The pitfalls of this relationship

OK so this is in answer to a comment left on my last blog, you say you are in love with him that's great but you need to be realistic does he have a wife, if no then fab but don't put to much pressure on him, if he has a wife I'm sorry to be harsh but he wont divorce her, it will cost him to much money. I love X with all my heart and he is the only guy I am with, but it is hard knowing he goes home to his wife and shares a bed with her, but girls don't put pressure on him he is in this relationship as he doesn't want the hassle of leaving his wife and kids or the mundane things that happen in a normal relationship. Yes me and X argue the difference being when we make up I get some diamonds :) But don't break up with him just cause you are falling in love just accept that this may never be as out in the open as you like and you will have the most fantastic relationship of your life.

The biggest pitfall is other women, once they realise what kind of relationship you have they will do anything to try and replace you but just play it cool, don't act jealous at least not around your SD and have fun with it. If you start to get jealous and whiny why would he continue with that when that is the kind of relationship he has at home. Just remember you have and only you can lose him. Yes there will be thinner women and prettier women but he has invested time in you and most businessmen hate to see a investment go down the drain. Most sugar daddys are alpha males and they need their ego massaged so if you see a girl checking him out, point it out, when I tell X some stunning blonde is checking him out you see his chest puffing out, but I know he is coming back to me be secure in your relationship or you will lose it.

Then of course you get the women who think this relationship is degrading to women, god this kind of relationship has been going on for centuries the only difference is now men and women have given it a different name and there are people actively searching for this kind of relationship. Most people I know would love my life I don't have to work, I can go into any shop and purchase whatever I want and I don't have to worry about where my next meal is coming from. What is so bad about that. Yes I could have done it on my own but you know what I didn't want to, I wanted the whole princess lifestyle and I am damn glad I am fortunate to have it.

Well rant over

Glad you girls are liking the blog it means a lot to me, so spread the world to all your sugar baby and sugar daddy friends. Abd keep the comments coming I love reading them in the morning, they mean a lot to me.

Love

Jess Bunny

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Not long till Xmas

I am going to be going home soon for Xmas so me and X are spending Saturday and Sunday together, I am off out with some of my girlfriends tonight, so I have had my hair done ready. When we go out together it is a case of who has the best dress, the best jewellery, the nicest bag. I suppose it's a girl thing only me and another of my friends mixes high street and designer, there is now a group of 6 of us including the new SB I spoke about before. We always laugh as we do see some people looking at us very strange as on our nights out we dress to impress each other rather than men. My best friend is called Izzie she like me is dating a banker so she lives a very nice life. It's nice to have a close group of friends who don't judge you for being in this kind of relationship, but understand it, all the ups and downs.

Anyway back to tonight, I have bought another fantastic high street dress, its actually from lipsy, and its a hot pink halterneck dress all the celebs have been seen wearing it, it was actually one of my Xmas presents from Izzie, being such a girly girl she knows I love anything pink and this dress well it is just so girly. Another of my friend has bought me a pair of Christian Loboutins that have the bow at the back, they are so dramatic and so very me. To top of the out fit well it has to be an oversized clutch from Gucci, I love this new trend as it means I don't have to worry about whether I can fit everything into such a small bag. Tonight I am going to BLING myself out, I have a fantastic pair of pink diamond studs and a gorgeous pink diamond 3 carat ring that X bought for me for my birthday.

So onto X well for Xmas I have bought him a Cartier watch and and money note holder with a small 1/2 carat diamond encased in it, and it's set in platinum. For some reason X hates carrying a wallet so he has these note things and it does look lovely. Saturday we are going down Bond street to do some Xmas shopping for me and Sunday we are going to have a lazy day in the flat watching Xmas films and giving each other our presents, and well I can think you can guess what else :-)

Now back to the girlys well there is Izzie, Jazz, Lullah, Claire, Lucy and me. Lucy being the newest one to join us, only Claire doesn't have a SD but she is looking and for now she works in Fashion PR, to help fund her life, but we do always treat her to bit and bobs and we never make her pay for nights out with us. I would say fashion wise we are like Football WAGS we are always on trend and we do like to see who has the most expensive bag or car. Izzie is winning her bag cost £6500 she saw that Colleen had one and rung round every boutique until she could track one down, I cant remember the name of it but buy either LOOK or Grazia and it's in there. Apart from Claire none of us work, Lucy has just given her job up she worked as a secretary for X and met her SD through him. I would say we are all quite sweet, we know we live a fab life and never take it for granted, just enjoy every day as it comes.

I hope you are enjoying these blogs I am not really getting much feedback but at lot of you seem to be reading it so leave me some comments let me know what you think and if you like my blog tell all your friends :)

Love

Jess Bunny

Happy Christmas

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A new sugar baby

We had a new girl come out with us last night that was introduced to us by one of X'S banker clients. You can tell she is new to this lifestyle as I think she has bought every designer known to man and thrown them all on together. It was an awful sight, she had terrible nail extensions, the chavvy French manicure ones, a tan that left her as orange as a satsuma and a dress so short I saw things of hers only her sugar daddy needs to see. But I am going to take her shopping soon so she looks a bit better as I am sure I probably done the same as her when I got into my sugar baby role I think thats why X introduced us really.

She seems a lovely girl if not a bit competitive, but I'm sure once she gets used to her role she will chill out a bit. I do think it's hard for a new sugar baby to come onto the scene as it is very daunting just being welcomed into this world, it's even harder if you have no one who understands your life. Tell people your a WAG they are jealous, tell people you are a sugar baby they call you a slag. But get the right friends around you and you will have the best time of your life.

I think that it's hard these days trying to attract the right sugar daddy, you kind of have to dress for the role, I don't think you have to be stick thin, but just make sure that you are height weight proportionate, always look done so make sure your hair is clean, your make up well applied, you need to master the art of wearing a full face and not looking like you are wearing much. Even if you can't afford designer just make sure your clothes are in good condition, as soon as they start to lose their colour get rid of them. The best website for clothes is www.asos.com, as this sells clothes in the style of the celebrities clothes and they can be quite cheap as well as having some great new designer ranges on their.

Don't go to high fashion, but make sure you look on trend, but the most important advice I could give is don't except second best, know what you want out of this experience and stick to your guns until you find it. Sugar daddys will respect you more if you don't change your mind just cause they say no, move on until you find what you are looking for, and certainly don't sleep with them if they offer you money, as that is a hooker.


Tomorrow I'll give you a few ideas about where to find potential Sugar Daddys