So I have my profiles up and am getting some good emails from SD.com, but to be honest am not seeing anything I like on SA.com.
I wish I lived in america cause the only verified ones on there are american. I am still really thnking of setting up my own website and having it so that all the sugardaddys have to be verified or they cant join. To me thats the only real way to wade out the fakes, but they I love chatting with some fakes as they stand out a mile off, and love just stringing them along seeming really excited to me the best way to find them out is the guys who talk about how much they have.
In my experience the ones who don't talk about what they have are the ones who have the most! But thats just me!
Anyway a couple of pots one I shall call Mr import as thats what he does, is very googable and I have seen his fb profile so am impressed with him, we talked a few years ago but nothing ever happened but the day i joined he emailed me so will see what happens.
Mr builder is the other pot, he owns his own construction firm but with him he is looking more for a GF than a SB but to be honest I could be open to this, I am single, I am bored of the guys round by me and he seems really lovely. He will be coming to my hometown either on the weekend or by the end of july. He did invite my to go to some Races with him but its on the day of my sisters graduation from University so thats just bad timing.
I keep being emailed about what to do if you dont fancie the guy, uum hello dont do anything then. Me main thing is I have to like and be attracted to a guy to start anything with him! If I didnt then I may as well just become a high class escort, sorry if thats harsh ladies but being with guys you dont fancie and pay per visits just dont for me fall into the catergory of a sugar baby. I am in no way trying to offend anyone that is just my thought.
Sugarbabies get called hookers enough without girls acting like it, I have heard of some girls demanding money to agree to see a guy, if a guy does give you money when you arrive great, it also doesnt mean you have to sleep with him, and I always make it clear that I am going there for an inital meet if they dont like it, oh well I wont meet them then. I do expect a guy to pay for my train ticket so I wont be out of pocket and a hotel if I am staying over but I do tell them they are not gauranteed I will sleep with them, have I slept with a pot? Yes thats cause we got on so well, and I fancied him like hell, but it wasn't cause it was expected.
Well as I said I dont mean to offend anyone thats just my thoughts from my experience of being a SB and what X used to tell me about pot SB's and of course what I have done in my search.
Love
Jess Bunny
xoxox
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Monday, July 5, 2010
Tuesday, February 16, 2010
Is it just me???
Or has anyone else noticed that the longer your search continues the more Jaded you become, even if it is a guy who is extremly googable, know his photo is recent and seems really nice, these days instead of finding myself excited I am thinking right whats gonna go wrong with this one.
I thnk my problem is I had it too easy with X I met him in a different way, even though I was on SD dating sites I still met him in a natural way. And of course I was spoilt in what I had off him, and don't get me wrong I am in no way expecting something of a similar standard, my allowance expectation is £2.5 - 3k.
I think the other thing is a lot of men on the dating sites are looking for a easy shag or send you a message or its in his profile that he is not looking to be a sugardaddy, I am sorry then I do not understand why you are on the website. It would be like me joining a "I love darts" website when I dont. A bit of a random comparison but you girls know what I mean LOL.
I wish I was one of the girls who could ask for a present before a meeting or get a guy to send me presents before we meet, but I just don't seem to meet those kind of guys, maybe it's a american thing LOL.
I do have two interesting dates lined up next week hopefully just gotta try and work out my work schedule and of course am going back to my flat tomorrow, couldn't be bothered to go home today so have stayed an extra day, but it does mean I wont have regular internet access which kind of hampers a girls SD seeking!
So how is everyone else feeling about there sugar lives, I see from other blogs I am not the only one who is feeling a bit disheartened by it all
Love
Jess
xoxox
I thnk my problem is I had it too easy with X I met him in a different way, even though I was on SD dating sites I still met him in a natural way. And of course I was spoilt in what I had off him, and don't get me wrong I am in no way expecting something of a similar standard, my allowance expectation is £2.5 - 3k.
I think the other thing is a lot of men on the dating sites are looking for a easy shag or send you a message or its in his profile that he is not looking to be a sugardaddy, I am sorry then I do not understand why you are on the website. It would be like me joining a "I love darts" website when I dont. A bit of a random comparison but you girls know what I mean LOL.
I wish I was one of the girls who could ask for a present before a meeting or get a guy to send me presents before we meet, but I just don't seem to meet those kind of guys, maybe it's a american thing LOL.
I do have two interesting dates lined up next week hopefully just gotta try and work out my work schedule and of course am going back to my flat tomorrow, couldn't be bothered to go home today so have stayed an extra day, but it does mean I wont have regular internet access which kind of hampers a girls SD seeking!
So how is everyone else feeling about there sugar lives, I see from other blogs I am not the only one who is feeling a bit disheartened by it all
Love
Jess
xoxox
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Tuesday, August 4, 2009
Me and X
Well to stop all the debate no I would never ever get back with X to put me in a situation which to one of his clients makes me seem like a whore, thats doesn't sit well with me. Firstly we had been together for years so it wasn't like it was something new where he didn't know what my reaction would be, secondly he was the one who asked when we first started dating that I dont date other guys, which to be honest I wouldn't have anyway. We started this relationship as more of a mistress rather than a SB and just because I was his SB does not in any way mean he can degrade or belittle me.
If anyone was too except that just because they are a SB then me personally I think you are a fool, and you need to work on your self worth before you get into a SD relationship. No man whether he is buying you things or not should put you in the position X put me in. As for him emailing me, yes he emails me every day but no he never gets a reply and if he ever wants to know my thoughts on him he knows this blog address I am quite happy for him to read.
Ladies to suggest that I should accept this mistake because it isnt a normal relationship, I think if you would be willing to accept it you are selling yourself short, regardless of the type of relationship you are having, you SD should respect you regardless of the size of allowance you have.
I am loving the debate though ladies and this is just my thoughts on so please no one take offence but remember ladies, we are LADIES not whores, and just because a guy buys us things doesn't mean that he shouldn't respect you in the same way he respects any other woman.
If he wants to treat you like a whore treat him like a john I guarantee he wouldn't like it or accept it and neither should you.
The way I sum this up is if you had a BF who bought you some clothes or a piece of jewellery could he then offer you around to his friends, no this isn't the same type of relationship, but RESPECT is something all relationships should be built on whether it is a SD or BF relationship.
