Its date night

So me and Mr builder have a date tonight, he has travelled down to my hometown and we are meeting at 8pm. he has just checked into his hotel and sent me a picture of the room which from then going on the hotel website which has pics of every room I know costs £175 per night. So I know he isnt a cheap room which is always good! And I know he is definitely in my hometown lol.

Have decided on a summer dress with a fab pair of heels and a little black bag. The dress is actually just from Peacocks which is like Target in America, but have always had compliments when I have worn it. And asked if its from Topshop, so I know its a winner then its a little cardi on over the top. Hhad my hair done yesterday and make-up will be bronzed but natural.

I am actually so nervous tonight, I feel a little sick, first date in a while and after the hassle of my "normal" ex, but its good to be back out there.

Will let you know how it all goes tomorrow!

Love

Jess
xox

Date outfits

I always get emails asking what to wear on a first date with a new pot.

Here is my advice from what I have learnt, SD's arent too fashion forward so whilstn you should keep up with the trends men are simple creatures and whilst you may get the odd one or two who are really on trend, really out there wont work. So keep it simple but well presented.

I always wear a dress when I meet a pot but then thats my personality. I am a girly girl and most of the time I am always in dresses, I only own 1 pair of trousers, being a hourglass I work with what suits me.

Always make sure your shoes aren't dirty or scuffed, and that your bag isnt falling apart as these always bring a outfit together. If you have painted your nails make sure no chips, if you haven't make sure they are clean.

Dont plaster yourself in make-up, men hate this and dont try out new looks on a date, trust me i did it and I was so self-concious because it wasnt what i was used too. Same with hair dont try anything new just make sure its clean and your happy.

At the end of the day if your comfortable you will be confident and girls we all know confidence is what attracts a guy, if you seem uncomfortable a guy will either think its to do with them or that your uncomfortable with yourself.

So however you want to dress you dress, they have seen your pics they know what you look like, remember ladies they are lucky to be having a date with us.

We are young confident beautiful women and we do not ever need to sell ourselves short

Love

Jess
xoxox

A new sugar baby

We had a new girl come out with us last night that was introduced to us by one of X'S banker clients. You can tell she is new to this lifestyle as I think she has bought every designer known to man and thrown them all on together. It was an awful sight, she had terrible nail extensions, the chavvy French manicure ones, a tan that left her as orange as a satsuma and a dress so short I saw things of hers only her sugar daddy needs to see. But I am going to take her shopping soon so she looks a bit better as I am sure I probably done the same as her when I got into my sugar baby role I think thats why X introduced us really.

She seems a lovely girl if not a bit competitive, but I'm sure once she gets used to her role she will chill out a bit. I do think it's hard for a new sugar baby to come onto the scene as it is very daunting just being welcomed into this world, it's even harder if you have no one who understands your life. Tell people your a WAG they are jealous, tell people you are a sugar baby they call you a slag. But get the right friends around you and you will have the best time of your life.

I think that it's hard these days trying to attract the right sugar daddy, you kind of have to dress for the role, I don't think you have to be stick thin, but just make sure that you are height weight proportionate, always look done so make sure your hair is clean, your make up well applied, you need to master the art of wearing a full face and not looking like you are wearing much. Even if you can't afford designer just make sure your clothes are in good condition, as soon as they start to lose their colour get rid of them. The best website for clothes is www.asos.com, as this sells clothes in the style of the celebrities clothes and they can be quite cheap as well as having some great new designer ranges on their.

Don't go to high fashion, but make sure you look on trend, but the most important advice I could give is don't except second best, know what you want out of this experience and stick to your guns until you find it. Sugar daddys will respect you more if you don't change your mind just cause they say no, move on until you find what you are looking for, and certainly don't sleep with them if they offer you money, as that is a hooker.


Tomorrow I'll give you a few ideas about where to find potential Sugar Daddys