In my mind this is the quickest way to lose a sd

I personally do not think its a good idea to do publicity especially if the guy is married. Its the fastest way to scare him away I also think it makes the whole sd thing look sordid and wrong as newspapers write things in a way that sensationalises things now dont get me wrong I love the sunday papers especially the kiss and tell stories but this girl just looks stupid. Talking about how they dont know about each other, uuummm they do now and really if she was having that much money off them why does she feel the need to sell her story to a sunday paper.

Now some of you may say pot, kettle, black as I write this blog but there isnt really anyway that this can be traced back to X, I dont put up pictures of my face and yes you can see pics of my flat and cars on Facebook but there are not pictures that will lead anyone to X and to me X is the most important thing and if this blog in anyway hurt him I would stop.

In my mind the girls who do these things do come across as gold diggers and they may or may not be but no SD wants to be with a gold digger they want to know that you do like them for them and not just their money.

Well as I have said I finally have my facebook profile up and tend to go on their everyday and am adding pictures on their have some of my flat and my cars, would love to put up pictures of us girls but it would make things to arkward for X so cant. But I hope you all join so I can keep in touch with you, my link is on the right of this post up the top.

Love

Jess Bunny
xoxox


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ooh what a fun day

AAAH such a fun day today I decided to do a little shopping day with Izzie today and I am finally figuring out how to take pictures and load them quicker. So I have decided to show off some of my newest purchases.

I have bought the most amazing ring we were passing a jewellers and this was in the window it isnt a great picture as me and Izzie have had a bit of a liquid lunch well as uch as I can with my arm, now I dont know if I told you guys about this but I have my right arm in plaster as I fell over after a night out with my girls, well to be more precise I fell out of the taxi which wasnt very good but the girls have some great pictures of it lets just say the dress was over the head HAHAHAHA.

I have also bought a brand new pair of shoes from faith that were a bargin in the sales at £25 woo hoo, these are going to have to be ones I wear on sober nights out though lol as they are very thin heels and about 5" heels. And i bought my mother a chloe paddington bag ready for Mothers day on the 22nd. OOOH I cant wait I am going home for a week and going to catch up with all my friends and family woo hoo.


Well thats all for now I am off to watch the rugby as the lovely Izzie is a welsh girl and has introduced me to the wonders of men in shorts hmmm such a nice way to spend the afternoon lol.

Love

Jess Bunny
xoxox

Twitter

I have joined the world of twitter and am thinking of setting up a facebook site just so I can keep in touch with you guys more easily.

Here is the link to my twitter site:

http://twitter.com/jessbunny1

Stupid cold

Uch I am thinking of booking a holiday to get away from this weather I hate waking up every day to cold and rain and it doesnt help that I have been watching "the hills" and looking at the LA sunshine is making me so jealous, maybe I should find a new SD one who lives in America so I can live the dream lol. Only joking maybe I can pesuade X to move him and his entire family to America instead that would probably be easier than trying to find a new SD with the amount of people looking for a SD.

Now for me and my shopping well the old Black card has had a hammering lately as I have had a obsession with doing out my flat I have bought a lush new white sleigh bed, I have finally found a company to do my walk in closet that used to be a extra bedroom I am not too bothered about losing a bedroom as if friends stay over then we have a blow up matress and to be honest its only the girls who stay over and they can crash in with us in our beds lol. So me and Lily will have our very own mariah carey esque wardrobe now.

I am going to have to purchase some gym equipment I am thinking of a stair master and a treadmill as all I seem to be doing lately is eating and all this eating means soon my size 12 toned figure will be expanding and thats not something I want. I like having a hourglass shape but I dont want to go out of shape.

Now I have been asked about double profiles I have seen quite a few of these and to be honest I do think it means they are fake I mean what other reason could they have, if you notice they change their age, their income, what they are offereing?, I just think its too weird why would they need 2 profiles if they weren't lying about something. Lily has actually called one person out on it and they blocked her so I think that says it all some of you may recognise him he has a bird in his picture, so I'm just saying hmmm, why block Lily when she questioned it if there was nothing bad. She did a nice em ail said she liked his profile but had more noticed he had more than one.

Take from that what you will.