Remember debate is always healthy though :)
Love
Jess
xoxox
If anyone was too except that just because they are a SB then me personally I think you are a fool, and you need to work on your self worth before you get into a SD relationship. No man whether he is buying you things or not should put you in the position X put me in. As for him emailing me, yes he emails me every day but no he never gets a reply and if he ever wants to know my thoughts on him he knows this blog address I am quite happy for him to read.
Ladies to suggest that I should accept this mistake because it isnt a normal relationship, I think if you would be willing to accept it you are selling yourself short, regardless of the type of relationship you are having, you SD should respect you regardless of the size of allowance you have.
I am loving the debate though ladies and this is just my thoughts on so please no one take offence but remember ladies, we are LADIES not whores, and just because a guy buys us things doesn't mean that he shouldn't respect you in the same way he respects any other woman.
If he wants to treat you like a whore treat him like a john I guarantee he wouldn't like it or accept it and neither should you.
The way I sum this up is if you had a BF who bought you some clothes or a piece of jewellery could he then offer you around to his friends, no this isn't the same type of relationship, but RESPECT is something all relationships should be built on whether it is a SD or BF relationship.
Remember debate is always healthy though :)
Love
Jess
xoxox
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Tuesday, July 28, 2009
how things are going
Well to be honest the are stuck at the moment I am not really keeping up with SA so not really getting my profile seen, I have joined a new site called elitemeeting.com, but the joining fee is £197.99 so I am going to access my emails which is a pain as I have only been a member a week and I have 89 emails!!!! aaahh, god I wish I had a guy I could just ask to wire me money like some of you girls do, if you know of anyone who wants to help a girl out send them my way hehehe!!
So Mr Salt & Pepper went all quiet and to be honest I am not going to chase, I sent him one text after a week of not hearing from him but that's it, if he has found someone else, good for him, but no mans wants something that will be handed to him on a plate, successfull men like to chase, to feel they have caught a prize.
I have heard from Izzie and apparently X already has a new girl, I dont think she would appreciate some of the emails he has been sending me, but I havent even dignified them with a answer.
To be honest I have had some weak moments were I have just thought how much easier it would be to go back to him, I have so many bills piling up starting to get the old red letters through aaahh!!! I have been looking for work since I got back home but hey its recession and no one near me is hiring - If anyone knows of any good work from home opportunites let me know.
Its been quite a crappy few weeks my uncle died 2 weeks ago and was buried last tuesday, but of a shock as it was so sudden and he was only 51, makes you realise how short life is. It weird how much death has been around me recently but then I suppose thats life maybe one of them will look out for me and bring me a SD or even a job I wouldn't mind either at the moment LOL.
Love
Jess
xoxox
So Mr Salt & Pepper went all quiet and to be honest I am not going to chase, I sent him one text after a week of not hearing from him but that's it, if he has found someone else, good for him, but no mans wants something that will be handed to him on a plate, successfull men like to chase, to feel they have caught a prize.
I have heard from Izzie and apparently X already has a new girl, I dont think she would appreciate some of the emails he has been sending me, but I havent even dignified them with a answer.
To be honest I have had some weak moments were I have just thought how much easier it would be to go back to him, I have so many bills piling up starting to get the old red letters through aaahh!!! I have been looking for work since I got back home but hey its recession and no one near me is hiring - If anyone knows of any good work from home opportunites let me know.
Its been quite a crappy few weeks my uncle died 2 weeks ago and was buried last tuesday, but of a shock as it was so sudden and he was only 51, makes you realise how short life is. It weird how much death has been around me recently but then I suppose thats life maybe one of them will look out for me and bring me a SD or even a job I wouldn't mind either at the moment LOL.
Love
Jess
xoxox
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Saturday, July 11, 2009
Ok I think some bloggers are confused
When I read other peoples blog most of them I love and have built such a great sugar family on here and had some great chats on the phone with some of my sugar family. But others I read and I am sure they are confused about the difference between a sugarbaby and a hooker, I think that when they offer themselves out at £££ per visit they are scaring the SD's out there who may be for real but they dont give them a chance.
The way I look at it emails are slow and steady, most of these guys have busy lives and cant organise a date straight away, if they can are they really in such a high powered job.
Now I have nothing against high class escorts I know a girl who is one and she has a amazing life and I am sure we have all watched Belle De Jour and hey who wouldnt want that. But dont get confused between the two as it wont benefit you at all, and it may well put guys off.
To me the rules are if you cant google them they are not as high powered as they want you to believe, get them to put you in a hotel of your choosing even if you live in the city if they ask why tell them the truth, you need to see if they are serious and can meet your expectations, the resturant where yu meet - do they know where the bathrooms are? does the maitre D know them, if not why?
And of course the shoes, the wallet and watch my 3 things that will always give away a guy who is playing, do some research on the best brands and know what to look out for.
I do not mean to knock other girls blogs and mean no offence this is just my tips on why you may not have found your SD yet. Switch your mindframe from short term cash problems to long term cash benefit!!!
Love
Jess Bunny
xoxox
The way I look at it emails are slow and steady, most of these guys have busy lives and cant organise a date straight away, if they can are they really in such a high powered job.
Now I have nothing against high class escorts I know a girl who is one and she has a amazing life and I am sure we have all watched Belle De Jour and hey who wouldnt want that. But dont get confused between the two as it wont benefit you at all, and it may well put guys off.
To me the rules are if you cant google them they are not as high powered as they want you to believe, get them to put you in a hotel of your choosing even if you live in the city if they ask why tell them the truth, you need to see if they are serious and can meet your expectations, the resturant where yu meet - do they know where the bathrooms are? does the maitre D know them, if not why?
And of course the shoes, the wallet and watch my 3 things that will always give away a guy who is playing, do some research on the best brands and know what to look out for.
I do not mean to knock other girls blogs and mean no offence this is just my tips on why you may not have found your SD yet. Switch your mindframe from short term cash problems to long term cash benefit!!!
Love
Jess Bunny
xoxox
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Sunday, July 5, 2009
Well its looking good
Well Mr salt and pepper is very googable whihc is very pleasing for me. He told me the name of his company which i goodled along with his name and his picture on there is different to both his profile and the ones he has sent me, so I at least know its him as we both turned on our webcams to prove it was us.
