Is it just me???

Or has anyone else noticed that the longer your search continues the more Jaded you become, even if it is a guy who is extremly googable, know his photo is recent and seems really nice, these days instead of finding myself excited I am thinking right whats gonna go wrong with this one.

I thnk my problem is I had it too easy with X I met him in a different way, even though I was on SD dating sites I still met him in a natural way. And of course I was spoilt in what I had off him, and don't get me wrong I am in no way expecting something of a similar standard, my allowance expectation is £2.5 - 3k.

I think the other thing is a lot of men on the dating sites are looking for a easy shag or send you a message or its in his profile that he is not looking to be a sugardaddy, I am sorry then I do not understand why you are on the website. It would be like me joining a "I love darts" website when I dont. A bit of a random comparison but you girls know what I mean LOL.

I wish I was one of the girls who could ask for a present before a meeting or get a guy to send me presents before we meet, but I just don't seem to meet those kind of guys, maybe it's a american thing LOL.

I do have two interesting dates lined up next week hopefully just gotta try and work out my work schedule and of course am going back to my flat tomorrow, couldn't be bothered to go home today so have stayed an extra day, but it does mean I wont have regular internet access which kind of hampers a girls SD seeking!

So how is everyone else feeling about there sugar lives, I see from other blogs I am not the only one who is feeling a bit disheartened by it all

Love

Jess
xoxox

A late Xmas

Oh such a lovely few days me and X finally had our Christmas, though we had to have chicken rather than turkey hehehe!

After much dileberating I decided to buy X a piece of the rainforest and bought him 10 acres at £50 each, now with the guy who has everything you have to be more creative and I always go on at him about recycling and not using so much paper so this was good as he knew I had put some thought into it as well. And its like our own insider joke. I also had a chef come in to prepare the food for us, as I am not the greatest cook so didn't want one of my presents to be food poisoning hehehe.

My presents well I had a new apple macbook as I love technology at the moment, a load of Marilyn monroe dvds and a classic Andy warhol style picture of myself. My best present though was a eternity ring with "forever and always" engraved in it.

Now one of the most common emails I have had since I set up my email address is that it hasn't happened yep and it's been a month, trust me ladies it will take time to meet your sugardaddy and you probably will have to go through the bad ones to get to a good one, but as I have always said don't have sex on the first date, to me this is what the fakes want. Just go for lunch and dinner for a chat so you know if there is any point of continuing, he may be for real but most men will be put off if you jump into bed straight away. The real sugar daddys aren't looking for one night stands but for something that they are receiving at the moment companionship, yes sex is a big part but it's not everything.

Jess
xoxox