Being back in the search for a SD I forgot how hard it was.
I now have a profile back on sa.com and its just so hard standing out in the crowd, I have never seen so many good looking women on one site lol. But I have my fingers crossed that magic can strike twice I am looking for an allowance of between £3-5k but if they are happy for my to continue living in Swansea then I can lower that to £2 - 3k as the flat I want here is only £500 pcm but I always aim high at first go and then see what happens.
I think we have been spoilt by the number of eastern european girls who are willing to be a cheap as anything, through my blog and on FB I have met some great people which I am very pleased about and one who is great at gving advice as I am finding I am a bit rusty at the moment lol. She said the best thing last night those who are flashy will be willing to give less than those who are discreet and that is soo true look at X he was discreetly very wealthy.
I think my confidence has been knocked quite a lot by X so am worrying about how I look, whether I am too big all the normal things that us girls go through.
But at least I know I have you guys here with me as well
Love
Jess Bunny
xoxox
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Showing posts with label standards. Show all posts
Thursday, June 25, 2009
Monday, June 15, 2009
Let the search begin
Well as heartless as this seems I am getting back on the horse and gonna find myself another SD bu this time I wont be lookin for love just a SD!
Ok so lots of people have been asking what happened, basically X offered me to one of his clients to help his deal along, he has never done anything like that before and I was shocked when he did suggest it. I have never felt so cheap in my life and due to that I wanted no ties in my life to him.
Now I look back on I wish I hadn't given the money and possessions back but at the time I had to do it. But at least I have no debt and I have my family that I can move back in with. I just told them I had lost my job due to recession and also that me and X had split up.
So this blog will take a new direction about my search to get my lifestyle back, I knwo I probably wont get the same amount but I am looking in the reigon of £3-£5k so keep your fingers crossed for me, unfortuantely I dont live in a big city so that makes it harder but hey ho the search will begin
Love
Jess Bunny
xox
Ok so lots of people have been asking what happened, basically X offered me to one of his clients to help his deal along, he has never done anything like that before and I was shocked when he did suggest it. I have never felt so cheap in my life and due to that I wanted no ties in my life to him.
Now I look back on I wish I hadn't given the money and possessions back but at the time I had to do it. But at least I have no debt and I have my family that I can move back in with. I just told them I had lost my job due to recession and also that me and X had split up.
So this blog will take a new direction about my search to get my lifestyle back, I knwo I probably wont get the same amount but I am looking in the reigon of £3-£5k so keep your fingers crossed for me, unfortuantely I dont live in a big city so that makes it harder but hey ho the search will begin
Love
Jess Bunny
xox
Monday, March 16, 2009
In my mind this is the quickest way to lose a sd
I personally do not think its a good idea to do publicity especially if the guy is married. Its the fastest way to scare him away I also think it makes the whole sd thing look sordid and wrong as newspapers write things in a way that sensationalises things now dont get me wrong I love the sunday papers especially the kiss and tell stories but this girl just looks stupid. Talking about how they dont know about each other, uuummm they do now and really if she was having that much money off them why does she feel the need to sell her story to a sunday paper.
Now some of you may say pot, kettle, black as I write this blog but there isnt really anyway that this can be traced back to X, I dont put up pictures of my face and yes you can see pics of my flat and cars on Facebook but there are not pictures that will lead anyone to X and to me X is the most important thing and if this blog in anyway hurt him I would stop.
In my mind the girls who do these things do come across as gold diggers and they may or may not be but no SD wants to be with a gold digger they want to know that you do like them for them and not just their money.
Well as I have said I finally have my facebook profile up and tend to go on their everyday and am adding pictures on their have some of my flat and my cars, would love to put up pictures of us girls but it would make things to arkward for X so cant. But I hope you all join so I can keep in touch with you, my link is on the right of this post up the top.
