men like to have a good car. But don't mistake the classic cars for cheap one, sometimes they cost more than a new car. You choose the venue, try the Savoy or the Dorchester. Another big things X buys his suits off the peg from Saville Row, if a suit is ill fitting or from Next I am sorry girls but he isn't who he says he is. Remember in their business appearance counts for a lot.

Well I can't believe it's new years eve at last I have changed my plans and am now having a get together in my flat and then onto the clubs, I have decided to wear my fantastic Roberto Cavalli dress, with my hair up and professionally done make up, so I am off now to get prepared. I hope you all have a fantastic new years eve.

Just remember you had a life before having a sugar daddy so he is not the be all and end all of your life

Love

Jess Bunny

xx

The pitfalls of this relationship

2007-12-29T16:47:00.000Z

OK so this is in answer to a comment left on my last blog, you say you are in love with him that's great but you need to be realistic does he have a wife, if no then fab but don't put to much pressure on him, if he has a wife I'm sorry to be harsh but he wont divorce her, it will cost him to much money. I love X with all my heart and he is the only guy I am with, but it is hard knowing he goes home to his wife and shares a bed with her, but girls don't put pressure on him he is in this relationship as he doesn't want the hassle of leaving his wife and kids or the mundane things that happen in a normal relationship. Yes me and X argue the difference being when we make up I get some diamonds :) But don't break up with him just cause you are falling in love just accept that this may never be as out in the open as you like and you will have the most fantastic relationship of your life.

The biggest pitfall is other women, once they realise what kind of relationship you have they will do anything to try and replace you but just play it cool, don't act jealous at least not around your SD and have fun with it. If you start to get jealous and whiny why would he continue with that when that is the kind of relationship he has at home. Just remember you have and only you can lose him. Yes there will be thinner women and prettier women but he has invested time in you and most businessmen hate to see a investment go down the drain. Most sugar daddys are alpha males and they need their ego massaged so if you see a girl checking him out, point it out, when I tell X some stunning blonde is checking him out you see his chest puffing out, but I know he is coming back to me be secure in your relationship or you will lose it.

Then of course you get the women who think this relationship is degrading to women, god this kind of relationship has been going on for centuries the only difference is now men and women have given it a different name and there are people actively searching for this kind of relationship. Most people I know would love my life I don't have to work, I can go into any shop and purchase whatever I want and I don't have to worry about where my next meal is coming from. What is so bad about that. Yes I could have done it on my own but you know what I didn't want to, I wanted the whole princess lifestyle and I am damn glad I am fortunate to have it.

Well rant over

Glad you girls are liking the blog it means a lot to me, so spread the world to all your sugar baby and sugar daddy friends. Abd keep the comments coming I love reading them in the morning, they mean a lot to me.

Love

Jess Bunny

xx

A day out with the girls

2007-12-28T17:34:00.000Z

Well me and the girls went out today to do a little shopping in the sales, did you see people yesterday I am sorry but I would never queue outside a shop from 5am, I don't care if they were giving away Jimmy Choos, and the people in Next having the full on fist fight, well it was just awful.

My favourite hight street shop has to be River Island and I got some fantastic clothes there today, I have a cute navy little jacket for £25.00, picked up a few bags for when I go out with my friends back home, I hate to rub my life in their face so I always go high street, and I had this fantastic dress for New years eve in there at only £30 absolutely fab. One shop I am really starting to get impressed with is Jane Norman, the clothes there seem to be getting much better and not so cheap looking.

Anyway I have had a few comments left stating that they are getting a certain amount which they are happy with cause of their age, OK age does not come into it, I was only 19 1/2 when I started my sugar daddy relationship and I was getting £6500 it doesn't matter about you age, you should look at how much time you are spending with the guy, I was compensated well as I was willing to for everything when he needed me to, so I could visit him, If your sugar daddy is saying he is only giving you a certain amount because of your age don't accept that reason as its crap, your allowance should depend on the amount of time you spend together not the age difference.