I told him what I would be looking for and he actually offered more. Which is always fun LOL. I am glad as we have chatted on the phone a lot and seem to get along very well and will be meeting up quite soon which is good!!
Oh and girls bird man is back on sa.com with 5 different profiles now each time with a different name - God that man gives me the creep even in his photos he looks really pervy and on 2 of the profiles he states the SB is for both him and his GF eeewww!!!
I havent been on FB for a while so sorry if I haven't replied to your emails just have a lot going on at the moment.
well thats it for now guy chat soon
Love
Jess Bunny
xoxox
I told him what I would be looking for and he actually offered more. Which is always fun LOL. I am glad as we have chatted on the phone a lot and seem to get along very well and will be meeting up quite soon which is good!!
Oh and girls bird man is back on sa.com with 5 different profiles now each time with a different name - God that man gives me the creep even in his photos he looks really pervy and on 2 of the profiles he states the SB is for both him and his GF eeewww!!!
I havent been on FB for a while so sorry if I haven't replied to your emails just have a lot going on at the moment.
well thats it for now guy chat soon
Love
Jess Bunny
xoxox
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Thursday, July 2, 2009
hello
Well the profile is up and running and I am having some good replies so far.
The best one is the owner of a hedge fund who is very handsome and has salt and pepper hair which I love on a man. He has houses both here and America and he seems very promising as he was the one who initiated contact, I have kind of sat back and not made the first move with emails and just seen what happens.
I have to say I have had some really lovely emails off everyone in this little sugar family we have created and they are really keeping me going.
I have been accepted onto a law degree course through the Open University and have been told I have funding which is great I can properly fufill my dreams so who knows maybe the whole X episode has worked out for the best and I love the fact that things are happening in my life, yes at the moment I dont have much self confidence but that can only be built one day at a time, oh and big thanks to everyone who reads this blog I cant believe I have passed 9000 readers that blows my mind!!!
Love
Jess
xoxox
The best one is the owner of a hedge fund who is very handsome and has salt and pepper hair which I love on a man. He has houses both here and America and he seems very promising as he was the one who initiated contact, I have kind of sat back and not made the first move with emails and just seen what happens.
I have to say I have had some really lovely emails off everyone in this little sugar family we have created and they are really keeping me going.
I have been accepted onto a law degree course through the Open University and have been told I have funding which is great I can properly fufill my dreams so who knows maybe the whole X episode has worked out for the best and I love the fact that things are happening in my life, yes at the moment I dont have much self confidence but that can only be built one day at a time, oh and big thanks to everyone who reads this blog I cant believe I have passed 9000 readers that blows my mind!!!
Love
Jess
xoxox
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Thursday, June 25, 2009
God I forgot how many liars
Being back in the search for a SD I forgot how hard it was.
I now have a profile back on sa.com and its just so hard standing out in the crowd, I have never seen so many good looking women on one site lol. But I have my fingers crossed that magic can strike twice I am looking for an allowance of between £3-5k but if they are happy for my to continue living in Swansea then I can lower that to £2 - 3k as the flat I want here is only £500 pcm but I always aim high at first go and then see what happens.
I think we have been spoilt by the number of eastern european girls who are willing to be a cheap as anything, through my blog and on FB I have met some great people which I am very pleased about and one who is great at gving advice as I am finding I am a bit rusty at the moment lol. She said the best thing last night those who are flashy will be willing to give less than those who are discreet and that is soo true look at X he was discreetly very wealthy.
I think my confidence has been knocked quite a lot by X so am worrying about how I look, whether I am too big all the normal things that us girls go through.
But at least I know I have you guys here with me as well
Love
Jess Bunny
xoxox
I now have a profile back on sa.com and its just so hard standing out in the crowd, I have never seen so many good looking women on one site lol. But I have my fingers crossed that magic can strike twice I am looking for an allowance of between £3-5k but if they are happy for my to continue living in Swansea then I can lower that to £2 - 3k as the flat I want here is only £500 pcm but I always aim high at first go and then see what happens.
I think we have been spoilt by the number of eastern european girls who are willing to be a cheap as anything, through my blog and on FB I have met some great people which I am very pleased about and one who is great at gving advice as I am finding I am a bit rusty at the moment lol. She said the best thing last night those who are flashy will be willing to give less than those who are discreet and that is soo true look at X he was discreetly very wealthy.
I think my confidence has been knocked quite a lot by X so am worrying about how I look, whether I am too big all the normal things that us girls go through.
But at least I know I have you guys here with me as well
Love
Jess Bunny
xoxox
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Friday, June 19, 2009
Well my new life
Well its back to the daily grind I have a job interview on Thursday its as a receptionist for a solicitors and its very very bad pay, LOL its quite a culture shock getting used to my life again but hey I have been here before and I am damn well sure I can pick myself up again.
I am back on seekingarangement.com and I have a profile up, have had some replies but most guys seem to be from America and even if you are offering me a private jet I am nto travelling that far for a first date lol. It feels so strange to be back in the search again and there are so many other people looking this time its not like when I was on it before and of course I didnt meet X on any website.
I have lowered my expectations greatly and am looking for an allowance between
£3-£5k but I think there is just so much competition out there and am worried that my standards are just too high LOL.
Well as some of my facebook friends will see I have my pictures up on FB decided there was no reason to hide anymore, so a big hello to everyone and thanks to all of you for your messages of support.
Love
Jess Bunny
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I am back on seekingarangement.com and I have a profile up, have had some replies but most guys seem to be from America and even if you are offering me a private jet I am nto travelling that far for a first date lol. It feels so strange to be back in the search again and there are so many other people looking this time its not like when I was on it before and of course I didnt meet X on any website.
I have lowered my expectations greatly and am looking for an allowance between
£3-£5k but I think there is just so much competition out there and am worried that my standards are just too high LOL.
Well as some of my facebook friends will see I have my pictures up on FB decided there was no reason to hide anymore, so a big hello to everyone and thanks to all of you for your messages of support.
Love
Jess Bunny
xox
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Monday, June 15, 2009
Let the search begin
Well as heartless as this seems I am getting back on the horse and gonna find myself another SD bu this time I wont be lookin for love just a SD!
