I always get emails asking what to wear on a first date with a new pot.
Here is my advice from what I have learnt, SD's arent too fashion forward so whilstn you should keep up with the trends men are simple creatures and whilst you may get the odd one or two who are really on trend, really out there wont work. So keep it simple but well presented.
I always wear a dress when I meet a pot but then thats my personality. I am a girly girl and most of the time I am always in dresses, I only own 1 pair of trousers, being a hourglass I work with what suits me.
Always make sure your shoes aren't dirty or scuffed, and that your bag isnt falling apart as these always bring a outfit together. If you have painted your nails make sure no chips, if you haven't make sure they are clean.
Dont plaster yourself in make-up, men hate this and dont try out new looks on a date, trust me i did it and I was so self-concious because it wasnt what i was used too. Same with hair dont try anything new just make sure its clean and your happy.
At the end of the day if your comfortable you will be confident and girls we all know confidence is what attracts a guy, if you seem uncomfortable a guy will either think its to do with them or that your uncomfortable with yourself.
So however you want to dress you dress, they have seen your pics they know what you look like, remember ladies they are lucky to be having a date with us.
We are young confident beautiful women and we do not ever need to sell ourselves short
Love
Jess
xoxox
Showing posts with label first date. Show all posts
Showing posts with label first date. Show all posts
Sunday, January 31, 2010
Saturday, January 30, 2010
New pots
Firstly thanks everyone for your well wishes, no I dont know who the girls are, and yes the police are invovlved they are looking at CCTV so see if they can find the incident.
Now on to the good stuff girls, I have a new pot and when I say he is googable damn is this man googable. I only typed in his first name and 100's of entries came up about him including his society wedding and then divorce. He is early 40's which is good and him and his family actually own the company he works for!!! kerchiiing!
He did ask me to meet him where he is now, but well me and flying to meet guys for the first trip it just doesn't happen. For a first meet I am happy to go to them if it's still in this country and I have a hotel booking made and transport to and from paid for by them, or they can come to my home town by no I wont go out of this country.
Now back to my Pot, I'll call him Mr Public, I have entered in his email address and this site came up with a load of email address for bad SD's and all someone had written was is married!!! I am sorry girls but this is sugar daddy land most of them are!
So anyway thats my news ladies
Love
Jess
xoxoxox
Now on to the good stuff girls, I have a new pot and when I say he is googable damn is this man googable. I only typed in his first name and 100's of entries came up about him including his society wedding and then divorce. He is early 40's which is good and him and his family actually own the company he works for!!! kerchiiing!
He did ask me to meet him where he is now, but well me and flying to meet guys for the first trip it just doesn't happen. For a first meet I am happy to go to them if it's still in this country and I have a hotel booking made and transport to and from paid for by them, or they can come to my home town by no I wont go out of this country.
Now back to my Pot, I'll call him Mr Public, I have entered in his email address and this site came up with a load of email address for bad SD's and all someone had written was is married!!! I am sorry girls but this is sugar daddy land most of them are!
So anyway thats my news ladies
Love
Jess
xoxoxox
Tuesday, August 25, 2009
An update
Well fingers crossed I am moving out next week, its a very grotty one bedroom flat but it will be my own as much as I love my folks living with them is a pain in the ASS!! Especially for my sugardaddy dating its hard to explain where you are going.
I have a date fingers crossed with a nice guy from Germany, he is willing to come over to me, only has time to meet for a few days each month which is great for me but can work with my budget. woo hoo!! Not gonna get too excited though as we all know where a lot of these men lead to, thats right nothing,lol.
I havent been online as my net is playing up at the moment, might have something to do with me not paying my bills but hey who knows lol.
Well I am off to read everyones blog and get myself updated will give more of a update tomorrow
Love
Jess Bunny
xox
I have a date fingers crossed with a nice guy from Germany, he is willing to come over to me, only has time to meet for a few days each month which is great for me but can work with my budget. woo hoo!! Not gonna get too excited though as we all know where a lot of these men lead to, thats right nothing,lol.
I havent been online as my net is playing up at the moment, might have something to do with me not paying my bills but hey who knows lol.
Well I am off to read everyones blog and get myself updated will give more of a update tomorrow
Love
Jess Bunny
xox
Thursday, March 12, 2009
Lilly has some dates
OMG I am soo exicted Lily has 2 dates coming up on with a guy from sugardaddie.com another with a guy she met on SA.com, it so exciting I get to live my sugarbaby life through her again. The first guy she has a date with is a hedge fund manager the second guy is a judge. So both a very much loaded the judge we have googled a great tool in my eyes and how the hell did we SD date before it became available, as if he isnt googable then he isnt worth it LOL.
So both guys have residences in London, but the Judge lives in the country and comes to London to work which would be more fun, both guys are attractive and very distingushed looking though it does have to say Hedge man is a little tubby but then Lily has always been more about the guy than the looks. Even when she was in school she dated different types from the Jock to the goth she dated them all. Now I have been reading up on some other blogs that are around and I have to say I am quite shocked at the amoun of girls who write that they dont fancie they guy but they will keep him as a option, this is dangerous territory for me and I personally feel when you dont fancie the guy it is more about the money than the guy, then that is when you should consider yourself a courtesan rather than a sb.