Love

Jess Bunny

xx

My xmas

2007-12-27T16:03:00.000Z

Well I hope you all had a fantastic Xmas I certainly did. So I suppose you want to know what I had for Xmas. Well of course I had my Porche, I had a Zagliani Yume bag, a pink Alexander McQueen skull scarf, a cute little Juicy Couture cheque book charm, a ipohone cover from Christian louboutin, a iphone embedded with diamonds from Selfridges I think. And the best thing a 2 week holiday to Dubai with my and my 4 girlfriends as X can't come with me.

As you can see I was very lucky, and I am very very grateful, I can't wait to see X in a few days I'll get to see him, I have cut short my 2 weeks with my family cause I miss him so much and I want to see him before he goes skiing in Aspen. Oh my friend has been accepted on datingarrangements.com she tells me that it isn't very good as there aren't any men on there, but I'd stick with it as they may be having technical problems with it, who knows??

Well sorry it's a short one but I am off out with my family now so speak soon

Love

Jess Bunny

xx

Not long till Xmas

2007-12-20T13:32:00.000Z

I am going to be going home soon for Xmas so me and X are spending Saturday and Sunday together, I am off out with some of my girlfriends tonight, so I have had my hair done ready. When we go out together it is a case of who has the best dress, the best jewellery, the nicest bag. I suppose it's a girl thing only me and another of my friends mixes high street and designer, there is now a group of 6 of us including the new SB I spoke about before. We always laugh as we do see some people looking at us very strange as on our nights out we dress to impress each other rather than men. My best friend is called Izzie she like me is dating a banker so she lives a very nice life. It's nice to have a close group of friends who don't judge you for being in this kind of relationship, but understand it, all the ups and downs.

Anyway back to tonight, I have bought another fantastic high street dress, its actually from lipsy, and its a hot pink halterneck dress all the celebs have been seen wearing it, it was actually one of my Xmas presents from Izzie, being such a girly girl she knows I love anything pink and this dress well it is just so girly. Another of my friend has bought me a pair of Christian Loboutins that have the bow at the back, they are so dramatic and so very me. To top of the out fit well it has to be an oversized clutch from Gucci, I love this new trend as it means I don't have to worry about whether I can fit everything into such a small bag. Tonight I am going to BLING myself out, I have a fantastic pair of pink diamond studs and a gorgeous pink diamond 3 carat ring that X bought for me for my birthday.

So onto X well for Xmas I have bought him a Cartier watch and and money note holder with a small 1/2 carat diamond encased in it, and it's set in platinum. For some reason X hates carrying a wallet so he has these note things and it does look lovely. Saturday we are going down Bond street to do some Xmas shopping for me and Sunday we are going to have a lazy day in the flat watching Xmas films and giving each other our presents, and well I can think you can guess what else :-)

Now back to the girlys well there is Izzie, Jazz, Lullah, Claire, Lucy and me. Lucy being the newest one to join us, only Claire doesn't have a SD but she is looking and for now she works in Fashion PR, to help fund her life, but we do always treat her to bit and bobs and we never make her pay for nights out with us. I would say fashion wise we are like Football WAGS we are always on trend and we do like to see who has the most expensive bag or car. Izzie is winning her bag cost £6500 she saw that Colleen had one and rung round every boutique until she could track one down, I cant remember the name of it but buy either LOOK or Grazia and it's in there. Apart from Claire none of us work, Lucy has just given her job up she worked as a secretary for X and met her SD through him. I would say we are all quite sweet, we know we live a fab life and never take it for granted, just enjoy every day as it comes.

I hope you are enjoying these blogs I am not really getting much feedback but at lot of you seem to be reading it so leave me some comments let me know what you think and if you like my blog tell all your friends :)

Love

Jess Bunny

Happy Christmas

xoxoxoxo

Not as easy as it looks

2007-12-19T12:36:00.000Z

Having this life isn't all that easy now yes some of you may roll your eyes when I say that, but basically you got this life on how you look, and by that I don't mean looking like a model prefect size 6, I mean that your sugar daddy was attracted to you cause of the way you looked, as I mentioned I am slim size 12 X likes my curves but I know if I let myself go then he would move on or say something to me. I lost a bit of weight over the summer and dropped to a size 8 and he hated it, my curves are what attracted him to me in the first place, but I got a little paranoid that he wanted a size 8, perfect looking girl. Men don't all want that it doesn't matter what size you are just be height weight proportionate and stay that size. I find the best exercise is Pilates just because it makes you look long and lean, without being overly muscular.