Ok so lots of people have been asking what happened, basically X offered me to one of his clients to help his deal along, he has never done anything like that before and I was shocked when he did suggest it. I have never felt so cheap in my life and due to that I wanted no ties in my life to him.
Now I look back on I wish I hadn't given the money and possessions back but at the time I had to do it. But at least I have no debt and I have my family that I can move back in with. I just told them I had lost my job due to recession and also that me and X had split up.
So this blog will take a new direction about my search to get my lifestyle back, I knwo I probably wont get the same amount but I am looking in the reigon of £3-£5k so keep your fingers crossed for me, unfortuantely I dont live in a big city so that makes it harder but hey ho the search will begin
Love
Jess Bunny
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Ok so lots of people have been asking what happened, basically X offered me to one of his clients to help his deal along, he has never done anything like that before and I was shocked when he did suggest it. I have never felt so cheap in my life and due to that I wanted no ties in my life to him.
Now I look back on I wish I hadn't given the money and possessions back but at the time I had to do it. But at least I have no debt and I have my family that I can move back in with. I just told them I had lost my job due to recession and also that me and X had split up.
So this blog will take a new direction about my search to get my lifestyle back, I knwo I probably wont get the same amount but I am looking in the reigon of £3-£5k so keep your fingers crossed for me, unfortuantely I dont live in a big city so that makes it harder but hey ho the search will begin
Love
Jess Bunny
xox
Friday, May 22, 2009
OMG
What I am loving at the moment on TV there is an amazing programme called The Rachel Zoe priject on really which on virgin media is 267 I am not sure about sky sorry guys, anyway she has been my fave stylist since like forever and one day I am going to book her for a day and go on a major shopping spree like you wouldn't believe LOL, Thats my dream so maybe thats what X can get for me for Xmas this year.
I am also loving "the real housewives of" but infortunately for me I cant seem to get it anywhere so if anyone knows where I can buy it let me know it doesnt matter if its an american copy as I have worked out how to change my dvd player to any region. I just think its fab and soo funny!!! MMM maybe someone shoudl do a tv programme about sugar babies now that would be fun and I would defo watch it.
OK so I was asked by Tha princess "if you had a SD and he wanted something longterm, but you knew you would probably be moving far away in the next couple of months to a year, do you think you should tell your SD? Thanks" I always believe in honesty with your sd this relationship is built on trust, trusting him to provide you with what has been agreed and that you stick to what you have said, so to me yes you should tell him maybe he will be fine with it, if you know thats its going to be a year then that would make it easier as you would have a year of fun together, otherwise he could feel put out that he invests his money in you and a 3/4 months later your off, always be honest and you cant go wrong I know its a pain when you are trying to find a SD but this way you will find the best one for you.
Hope that helps and Please leave more questions so I know what more to write about as I dont want to keep repeating myself from my earlier blogs.
Love
Jess Bunny
xoxox
I am also loving "the real housewives of" but infortunately for me I cant seem to get it anywhere so if anyone knows where I can buy it let me know it doesnt matter if its an american copy as I have worked out how to change my dvd player to any region. I just think its fab and soo funny!!! MMM maybe someone shoudl do a tv programme about sugar babies now that would be fun and I would defo watch it.
OK so I was asked by Tha princess "if you had a SD and he wanted something longterm, but you knew you would probably be moving far away in the next couple of months to a year, do you think you should tell your SD? Thanks" I always believe in honesty with your sd this relationship is built on trust, trusting him to provide you with what has been agreed and that you stick to what you have said, so to me yes you should tell him maybe he will be fine with it, if you know thats its going to be a year then that would make it easier as you would have a year of fun together, otherwise he could feel put out that he invests his money in you and a 3/4 months later your off, always be honest and you cant go wrong I know its a pain when you are trying to find a SD but this way you will find the best one for you.
Hope that helps and Please leave more questions so I know what more to write about as I dont want to keep repeating myself from my earlier blogs.
Love
Jess Bunny
xoxox
Monday, March 16, 2009
In my mind this is the quickest way to lose a sd
I personally do not think its a good idea to do publicity especially if the guy is married. Its the fastest way to scare him away I also think it makes the whole sd thing look sordid and wrong as newspapers write things in a way that sensationalises things now dont get me wrong I love the sunday papers especially the kiss and tell stories but this girl just looks stupid. Talking about how they dont know about each other, uuummm they do now and really if she was having that much money off them why does she feel the need to sell her story to a sunday paper.
Now some of you may say pot, kettle, black as I write this blog but there isnt really anyway that this can be traced back to X, I dont put up pictures of my face and yes you can see pics of my flat and cars on Facebook but there are not pictures that will lead anyone to X and to me X is the most important thing and if this blog in anyway hurt him I would stop.
In my mind the girls who do these things do come across as gold diggers and they may or may not be but no SD wants to be with a gold digger they want to know that you do like them for them and not just their money.
Well as I have said I finally have my facebook profile up and tend to go on their everyday and am adding pictures on their have some of my flat and my cars, would love to put up pictures of us girls but it would make things to arkward for X so cant. But I hope you all join so I can keep in touch with you, my link is on the right of this post up the top.
Love
Jess Bunny
xoxox
Oh and just click on the title of this post to go to the story I am talking about
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Now some of you may say pot, kettle, black as I write this blog but there isnt really anyway that this can be traced back to X, I dont put up pictures of my face and yes you can see pics of my flat and cars on Facebook but there are not pictures that will lead anyone to X and to me X is the most important thing and if this blog in anyway hurt him I would stop.
In my mind the girls who do these things do come across as gold diggers and they may or may not be but no SD wants to be with a gold digger they want to know that you do like them for them and not just their money.
Well as I have said I finally have my facebook profile up and tend to go on their everyday and am adding pictures on their have some of my flat and my cars, would love to put up pictures of us girls but it would make things to arkward for X so cant. But I hope you all join so I can keep in touch with you, my link is on the right of this post up the top.
Love
Jess Bunny
xoxox
Oh and just click on the title of this post to go to the story I am talking about
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Wednesday, January 28, 2009
A late Xmas
Oh such a lovely few days me and X finally had our Christmas, though we had to have chicken rather than turkey hehehe!