Oh it feels so good to be back and I do have some exciting news someone has approached me about doing a book, but I dont want to do one that is a guide so I may write one in a chick lit style thats the kind of stuff I love reading so who knows, I'll have to mull that one over. But I am reading "chasing harry winston" at the moment and to be honest its a bit of a dissapointment I have read the other 2 books its from the author of "A devil wears prada" and its just not the same. But then who knows if I can do any better LOL.

Love

Jess Bunny
xoxoxoxo

Lilly has some dates

OMG I am soo exicted Lily has 2 dates coming up on with a guy from sugardaddie.com another with a guy she met on SA.com, it so exciting I get to live my sugarbaby life through her again. The first guy she has a date with is a hedge fund manager the second guy is a judge. So both a very much loaded the judge we have googled a great tool in my eyes and how the hell did we SD date before it became available, as if he isnt googable then he isnt worth it LOL.

So both guys have residences in London, but the Judge lives in the country and comes to London to work which would be more fun, both guys are attractive and very distingushed looking though it does have to say Hedge man is a little tubby but then Lily has always been more about the guy than the looks. Even when she was in school she dated different types from the Jock to the goth she dated them all. Now I have been reading up on some other blogs that are around and I have to say I am quite shocked at the amoun of girls who write that they dont fancie they guy but they will keep him as a option, this is dangerous territory for me and I personally feel when you dont fancie the guy it is more about the money than the guy, then that is when you should consider yourself a courtesan rather than a sb.

I am sorry if that comes across as judgemental but ladies please rememeber what the difference is between these 2 things, for me a sb has always got to be attracted to the man first and for me and my friends we have always said we would date our sd's even if they were broke. To me if you can't say that about a prospective SD then you should just walk away.

Now back to Lils dates, she is supposed to have her date with Hedge sometime next week but it all depends on whether or not he has the time, and Judge is supposed to be the week after. Lily prefers Hedge more thats why she has chosen him as her first date and if there are no sparks then she has Judge who she likes to fall back on.

Very exciting and we are going to go to the shops to buy an outfit for each date so will update you more on that at the time.

I'll probably get back to stuff thats goign on in my life and my shopping adventures have just been wanting to catch up but thanks so much for the lovely emails I received yesterday, and as I said any topics you want covered please just leave a comment and I will get round to it

Love

Jess Bunny
xoxox

A few myths busted

Hi everyone,

Sorry everyone I have been gone for a while I have gotten out of the habit of sitting down and writing in the blog, but I do promise I am going to try and get back into the habit.

I have recieved loads of emails though and have been working my way through them so If I havent replied yet I am sorry but I am trying to get through them.

Now first of all the main myth I have been getting is that the recession means you should be lowering your expectation. Okay now really girls the recession isnt going to hit the guys who can afford to be sugardaddies, yes it means they will tighten their belts but if you were looking for a £10k allowance you wouldnt have been looking for a guy who would have been paying it out if his allowance. Yes X is having a hard time with the credit crunch, but he was never the kind of guy whose wealth all depended on one factor, yes some of his shares has plummeted and his houses aren't worth so much, but he still has funds spread out and stuff like that. Now if your looking for a £1-£3k allowance I still think although his stability may be affected you have to remember these guys who want to be sd are cash rich, time poor guys, they don't have the time to spend their wages.

I personally think the problem is with the credit crunch a lot more girls are thinking about doing it. I noticed in America tyra Banks has done a show on it, more and more women are jumping into the race. So now more than ever you ladies have to be slow and steady.

Secondly a few of you have emailed saying that a guy you have chatted with has told you how he does a search on all his prospective sb's and how on some of them he has found listing for erotic services on craiglist and blah de blah. This is utter crap, one firstly he would need to pay for these kind of background checks, secondly he would need a lot more information than just your name and you picture to do these.

Now whether this is the same man or different men they are just trying to scare you and make you believe they are more powerful than they are. I mean firstly if you had put your picture up for escort services would you have used your real name, secondly its none of his god damn business if you have, what you or he have done in your past is none of each others business unless you want to share it.

The kind of background check that would need to be done to find these sort of things in the hundreds if not thousands of adverts across the internet would not only be very expensive but would also only really be needed to be preformed if you were dating in the open, which 9 times out of 10 you aren't when you are a sb.

Right well ladies or gentlemen if they vare any topics you would like covered just let me know in the comments box.

And any emails send them to jessbunny1@hotmail.co.uk

Love

Jess Bunny
xoxox