I make sure I have a facial twice a month, but I wash with clearasil I have found this works for me at keeping my skin clear. I also use Benefit Honey... snap out of it scrub at least 3 times a week, of get rid of dead skin. Once I got with X the first thing I did was have a make up lesson, you can get these at MAC, BENEFIT, or most cosmetic counters. I personally use Benefit cosmetics, along with Models prefer. Models prefer do great foundation and their trio concealer is one of the best around, check out QVC for their prices or MODELSPREFER.COM. Good make up is the key as all the professional say do it in good light, I now have a dressing room and I have installed a table a chair with a mirror and lights around it just like you see on T.V ad I love it. I always wear a full face of make up as I personally think you put more together and X likes a very groomed look.

Your hands and feet are a big thing to as I think this says a ot about you, I have a mani and pedi every 2 weeks, what's the point of having fabulous shoes and then showing off horrible feet, LOL. As for hair removal, well I epilate, its quick, easy and you can do it at home, I have never found those waxing strips to do anything apart from leave wax in my carpet. But never do your own bikini line, that means ingrown hairs and girls that ain't attractive.

So apart from this what makes my life difficult well you never know if this is all going to end, I'm a lot more secure in my relationship now but in the beginning you know it can be taken away just as quickly as you found it. But just enjoy it whilst it lasts for however long it lasts. And of course you have new women going for your man everyday, but as long as you stay strong, don't become the jealous woman, causing fights then you should really keep him, don't bring drama into his life if he wanted that he wouldn't be in this kind of relationship and 9 times out of 10 that's what he gets when he goes home anyway.

So my final bit of advice just remember he chose you, so he obviously liked you for who you were then, so don't worry about changing your self, if he didn't like you he wouldn't have entered into an agreement with you.

Love

Jess Bunny xx

What to ask for as a sugar baby

2007-12-18T10:03:00.000Z

Ok so this is probably the most important thing, you have to realise what you want out of this experience do you like me want to be able to give up work, or are you in school and just don't want to have to take a waitress job to be able to have fun or keep up with the latest fashions, the easiest is if I probably look at these separately.

For those who want a life like mine, and want to be able to give up work. In all honestly unless you live in a big city I would expect to move, I moved from my home to London once I found my sugar daddy and its about 3/4 hours away. Familiarise yourself with the nice areas of town for me its Knightsbridge, Chelsea or some areas of the docklands. You need to be looking at sugar daddys' with at least a budget of £6k per month, as for cars there are two types you should look at either a convertible or a 4x4. In the first few months expect this to be rented until you know that both of you are happy with each other and that this is definitely the partnership for you. Take a look at WWW.LEASECARSDIRECT.CO.UK this has the one of the best ranges of some of the nicest cars at good prices. As for your allowance well if you are willing to be at his beck and call, see him whenever he likes, then I would suggest a starting point of around £5k. If you are going to say you will see him 3 times a week expect a starting point of around £1500 per month. X takes care of all my bills and everything is in his name, don't ever allow stuff to go in your name if things end badly everything financial will come back to you, always have stuff in his name. Flat, car, phone. I have my allowance through a credit card in his name where I am an additional named card holder, either do this or have it put into your bank account don't take a card in your name, for one you wont get as much credit as him and two it will fall on you to pay it.

Ok now for those part time girls, in all honestly I would just expect an allowance, I would expect it to be anything for £250 per week up to £750 per week and expect to see him at least 2 a week, either for drinks, food or sometimes I have heard of part time girls not having an allowance and just being taken shopping each time they meet, or receiving a gift, such as shoes or a bag or a new dress. I wouldn't expect too much as these are busy guys and they aren't going to give you the world if you can't be there when they need or want you.