After much dileberating I decided to buy X a piece of the rainforest and bought him 10 acres at £50 each, now with the guy who has everything you have to be more creative and I always go on at him about recycling and not using so much paper so this was good as he knew I had put some thought into it as well. And its like our own insider joke. I also had a chef come in to prepare the food for us, as I am not the greatest cook so didn't want one of my presents to be food poisoning hehehe.
My presents well I had a new apple macbook as I love technology at the moment, a load of Marilyn monroe dvds and a classic Andy warhol style picture of myself. My best present though was a eternity ring with "forever and always" engraved in it.
Now one of the most common emails I have had since I set up my email address is that it hasn't happened yep and it's been a month, trust me ladies it will take time to meet your sugardaddy and you probably will have to go through the bad ones to get to a good one, but as I have always said don't have sex on the first date, to me this is what the fakes want. Just go for lunch and dinner for a chat so you know if there is any point of continuing, he may be for real but most men will be put off if you jump into bed straight away. The real sugar daddys aren't looking for one night stands but for something that they are receiving at the moment companionship, yes sex is a big part but it's not everything.
Jess
xoxox
After much dileberating I decided to buy X a piece of the rainforest and bought him 10 acres at £50 each, now with the guy who has everything you have to be more creative and I always go on at him about recycling and not using so much paper so this was good as he knew I had put some thought into it as well. And its like our own insider joke. I also had a chef come in to prepare the food for us, as I am not the greatest cook so didn't want one of my presents to be food poisoning hehehe.
My presents well I had a new apple macbook as I love technology at the moment, a load of Marilyn monroe dvds and a classic Andy warhol style picture of myself. My best present though was a eternity ring with "forever and always" engraved in it.
Now one of the most common emails I have had since I set up my email address is that it hasn't happened yep and it's been a month, trust me ladies it will take time to meet your sugardaddy and you probably will have to go through the bad ones to get to a good one, but as I have always said don't have sex on the first date, to me this is what the fakes want. Just go for lunch and dinner for a chat so you know if there is any point of continuing, he may be for real but most men will be put off if you jump into bed straight away. The real sugar daddys aren't looking for one night stands but for something that they are receiving at the moment companionship, yes sex is a big part but it's not everything.
Jess
xoxox
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Thursday, January 22, 2009
I couldnt be bothered with shopping until today
And now I have been a bad girl and gone a little overboard HAHAHA!
Me and online shopping are like the devil when we get together, but god it was so worth it. I have bought myself one of those power plate machines, you know those things that vibrate well I am on my little health fix and on this you just have to stand on it in different positions and boom its great!!!
But apart from that as you girls all know I have a little problem with the high street and well me and River Island havent been friends for a few months since Leigh and well know I have spent over £3000 but guys I do have over 60 items coming to me so that isnt bad, now I am not one of those girls who buys a new wardrobe for every season but once I started I just couldn't stop also some are for my best mate Lily who has a few SD dates coming up which is all from the adverts we put up for her which is fun.
Lily obviously stopped looking when Leigh died but now well as heartless as it sounds life has to go on, and Leigh was the biggest believer in that. And well also he loved hearing about our crazy life in London. I got asked in a comment was asking £5-£10k a bit optomistic in this current climate, well no not when you aren't looking at guys whose net worth is small and would be based on his annual salary. I think in this current time if you are looking for a big monthly allowance then it is going to have to be a guy whose net worth is £50 million plus. And who wont have to depend on their annual salary for your allowance
As much as this sounds really stupid and really calculated do you think the guys aren't going for the prettiest, the girls with the biggest boobs. These sites let you be really direct and if you aren't looking for love you just want fun with a guy who you like that can give you a good life for however long you last the treat it a bit like a business venture and aim for the best. Its just like fishing you just need to have the right bait.
So anyway back to the clothes well I bought so much that my wardrobes are now at bursting point so me and Lily are going to have the 3rd bedroom of my flat made into a walk in wardrobe/dressing room you know like the ones starts have so if anyone knows of any companys that do these please let me know.
Its so good to be back guys Oh and I have also set up a hotmail account so you can email me privately with any questions?
jessbunny1@hotmail.co.uk
Love
Jess Bunny
xoxox
Me and online shopping are like the devil when we get together, but god it was so worth it. I have bought myself one of those power plate machines, you know those things that vibrate well I am on my little health fix and on this you just have to stand on it in different positions and boom its great!!!
But apart from that as you girls all know I have a little problem with the high street and well me and River Island havent been friends for a few months since Leigh and well know I have spent over £3000 but guys I do have over 60 items coming to me so that isnt bad, now I am not one of those girls who buys a new wardrobe for every season but once I started I just couldn't stop also some are for my best mate Lily who has a few SD dates coming up which is all from the adverts we put up for her which is fun.
Lily obviously stopped looking when Leigh died but now well as heartless as it sounds life has to go on, and Leigh was the biggest believer in that. And well also he loved hearing about our crazy life in London. I got asked in a comment was asking £5-£10k a bit optomistic in this current climate, well no not when you aren't looking at guys whose net worth is small and would be based on his annual salary. I think in this current time if you are looking for a big monthly allowance then it is going to have to be a guy whose net worth is £50 million plus. And who wont have to depend on their annual salary for your allowance
As much as this sounds really stupid and really calculated do you think the guys aren't going for the prettiest, the girls with the biggest boobs. These sites let you be really direct and if you aren't looking for love you just want fun with a guy who you like that can give you a good life for however long you last the treat it a bit like a business venture and aim for the best. Its just like fishing you just need to have the right bait.
So anyway back to the clothes well I bought so much that my wardrobes are now at bursting point so me and Lily are going to have the 3rd bedroom of my flat made into a walk in wardrobe/dressing room you know like the ones starts have so if anyone knows of any companys that do these please let me know.
Its so good to be back guys Oh and I have also set up a hotmail account so you can email me privately with any questions?
jessbunny1@hotmail.co.uk
Love
Jess Bunny
xoxox
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Thursday, November 27, 2008
I couldn't take it.....
