Wednesday, March 11, 2009

A few myths busted

Hi everyone,

Sorry everyone I have been gone for a while I have gotten out of the habit of sitting down and writing in the blog, but I do promise I am going to try and get back into the habit.

I have recieved loads of emails though and have been working my way through them so If I havent replied yet I am sorry but I am trying to get through them.

Now first of all the main myth I have been getting is that the recession means you should be lowering your expectation. Okay now really girls the recession isnt going to hit the guys who can afford to be sugardaddies, yes it means they will tighten their belts but if you were looking for a £10k allowance you wouldnt have been looking for a guy who would have been paying it out if his allowance. Yes X is having a hard time with the credit crunch, but he was never the kind of guy whose wealth all depended on one factor, yes some of his shares has plummeted and his houses aren't worth so much, but he still has funds spread out and stuff like that. Now if your looking for a £1-£3k allowance I still think although his stability may be affected you have to remember these guys who want to be sd are cash rich, time poor guys, they don't have the time to spend their wages.

I personally think the problem is with the credit crunch a lot more girls are thinking about doing it. I noticed in America tyra Banks has done a show on it, more and more women are jumping into the race. So now more than ever you ladies have to be slow and steady.

Secondly a few of you have emailed saying that a guy you have chatted with has told you how he does a search on all his prospective sb's and how on some of them he has found listing for erotic services on craiglist and blah de blah. This is utter crap, one firstly he would need to pay for these kind of background checks, secondly he would need a lot more information than just your name and you picture to do these.

Now whether this is the same man or different men they are just trying to scare you and make you believe they are more powerful than they are. I mean firstly if you had put your picture up for escort services would you have used your real name, secondly its none of his god damn business if you have, what you or he have done in your past is none of each others business unless you want to share it.

The kind of background check that would need to be done to find these sort of things in the hundreds if not thousands of adverts across the internet would not only be very expensive but would also only really be needed to be preformed if you were dating in the open, which 9 times out of 10 you aren't when you are a sb.

Right well ladies or gentlemen if they vare any topics you would like covered just let me know in the comments box.

And any emails send them to jessbunny1@hotmail.co.uk

Love

Jess Bunny
xoxox

2 comments:

Tiara said...

Yay you're back :)

Anonymous said...

Hi Jess,

A really informative subject on the blog again!
I fallow the SA blog as well; these two guides are making it almost impossible to leave questions unanswered. You are helping girls all over the world Jess! You are doing a great job with that.
Keep us informed!

xx J (the same as always)