I hope this has helped a bit.

Jess Bunny

xx

The sugar daddys to look out for.

2007-12-17T17:02:00.000Z

My sugar daddy like many others is a banker, this is good on many levels works long hours so you have plenty of time to your self, gets paid fantastically well, mine gets a little over £5 million a year just in his bonus, and yes there is that the bonuses, no other profession gets a bonus like the guys who work in the city, if you can I would always go for a banker for a sugar daddy. The only bad side is that with them working such long hours its hard to meet them, but through friends who have been trying to get a sugar daddy I would say the best place is the internet.

Now I have noticed especially in the UK that craigslist is becoming a very popular place to put an advert up for a sugar daddy, word it well and you'll get the cream of the crop but you will have to find the good ones out of the idiots who right back either telling you your a slag and ugly, or the fantasits but there are some good guys on there two. I have a girlfriend who has added such a advert and so far ahas attracted 3 bankers, so is just find the right one for her.

There have as well started sites that cater for this relationship, as I have said previously SEEKINGARRANGEMENT.COM is one of the best, as they have certified guys on there who have paid to have their identity and wealth check and confirmed and verified, also it is free for all sugar babes to search, post a profile and send and receive emails. I used to have a profile on this site and did find a reasonable amount of guys on this site.

Another great one is of course SUGARDADDIE.COM this has a good choice of uk guys on it, though I have found personally that older men seem to go on this one. And look out for the fake photos, I have found quite a few profiles with pictures of lesser known celebrities.

The newest is DATINGARRANGEMENTS.COM but this seems to be a difficult one to join though it does say it has footballers, bankers and entrepreneurs on its lists so stick with it as it may be one of the best if it follows up on what it promises.

So the other great professions to look out for, well business owners of course sales and marketing, Manufacturing companies, and property developers all seem to have good money and of course available funds. That's something to be careful of someone may be worth £5 million but if its all tied up where is there any free cash to spend on you.

So there is my thoughts, tomorrow I'll let you know what I think you should be asking for when you find your sugar daddy

Hope you all are enjoying my blog.

Jess Bunny

xx

A new sugar baby

2007-12-16T19:04:00.001Z

We had a new girl come out with us last night that was introduced to us by one of X'S banker clients. You can tell she is new to this lifestyle as I think she has bought every designer known to man and thrown them all on together. It was an awful sight, she had terrible nail extensions, the chavvy French manicure ones, a tan that left her as orange as a satsuma and a dress so short I saw things of hers only her sugar daddy needs to see. But I am going to take her shopping soon so she looks a bit better as I am sure I probably done the same as her when I got into my sugar baby role I think thats why X introduced us really.

She seems a lovely girl if not a bit competitive, but I'm sure once she gets used to her role she will chill out a bit. I do think it's hard for a new sugar baby to come onto the scene as it is very daunting just being welcomed into this world, it's even harder if you have no one who understands your life. Tell people your a WAG they are jealous, tell people you are a sugar baby they call you a slag. But get the right friends around you and you will have the best time of your life.

I think that it's hard these days trying to attract the right sugar daddy, you kind of have to dress for the role, I don't think you have to be stick thin, but just make sure that you are height weight proportionate, always look done so make sure your hair is clean, your make up well applied, you need to master the art of wearing a full face and not looking like you are wearing much. Even if you can't afford designer just make sure your clothes are in good condition, as soon as they start to lose their colour get rid of them. The best website for clothes is www.asos.com, as this sells clothes in the style of the celebrities clothes and they can be quite cheap as well as having some great new designer ranges on their.

Don't go to high fashion, but make sure you look on trend, but the most important advice I could give is don't except second best, know what you want out of this experience and stick to your guns until you find it. Sugar daddys will respect you more if you don't change your mind just cause they say no, move on until you find what you are looking for, and certainly don't sleep with them if they offer you money, as that is a hooker.

Tomorrow I'll give you a few ideas about where to find potential Sugar Daddys