I have taken the Birkin out the other day for its first outing since I bought it, but I just couldn't handle it what with people with drinks and food I was so worried it would get dirty, it just freaked me out. I mean that bag was £52k that's half the amount for a house from where I come from. So anyway I knew me and that bag were just not going to work so I put it back on EBAY and it sold for £55k, so the £3k profit I made I have donated to a charity that is close to my heart. X laughed at me, and I know it seems stupid but to me a bag I just chuck around, want to put on the floor and I just couldn't relax and what's the point of having a bag if you are then just going to Keep it in the wardrobe.
So to make up for my loss I have the goodness that is Lilly, she is my best mate from back home who has moved into my flat, It is so good having her here, she is the only one from back home who knows about my lifestyle and Its intrigued her, so he is going to join a couple of sites so hopefully I can share some of her dating experiences with you. It was so good her moving in that's why I haven't written for a while as we have just been catching up, I miss being away from home, and its weird when I am back home because I can't share everything with everyone, its sometimes easier not to be there, as I can't be myself fully with my friends and family, but I wouldn't change my life and who knows maybe one of these days I'll tell them.
My family know I am dating a wealthy guy, but they don't know that I am a sugar baby, they think I work as a executive assistant for a banking company, which I told them before the bloody recession now they are worried about me losing my job. AAAHHH! LOL.
OOOH I just have to say I saw a girl ahead of me today in Primark with a pink credit card, I so want one was going to ask her where she got it from but I got shouted at by Lilly so I didn't, I have no shame. I bought a fabulous dress whilst in Primark, its a black dress with a champagne coloured top that has a bow on it I think with a pair of my Louboutin heels on it will look like a million dollars.
Love
Jess Bunny
xoxoxox
So to make up for my loss I have the goodness that is Lilly, she is my best mate from back home who has moved into my flat, It is so good having her here, she is the only one from back home who knows about my lifestyle and Its intrigued her, so he is going to join a couple of sites so hopefully I can share some of her dating experiences with you. It was so good her moving in that's why I haven't written for a while as we have just been catching up, I miss being away from home, and its weird when I am back home because I can't share everything with everyone, its sometimes easier not to be there, as I can't be myself fully with my friends and family, but I wouldn't change my life and who knows maybe one of these days I'll tell them.
My family know I am dating a wealthy guy, but they don't know that I am a sugar baby, they think I work as a executive assistant for a banking company, which I told them before the bloody recession now they are worried about me losing my job. AAAHHH! LOL.
OOOH I just have to say I saw a girl ahead of me today in Primark with a pink credit card, I so want one was going to ask her where she got it from but I got shouted at by Lilly so I didn't, I have no shame. I bought a fabulous dress whilst in Primark, its a black dress with a champagne coloured top that has a bow on it I think with a pair of my Louboutin heels on it will look like a million dollars.
Love
Jess Bunny
xoxoxox
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Thursday, November 20, 2008
Ok starting to annoy me now
Right this blog is in answer to my friends business all I have had is questions about it off one person, first of all this blog is not about her business so I am not going to go into the ins and outs of it, but yes its like millionaiure matchmaker with a few noticeable differences, secondly the business is already up and running and is successful so it doesnt matter whether you think it will be successful or not it alreadys is, she has 10 male clients each paying a minimum of £45k you do the maths. I am sorry to write about this, but I am loyal to my friends and when people start attacking their ideas and saying "oh I dont think it will work" it annoys me, and to who ever has written the comments if you dont like that my friends business is a success well thats your issue and stop trying to bring it down and if you dont like my comments then dont read my blog!
I'll be back with a regular blog later
Love
Jess Bunny
xoxoxo
I'll be back with a regular blog later
Love
Jess Bunny
xoxoxo
Wednesday, March 5, 2008
A little crazy.....
So I went shopping all this week and i just worked out how much I spent £14k, shit I haven't spent like that in a long time but my mum's birthday is coming up this month and it was mothers day. For my mum's birthday I have paid for her and her 3 best friends to go to new york and given her $1500 to spend, she also has a spa package and some clothes and a Louis Vitton overnight bag. And for mothers day well she got a diamond and sapphire tennis bracelet, which she thinks is made from created diamonds but is actually very real so if she loses it I will kill her,lol.
I finally got myself my Bentley GTC I had it done in White with beige leather interior it is absolutely gorgeous, well I think I am in love with this car he he.
Me and X are still getting along really well and we just seem to be getting better and better every day, his wife is turning into a bit of a party animal so we are able to see each other more and more he spends a lot of his time with me now. And we have finally managed to book a holiday away together we are going back to Dubai in May so I can stock up on some jewellery. I haven't yet found the house I want to buy so am still renting my apartment but at least I can hold out till I find the perfect one.
So I have been chatting to someone I met through Craigslist about finding a SD. she seems to have had some really crappy experinces throught the sites and guys being fake and promising the world and never delivering.
So how have your experinces been girlies and any guys who are reading this - have you met anyone who isn't quite what they made themselves out to be.
Love
Jess Bunny
xx
I finally got myself my Bentley GTC I had it done in White with beige leather interior it is absolutely gorgeous, well I think I am in love with this car he he.
Me and X are still getting along really well and we just seem to be getting better and better every day, his wife is turning into a bit of a party animal so we are able to see each other more and more he spends a lot of his time with me now. And we have finally managed to book a holiday away together we are going back to Dubai in May so I can stock up on some jewellery. I haven't yet found the house I want to buy so am still renting my apartment but at least I can hold out till I find the perfect one.
So I have been chatting to someone I met through Craigslist about finding a SD. she seems to have had some really crappy experinces throught the sites and guys being fake and promising the world and never delivering.
So how have your experinces been girlies and any guys who are reading this - have you met anyone who isn't quite what they made themselves out to be.
Love
Jess Bunny
xx
Monday, February 25, 2008
hello
Hi all,
Sorry I haven't written for so long just had a lot going on at the moment, one of my best friends from back home died unexpectedly so have been a bit caught up with dealing with that.
X has been wonderul throughout this hard time for me, and really shown me he cares, I haven't really been out much but I have decided now is the time to start living again my mates death shows that you need to live life for now.
So girlies hold onto your hats cause today I am going on a shopping trip to end all shopping trips ha ha. Let everyone know I am back
Have missed you all
Love
Jess Bunny
xxx
Sorry I haven't written for so long just had a lot going on at the moment, one of my best friends from back home died unexpectedly so have been a bit caught up with dealing with that.
