Well I am back to going on seekingarrangement.com but to be honest I find that sugardaddie.com has a better choice for UK daddies, they have more choice of new people it seems its always the same people on SA.com and to be honest I get more emails from SD.COM so its a better ego boost hehehe!
And trust me my ego is needing it at the moment I have put on a couple of pounds and look out of shape, I have attached a picture its not pretty girls, I have also changed my hair colour so letting your see that as well, have gotta hit the gym though so if anyone knows some good tips for tonight up and losing weight let me! As cant really afford a gym but wont be confident until I am back in shape its a bloody double edged sword.
So back to sd.com I have 8 messages waiting for me but at the moment with all my furniture costs and paint for the flat cant afford the £22 membership fee, it feels like I have taken such a huge step back and this is the kind of situation I was in when I first met X, so have been thinking a lot about him lately.
He is still texting and emailing but am still staying strong and no answering back Go me! :)
Now onto my girls the are all still really good, Izzie is coming to visit me next week once I am in my flat, claire has been dumped by the russian, but is out on the London scence and meeting bankers everywhere who love those trashy champagne bottles with sparklers in them!! LOL you gotta love them they are like Eurotrash hehehe. And Lily well fingers crossed she has a job coming up but has had to move back to our hometown but is travelling back and for for auditions
I hope I have some dates soon, thats what I really miss and now am living alone will make it a lot easier to go on those dates, so any SD's reading please ask away now hehehe!
Jess Bunny
xoxox
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Hi Jess, You look great babe if you want a little tip I have one that works well, eat what you like and healthy then just one day a week, or two until you get to the way you want, fast for 24 hours. Its so good for your health as your body is resting from digestion and stuff and 24 hours is easy enough to get through. What is easier is 24 hours like 12 till 12. So get up, you can eat breakfast... skip lunch and dinner (go to bed early and its not so bad!) then when you wake up you know you only have to make it until 12 and have lunch again (have a lie in and its not so bad again hehehe!) That helps loads and one day a week isnt so hard... try it babe.
Love your blog by the way xx Bow xxx
Jess, you look great. Thanks for keeping us posted. Good luck!
Hey Jess, you actually look fit. But if you're feeling worried, have you tried counting calories? It's really boring and kind of a pain in the ass when you first start but once you get the hang of it it's really easy. The most interesting thing is that I realized that before I was always snacking. Once I became conscious of what I was eating and how much, my body slimmed down. Going to the gym definitely helps, so I hope you can find a SD to pay for that! Nothing beats the feeling of sore muscles and feeling healthy!! Keep us posted! =)
don't worry about weight and don't obsesses about it. try to be more conscious of what you eat though maybe, a couple more healthy choices a few less indulgences. and then just work on being able to work out some. I often worry about people developing bad relationships with food and their body because i did at one point. You look good thought how you are now its not a huge deal at all. just dont do anything extreme no fad diets or crash diets.
You are so brave to put real pics here! I'm having a little weight losing campaign with myself too haha! I decided not to take it too seriously and it's working. I will just keep myself active, exercise just as much as I feel good to and eat healthy stuff. I find it so much less stressful when I just decide to go for a little walk but usually I end up running and doing push-ups and much more. So don't push yourself too hard and surprise yourself from time to time by pushing a bit more than what you would normally do.
I find that soya products are so good since they keep you full for a long time. I wrote something about that stuff on my blog but you can probably find lots of good tips on the internet. If you need a healthy breakfast/snack/something to grab before going to bed I recommend you to mix a can of crushed pineapples and about the same amount of low fat quark. Sounds weird but it tastes great and apparently pineapple reduces excess fluid in your body plus quark contains lots of protein, calcium, no sugar nor fat.
Another good way to make yourself not hungry is to mix some soya powder with cinnamon (yes!!) 100% cocoa powder and for example some coconut and add hot water. It's kinda like chai latte but so healthy and good for you plus really makes you feel SO full.
Sorry for the freaking long story I just feel so passionate about this right now! :D
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Hey Jess,
Just found your blog and have been reading with great interest! I like your posts and that you invite people to comment. Please keep it up and keep the ideas/tips/insights coming. Your life with X was unbelievable!