I am sorry if that comes across as judgemental but ladies please rememeber what the difference is between these 2 things, for me a sb has always got to be attracted to the man first and for me and my friends we have always said we would date our sd's even if they were broke. To me if you can't say that about a prospective SD then you should just walk away.
Now back to Lils dates, she is supposed to have her date with Hedge sometime next week but it all depends on whether or not he has the time, and Judge is supposed to be the week after. Lily prefers Hedge more thats why she has chosen him as her first date and if there are no sparks then she has Judge who she likes to fall back on.
Very exciting and we are going to go to the shops to buy an outfit for each date so will update you more on that at the time.
I'll probably get back to stuff thats goign on in my life and my shopping adventures have just been wanting to catch up but thanks so much for the lovely emails I received yesterday, and as I said any topics you want covered please just leave a comment and I will get round to it
Love
Jess Bunny
xoxox
So both guys have residences in London, but the Judge lives in the country and comes to London to work which would be more fun, both guys are attractive and very distingushed looking though it does have to say Hedge man is a little tubby but then Lily has always been more about the guy than the looks. Even when she was in school she dated different types from the Jock to the goth she dated them all. Now I have been reading up on some other blogs that are around and I have to say I am quite shocked at the amoun of girls who write that they dont fancie they guy but they will keep him as a option, this is dangerous territory for me and I personally feel when you dont fancie the guy it is more about the money than the guy, then that is when you should consider yourself a courtesan rather than a sb.
I am sorry if that comes across as judgemental but ladies please rememeber what the difference is between these 2 things, for me a sb has always got to be attracted to the man first and for me and my friends we have always said we would date our sd's even if they were broke. To me if you can't say that about a prospective SD then you should just walk away.
Now back to Lils dates, she is supposed to have her date with Hedge sometime next week but it all depends on whether or not he has the time, and Judge is supposed to be the week after. Lily prefers Hedge more thats why she has chosen him as her first date and if there are no sparks then she has Judge who she likes to fall back on.
Very exciting and we are going to go to the shops to buy an outfit for each date so will update you more on that at the time.
I'll probably get back to stuff thats goign on in my life and my shopping adventures have just been wanting to catch up but thanks so much for the lovely emails I received yesterday, and as I said any topics you want covered please just leave a comment and I will get round to it
Love
Jess Bunny
xoxox
Saturday, January 26, 2008
First date jitters
So I went shopping today with one of my non SB girlfriends who cam to London for the day to see me, she has a first date with a guy next week and it got me thinking about maybe writing a blog about what you could expect on your first date, what to wear.
So by now if it's your first date you should have spoken about the financial side of things for 2 reasons. Firstly what's the point of meeting if your expectations of this relationship aren't the same and secondly it's easier to do it over email than face-to-face. You can be bolder and if you disagree with what he is offering it's easier to be polite and say "thank you but we are not on the same level" than it is to do it to his face. Imagine if you are looking for a £6k allowance and he is only looking to spend £1k or under. Also some men are just looking for occasional dates when he has company stuff on, or when he needs to get away from the wife others want like me and X have a full time relationship.
Your emails should help you figure out the ins and out s of the relationship, obviously not how may times you have sex, what positions, but how often you want to see each other, who is going to travel to who, that kind of thing.
Now if you work and it is a dinner date try to get the day of and the day after off, the day of so you can get ready and take your time and the day after not so you can stay over with him just so you can have a think about how it went, if you could see your self with him, this is a important decision and you want to let him know ASAP otherwise he may just move on, obviously you don't have to have the day after but try to get the day of the date.
Don't have a facial the day of the date, or for 3 days before it will bring out any impurities and leave you with bad skin for your date, not great!! You should have had a spray tan the night before so you just need to jump in the shower mid afternoon to get rid of the layer colour, I always leave it till the afternoon as you get a nicer colour and always have it done by someone, don't do it your self, you know it will go wrong!! Give yourself a mani and pedi, go for a nice neutral colour, obviously wash you your hair and style it once you have had your shower.
What to wear? Whilst I was shopping today I saw some lovely Black jeans around I go for DVB jeans but there are just as good ones in River Island, New Look or Topshop. The just a nice smart top, you want to be saying with your outfit, yeah I maybe going some place posh but so what I 'll dress to my style and jeans and a top can never go wrong. And the good things with black jeans is they can be mistaken for black trousers anyway so they look smart. Don't dress like you would for a job interview for a start he has to prove himself to you, not the other way round. Go for the no make up look on the face bright eyes and glossy lips. Look to make sure it applied well, no orange line if you can buy some sponges or as I use a Benefit foundation brush, you can't go wrong with one of these. Oh and lastly don't overpower him with perfume, just go light with it and put it on your pulse points.