X has been wonderul throughout this hard time for me, and really shown me he cares, I haven't really been out much but I have decided now is the time to start living again my mates death shows that you need to live life for now.
So girlies hold onto your hats cause today I am going on a shopping trip to end all shopping trips ha ha. Let everyone know I am back
Have missed you all
Love
Jess Bunny
xxx
Saturday, January 26, 2008
First date jitters
So I went shopping today with one of my non SB girlfriends who cam to London for the day to see me, she has a first date with a guy next week and it got me thinking about maybe writing a blog about what you could expect on your first date, what to wear.
So by now if it's your first date you should have spoken about the financial side of things for 2 reasons. Firstly what's the point of meeting if your expectations of this relationship aren't the same and secondly it's easier to do it over email than face-to-face. You can be bolder and if you disagree with what he is offering it's easier to be polite and say "thank you but we are not on the same level" than it is to do it to his face. Imagine if you are looking for a £6k allowance and he is only looking to spend £1k or under. Also some men are just looking for occasional dates when he has company stuff on, or when he needs to get away from the wife others want like me and X have a full time relationship.
Your emails should help you figure out the ins and out s of the relationship, obviously not how may times you have sex, what positions, but how often you want to see each other, who is going to travel to who, that kind of thing.
Now if you work and it is a dinner date try to get the day of and the day after off, the day of so you can get ready and take your time and the day after not so you can stay over with him just so you can have a think about how it went, if you could see your self with him, this is a important decision and you want to let him know ASAP otherwise he may just move on, obviously you don't have to have the day after but try to get the day of the date.
Don't have a facial the day of the date, or for 3 days before it will bring out any impurities and leave you with bad skin for your date, not great!! You should have had a spray tan the night before so you just need to jump in the shower mid afternoon to get rid of the layer colour, I always leave it till the afternoon as you get a nicer colour and always have it done by someone, don't do it your self, you know it will go wrong!! Give yourself a mani and pedi, go for a nice neutral colour, obviously wash you your hair and style it once you have had your shower.
What to wear? Whilst I was shopping today I saw some lovely Black jeans around I go for DVB jeans but there are just as good ones in River Island, New Look or Topshop. The just a nice smart top, you want to be saying with your outfit, yeah I maybe going some place posh but so what I 'll dress to my style and jeans and a top can never go wrong. And the good things with black jeans is they can be mistaken for black trousers anyway so they look smart. Don't dress like you would for a job interview for a start he has to prove himself to you, not the other way round. Go for the no make up look on the face bright eyes and glossy lips. Look to make sure it applied well, no orange line if you can buy some sponges or as I use a Benefit foundation brush, you can't go wrong with one of these. Oh and lastly don't overpower him with perfume, just go light with it and put it on your pulse points.
OK so on your date, I'll go back to my experiences before X I only took enough cash for my taxi fair there and home, always meet in a bar before you go to the restaurant do you want to be stuck eating with a man who bores you to death no! Trust me it drags for hours and hours. This isn't a normal date don't offer to pay for the drinks he wants to be your SD this is what he should be doing, that is also why the bar is a good idea. Always have a friend ring you after half an hour make sure everything is ok and of course if it's not you can make a runner stating a dying dog :)
Never, Never go to bed with them on the first date, for a start no Sugar Daddy wants to think that as soon as his back is turned that his SB is going with other guys even if you have agreed you will see other people, keep him wanting more, it's classier and men will have more respect of you. Yes this relationship gets rid of the crap of waiting 5 dates and then sleeping together but take my advice you sleep with him on the first date and you have lost him. The second or third is fine but never the first. I always had to kiss a man on a first date as for me if you can't kiss eww, I love kissing and thankfully X is very good at it :) If he say he wants to try before he enters an agreement then fine but he can take you on a little shopping trip on your second date then. Try before you buy is saved for the deli counter.
Don't get so drunk you fall about, and keep an air of mystery, if he asks how you think things have gone, then tell him. Izzy told her SD that night that yes she wanted a arrangement with him and it worked out well but she didn't sleep with him that night either.
Well I hope this helps some of you
Love
Jess Bunny
xx
So by now if it's your first date you should have spoken about the financial side of things for 2 reasons. Firstly what's the point of meeting if your expectations of this relationship aren't the same and secondly it's easier to do it over email than face-to-face. You can be bolder and if you disagree with what he is offering it's easier to be polite and say "thank you but we are not on the same level" than it is to do it to his face. Imagine if you are looking for a £6k allowance and he is only looking to spend £1k or under. Also some men are just looking for occasional dates when he has company stuff on, or when he needs to get away from the wife others want like me and X have a full time relationship.
Your emails should help you figure out the ins and out s of the relationship, obviously not how may times you have sex, what positions, but how often you want to see each other, who is going to travel to who, that kind of thing.
Now if you work and it is a dinner date try to get the day of and the day after off, the day of so you can get ready and take your time and the day after not so you can stay over with him just so you can have a think about how it went, if you could see your self with him, this is a important decision and you want to let him know ASAP otherwise he may just move on, obviously you don't have to have the day after but try to get the day of the date.
Don't have a facial the day of the date, or for 3 days before it will bring out any impurities and leave you with bad skin for your date, not great!! You should have had a spray tan the night before so you just need to jump in the shower mid afternoon to get rid of the layer colour, I always leave it till the afternoon as you get a nicer colour and always have it done by someone, don't do it your self, you know it will go wrong!! Give yourself a mani and pedi, go for a nice neutral colour, obviously wash you your hair and style it once you have had your shower.
What to wear? Whilst I was shopping today I saw some lovely Black jeans around I go for DVB jeans but there are just as good ones in River Island, New Look or Topshop. The just a nice smart top, you want to be saying with your outfit, yeah I maybe going some place posh but so what I 'll dress to my style and jeans and a top can never go wrong. And the good things with black jeans is they can be mistaken for black trousers anyway so they look smart. Don't dress like you would for a job interview for a start he has to prove himself to you, not the other way round. Go for the no make up look on the face bright eyes and glossy lips. Look to make sure it applied well, no orange line if you can buy some sponges or as I use a Benefit foundation brush, you can't go wrong with one of these. Oh and lastly don't overpower him with perfume, just go light with it and put it on your pulse points.
