This is just my thoughts as had a email through FB stating may need to do a repost on sugar negotiaitions, now remember this is just my thoughts on the situation.
Girls who take a pay per visit now me personally that isn't a SB that is a escort situation. The whole concept of a SD in my mind is having a guy who you know month in month out will provide you with a set amount.
Now yes starting to talk about an allowance is hard but at the end of the day if you have met through the net, then he either was on a SD site or through a listing on CL - just have to say how annoying are the people who flag our posts on CL. I dont flag yours cause your ugly!!! - Anyway the hard part is done you both know why you are talking to each other, if he tells you it seems like its only about money with you. You can polietly state thats not the case but before you continue a chat then you thinks its reasonable to know to know both of your expectations meet.
If they dont then you can polietly state you are looking for different things but you wish him well with his search.
I couldn't do multiple SD's but thats me, for one I have a crap memeory so that would work against me. Secondly in my view the guys I have met have always at least stated they could afford my allowance therefore I have no need for another. Chicago sugarbaby was so right when she said know what you goals are.
Like her I know what I want out of this.
I plan to set up a savings account. I want to have a deposit for a house
I have got myself into some debt since me and X split so want to clear that and get to perfect credit once more.
I want to be able to live a WAG lifestyle for the time I am putting myself through University, its just a bit of fun and not my life long ambition to become a WAG just like how they live.
I want to give myself security for the future so any money I do get and this time I am asking for a allowance of £2.5k, I now have a little bar job I am doing my studies, so If I give myself £1.5k a month to spend like crazy I will have £1k to put into savings even if it only lasts a year I will have 12 grand thats I wouldn;t have had anyway and lots and lots of shoes again.
Of course I have the silly stuff I want, like I want to own a Hermes Birkin again, I want lots of Louboutins and I want to holiday when I want where I want. These are the dreams we all have when we begin this journey and they are good things to aim for but just remember ladies, always think of the bigger picture and life after your SD
Love
Jess Bunny
xoxoxo
7 comments:
lol yeah that's what they're doing but they don't want to see it like that. can't believe you called them out haha
im still trying to grasp the proper way to receive an allowance myself. i do feel the pay per visit is a bit hooker-ish.. especially when sex is involved every time. but it is still nice to know u will get cash every time u meet with an SD.. what is the best way to receive ur allowance then if its not through meeting every time? x3
I always have a hard time telling pots my minimum allowance... Don't know why.
Good post!
I think there is a big difference between meeting up in a hotel with your "SD" and having sex with him giving you cash and leaving. as opposed to you having a nice weekend together and him giving you an envelope for your needs for the week. What is the difference really if he's giving you money once a month or spread out 2-4 times a month for his convenience? it is how you present yourself and the kind of relationship you have with your man that matters.
Hi Sarah,
I was actually talking about some of the girls who write about having dinner, sex and then leaving in the morning. It may just be that I have read their blog wrong or was written wrong, but to me that is a escort situation not a SB one.
Love
Jess
xoxox
I agree and people will find a million ways to justify being an escort. Why does he need to spread out payments throughout the month if he's wealthy and not cheap? Pay per visit encourages fakes too since they're not giving you an allowance. Please ladies, don't let desperation cloud common sense.
Darling . . . what is a WAG? I'm not familiar with this acronym (must be a British thing)?
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