OK so on your date, I'll go back to my experiences before X I only took enough cash for my taxi fair there and home, always meet in a bar before you go to the restaurant do you want to be stuck eating with a man who bores you to death no! Trust me it drags for hours and hours. This isn't a normal date don't offer to pay for the drinks he wants to be your SD this is what he should be doing, that is also why the bar is a good idea. Always have a friend ring you after half an hour make sure everything is ok and of course if it's not you can make a runner stating a dying dog :)
Never, Never go to bed with them on the first date, for a start no Sugar Daddy wants to think that as soon as his back is turned that his SB is going with other guys even if you have agreed you will see other people, keep him wanting more, it's classier and men will have more respect of you. Yes this relationship gets rid of the crap of waiting 5 dates and then sleeping together but take my advice you sleep with him on the first date and you have lost him. The second or third is fine but never the first. I always had to kiss a man on a first date as for me if you can't kiss eww, I love kissing and thankfully X is very good at it :) If he say he wants to try before he enters an agreement then fine but he can take you on a little shopping trip on your second date then. Try before you buy is saved for the deli counter.
Don't get so drunk you fall about, and keep an air of mystery, if he asks how you think things have gone, then tell him. Izzy told her SD that night that yes she wanted a arrangement with him and it worked out well but she didn't sleep with him that night either.
Well I hope this helps some of you
Love
Jess Bunny
xx
So by now if it's your first date you should have spoken about the financial side of things for 2 reasons. Firstly what's the point of meeting if your expectations of this relationship aren't the same and secondly it's easier to do it over email than face-to-face. You can be bolder and if you disagree with what he is offering it's easier to be polite and say "thank you but we are not on the same level" than it is to do it to his face. Imagine if you are looking for a £6k allowance and he is only looking to spend £1k or under. Also some men are just looking for occasional dates when he has company stuff on, or when he needs to get away from the wife others want like me and X have a full time relationship.
Your emails should help you figure out the ins and out s of the relationship, obviously not how may times you have sex, what positions, but how often you want to see each other, who is going to travel to who, that kind of thing.
Now if you work and it is a dinner date try to get the day of and the day after off, the day of so you can get ready and take your time and the day after not so you can stay over with him just so you can have a think about how it went, if you could see your self with him, this is a important decision and you want to let him know ASAP otherwise he may just move on, obviously you don't have to have the day after but try to get the day of the date.
Don't have a facial the day of the date, or for 3 days before it will bring out any impurities and leave you with bad skin for your date, not great!! You should have had a spray tan the night before so you just need to jump in the shower mid afternoon to get rid of the layer colour, I always leave it till the afternoon as you get a nicer colour and always have it done by someone, don't do it your self, you know it will go wrong!! Give yourself a mani and pedi, go for a nice neutral colour, obviously wash you your hair and style it once you have had your shower.
What to wear? Whilst I was shopping today I saw some lovely Black jeans around I go for DVB jeans but there are just as good ones in River Island, New Look or Topshop. The just a nice smart top, you want to be saying with your outfit, yeah I maybe going some place posh but so what I 'll dress to my style and jeans and a top can never go wrong. And the good things with black jeans is they can be mistaken for black trousers anyway so they look smart. Don't dress like you would for a job interview for a start he has to prove himself to you, not the other way round. Go for the no make up look on the face bright eyes and glossy lips. Look to make sure it applied well, no orange line if you can buy some sponges or as I use a Benefit foundation brush, you can't go wrong with one of these. Oh and lastly don't overpower him with perfume, just go light with it and put it on your pulse points.
OK so on your date, I'll go back to my experiences before X I only took enough cash for my taxi fair there and home, always meet in a bar before you go to the restaurant do you want to be stuck eating with a man who bores you to death no! Trust me it drags for hours and hours. This isn't a normal date don't offer to pay for the drinks he wants to be your SD this is what he should be doing, that is also why the bar is a good idea. Always have a friend ring you after half an hour make sure everything is ok and of course if it's not you can make a runner stating a dying dog :)
Never, Never go to bed with them on the first date, for a start no Sugar Daddy wants to think that as soon as his back is turned that his SB is going with other guys even if you have agreed you will see other people, keep him wanting more, it's classier and men will have more respect of you. Yes this relationship gets rid of the crap of waiting 5 dates and then sleeping together but take my advice you sleep with him on the first date and you have lost him. The second or third is fine but never the first. I always had to kiss a man on a first date as for me if you can't kiss eww, I love kissing and thankfully X is very good at it :) If he say he wants to try before he enters an agreement then fine but he can take you on a little shopping trip on your second date then. Try before you buy is saved for the deli counter.
Don't get so drunk you fall about, and keep an air of mystery, if he asks how you think things have gone, then tell him. Izzy told her SD that night that yes she wanted a arrangement with him and it worked out well but she didn't sleep with him that night either.
Well I hope this helps some of you
Love
Jess Bunny
xx
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