How did X find you attractive?
You need to take better care of yourself !
Post your ass too. I bet you have a great one!
Love your blog. I want a sugar daddy like X minus the part where he turned into an ass.
I love your blog!! Maybe I'm being selfish, but you need to post more!!! ;-p I agree with exotic, would love an SD like X (except the ass part too).
Anonymous: Jess seems to be a girl with a good heart and a head of her own. How about that? Maybe sb/sd relationships are supposed to be more than just about the appearance. If it wasn't why wouldn't SD's just search through a photo gallery of SB's and just pick the most appealing one?
Sure in every relationship it's important that there is mutual attraction but who are you to analyze what is appealing to someone else? Jess is the most beautiful and perfect girl for someone and you are the most beautiful/handsome girl/guy in the eyes of someone who happens to like you. I would be more worried if I was getting what I wanted only because of my looks.
Jess is a good role model for anyone who aims to be a sugarbabe and she has proved that you don't have to fit into that stereotypical frame that many have in their minds when talking about sugarbabes.
Looks can always be changed but heart and brains cannot. You don't seem too beautiful as a person according to the nasty comment you made. I hope you are hell of a stunning sight yourself cause just with your personality you won't go far! :)
Sugarbabys are suppose to be the perfect woman. Thats why men will spoil and lavish them.
This entails a woman to be intelligent, beautiful, adventurious, sweet, caring and most importantly ... healthy.
Anonymous: Yes indeed. Do you realize that for different people 'perfect' means different things? For someone who is married to the 'perfect' woman ideal sugarbaby on the side of the marriage could possibly be someone who is not so freaking obsessed about make up and having a tight ass? Sure most of the guys want to have a model but not all of them. It seems that we girls set higher standards for ourselves and each other than the actual SD's. I think Jess and X got along so well cause Jess was just being herself and no one else. She didn't try to fit the usual description of a 'perfect sugarbaby' and that was excatly was X needed. Yes I think it's definitely a bonus if you look like a barbie doll but it might also be that you will then more likely end up with someone who just wants a pretty face and perfect body to USE...
Jess I think your blog is absolutly wonderful. I can't wait until you post again, im sorry about X being an ass but you will find someone just as good. And the advice you left was also really good I have used quite a few of your tips and they seem to be helping. I hope you'll be back soon!!
Ok Hon! Its been a MONTH now...WHERE IN THE WORLD IS JESS BUNNY?!
Hope that everything is going ok for you...I know for a fact that you were one of the people who Spearheaded this Sugar blogging...
Most people read your blog and decided to write their own, and or try to duplicate the lifestyle that you accomplished with X...
I know PERSONALLY, you were my single piece of motivation...I read your blog with full intense and interest...
Don't leave us now, hanging from a cliff, we still want to know how you are and whats new with you. Write when you can!
XOXO
Chicago Sugar Baby :)
Damn right!! You need to come back! I googled "sugarbaby lifestyle" for the first time about a year ago and I found no proper info at all until I found your amazing blog. You are the reason why I started getting curious about this whole thing and just like Chicago SB said you are an inspiration to most if not all of us! You also need to join our Facebook community where we share pics and info with only real certified sb bloggers. It's so much fun and I can't wait to have you there!
I agree with the girls Jess, where are you? Come on girls, lets screem for Jess :P *Jeeeeeeeeeeess* lol.. You really need to know that you are a great person, and THE sugarbaby inspiration. I follow this blog for even more than a year!!!
XX J.
I can't believe Jess has been gone for so long! Has anyone heard from her via email at least? She's okay right?
Are you OK Jess, it's been months!?
Yeah girls, im also worried about here. Where is she?!
I check this blog so now and then, but nothing new. For almost THREE months!
Hopefully she is doing fine, and too busy living the good life to blog. But please inform us Jess.
XX J
I think you look great!! All sugar daddies have their own preference and there will be many that like your size. But if your weight keeps fluctuating, then maybe work out to a weight that you can maintain. Hope to hear from you soon. Your blogs are great to read.
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