OK so on your date, I'll go back to my experiences before X I only took enough cash for my taxi fair there and home, always meet in a bar before you go to the restaurant do you want to be stuck eating with a man who bores you to death no! Trust me it drags for hours and hours. This isn't a normal date don't offer to pay for the drinks he wants to be your SD this is what he should be doing, that is also why the bar is a good idea. Always have a friend ring you after half an hour make sure everything is ok and of course if it's not you can make a runner stating a dying dog :)
Never, Never go to bed with them on the first date, for a start no Sugar Daddy wants to think that as soon as his back is turned that his SB is going with other guys even if you have agreed you will see other people, keep him wanting more, it's classier and men will have more respect of you. Yes this relationship gets rid of the crap of waiting 5 dates and then sleeping together but take my advice you sleep with him on the first date and you have lost him. The second or third is fine but never the first. I always had to kiss a man on a first date as for me if you can't kiss eww, I love kissing and thankfully X is very good at it :) If he say he wants to try before he enters an agreement then fine but he can take you on a little shopping trip on your second date then. Try before you buy is saved for the deli counter.
Don't get so drunk you fall about, and keep an air of mystery, if he asks how you think things have gone, then tell him. Izzy told her SD that night that yes she wanted a arrangement with him and it worked out well but she didn't sleep with him that night either.
Well I hope this helps some of you
Love
Jess Bunny
xx
Thursday, January 24, 2008
House hunting.........
OMG, I can't believe Heath Ledger is dead ever since I watched 10 things I hate about you I have thought he was a awesome actor, such a shame. I hope the media leave his little girl and her mother alone so they can mourn in peace.
So I have been going into estate agents lately and looking a properties for sale, I think I want to live in the Docklands area, I love the apartments there, and X's London office is in Canary Wharf so he could pop by a lot more. I have been told the maximum budget is £5 million. The neighbour actually came to check if I was okay when X told me I was all right as one minute he had seen X coming into my apartment next minute he hears me screaming and banging, that's me jumping on the bed :)
I never expected my budget to be so big and I have seen some properties for about £2.5 million, including a awesome penthouse apartment at New Providence wharf check it out on http://www.primelocation.com it is absolutely amazing and the furniture in there is great too, so maybe if I throw in a bit more I can keep the furniture too, and you want to know the best thing, it's going in my name. So if we were ever to split the flat would be mine, and as he is telling me to pay for it on his AMEX card then no bills will come my way. YAY!!!!
So this morning I have been online and done a bit of shopping on http://www.asos.com I love this shop just because it has stuff that looks like designer but you pay half the price for it, as we all now trends come and go so why pay thousands for a dress that a celebrity has and all the rich women you see about are wearing when you can only wear it a few times and then it goes to my friends, family or OXFAM.
About every three months I bring all my girlfriends form back home up and my cousins put all the clothes I don't want up on clothes rails and some bags and shoes and just tell them to go wild anything that's left over well that goes to charity. The OXFAM on 202b Kensington High street is where I drop my stuff off, next time I drop some off I will let you know, so you can have a dig around and see if there is anything you want and I'll tell you some of my special items. See to all you haters I am not a girl just out for what she can get, I am a girl who has fallen in love with a extraordinary man and I live a extraordinary life, but I know I am lucky and very fortunate, when I first met X I was £14,000 in debt, worked three jobs just to make ends meet and went for days without food, all whilst telling my family back home that everything was fine and that I was loving my time here in London. I had no friends up here, as I couldn't go out as I was always working and any money I made went on my bills. I come from a working class background and my parents worked extremely hard to ensure we always had enough of everything so we wouldn't get bullied for being the poor kids.
So next you want to judge me, look at my background. Well after that rant I think I just defo made my decision about continuing to write or not.
Thanks for reading, even if its just Nikita and a few of the others that have left comments your comments mean the world to me, each and every day
Love
Jess Bunny
xx
So I have been going into estate agents lately and looking a properties for sale, I think I want to live in the Docklands area, I love the apartments there, and X's London office is in Canary Wharf so he could pop by a lot more. I have been told the maximum budget is £5 million. The neighbour actually came to check if I was okay when X told me I was all right as one minute he had seen X coming into my apartment next minute he hears me screaming and banging, that's me jumping on the bed :)
I never expected my budget to be so big and I have seen some properties for about £2.5 million, including a awesome penthouse apartment at New Providence wharf check it out on http://www.primelocation.com it is absolutely amazing and the furniture in there is great too, so maybe if I throw in a bit more I can keep the furniture too, and you want to know the best thing, it's going in my name. So if we were ever to split the flat would be mine, and as he is telling me to pay for it on his AMEX card then no bills will come my way. YAY!!!!
So this morning I have been online and done a bit of shopping on http://www.asos.com I love this shop just because it has stuff that looks like designer but you pay half the price for it, as we all now trends come and go so why pay thousands for a dress that a celebrity has and all the rich women you see about are wearing when you can only wear it a few times and then it goes to my friends, family or OXFAM.
About every three months I bring all my girlfriends form back home up and my cousins put all the clothes I don't want up on clothes rails and some bags and shoes and just tell them to go wild anything that's left over well that goes to charity. The OXFAM on 202b Kensington High street is where I drop my stuff off, next time I drop some off I will let you know, so you can have a dig around and see if there is anything you want and I'll tell you some of my special items. See to all you haters I am not a girl just out for what she can get, I am a girl who has fallen in love with a extraordinary man and I live a extraordinary life, but I know I am lucky and very fortunate, when I first met X I was £14,000 in debt, worked three jobs just to make ends meet and went for days without food, all whilst telling my family back home that everything was fine and that I was loving my time here in London. I had no friends up here, as I couldn't go out as I was always working and any money I made went on my bills. I come from a working class background and my parents worked extremely hard to ensure we always had enough of everything so we wouldn't get bullied for being the poor kids.
So next you want to judge me, look at my background. Well after that rant I think I just defo made my decision about continuing to write or not.
Thanks for reading, even if its just Nikita and a few of the others that have left comments your comments mean the world to me, each and every day
Love
Jess Bunny
xx
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