Love
Jess Bunny
xoxox
Oh and just click on the title of this post to go to the story I am talking about
xx
Now some of you may say pot, kettle, black as I write this blog but there isnt really anyway that this can be traced back to X, I dont put up pictures of my face and yes you can see pics of my flat and cars on Facebook but there are not pictures that will lead anyone to X and to me X is the most important thing and if this blog in anyway hurt him I would stop.
In my mind the girls who do these things do come across as gold diggers and they may or may not be but no SD wants to be with a gold digger they want to know that you do like them for them and not just their money.
Well as I have said I finally have my facebook profile up and tend to go on their everyday and am adding pictures on their have some of my flat and my cars, would love to put up pictures of us girls but it would make things to arkward for X so cant. But I hope you all join so I can keep in touch with you, my link is on the right of this post up the top.
Love
Jess Bunny
xoxox
Oh and just click on the title of this post to go to the story I am talking about
xx
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Thursday, March 12, 2009
Lilly has some dates
OMG I am soo exicted Lily has 2 dates coming up on with a guy from sugardaddie.com another with a guy she met on SA.com, it so exciting I get to live my sugarbaby life through her again. The first guy she has a date with is a hedge fund manager the second guy is a judge. So both a very much loaded the judge we have googled a great tool in my eyes and how the hell did we SD date before it became available, as if he isnt googable then he isnt worth it LOL.
So both guys have residences in London, but the Judge lives in the country and comes to London to work which would be more fun, both guys are attractive and very distingushed looking though it does have to say Hedge man is a little tubby but then Lily has always been more about the guy than the looks. Even when she was in school she dated different types from the Jock to the goth she dated them all. Now I have been reading up on some other blogs that are around and I have to say I am quite shocked at the amoun of girls who write that they dont fancie they guy but they will keep him as a option, this is dangerous territory for me and I personally feel when you dont fancie the guy it is more about the money than the guy, then that is when you should consider yourself a courtesan rather than a sb.
I am sorry if that comes across as judgemental but ladies please rememeber what the difference is between these 2 things, for me a sb has always got to be attracted to the man first and for me and my friends we have always said we would date our sd's even if they were broke. To me if you can't say that about a prospective SD then you should just walk away.
Now back to Lils dates, she is supposed to have her date with Hedge sometime next week but it all depends on whether or not he has the time, and Judge is supposed to be the week after. Lily prefers Hedge more thats why she has chosen him as her first date and if there are no sparks then she has Judge who she likes to fall back on.
Very exciting and we are going to go to the shops to buy an outfit for each date so will update you more on that at the time.
I'll probably get back to stuff thats goign on in my life and my shopping adventures have just been wanting to catch up but thanks so much for the lovely emails I received yesterday, and as I said any topics you want covered please just leave a comment and I will get round to it
Love
Jess Bunny
xoxox
So both guys have residences in London, but the Judge lives in the country and comes to London to work which would be more fun, both guys are attractive and very distingushed looking though it does have to say Hedge man is a little tubby but then Lily has always been more about the guy than the looks. Even when she was in school she dated different types from the Jock to the goth she dated them all. Now I have been reading up on some other blogs that are around and I have to say I am quite shocked at the amoun of girls who write that they dont fancie they guy but they will keep him as a option, this is dangerous territory for me and I personally feel when you dont fancie the guy it is more about the money than the guy, then that is when you should consider yourself a courtesan rather than a sb.
I am sorry if that comes across as judgemental but ladies please rememeber what the difference is between these 2 things, for me a sb has always got to be attracted to the man first and for me and my friends we have always said we would date our sd's even if they were broke. To me if you can't say that about a prospective SD then you should just walk away.
Now back to Lils dates, she is supposed to have her date with Hedge sometime next week but it all depends on whether or not he has the time, and Judge is supposed to be the week after. Lily prefers Hedge more thats why she has chosen him as her first date and if there are no sparks then she has Judge who she likes to fall back on.
Very exciting and we are going to go to the shops to buy an outfit for each date so will update you more on that at the time.
I'll probably get back to stuff thats goign on in my life and my shopping adventures have just been wanting to catch up but thanks so much for the lovely emails I received yesterday, and as I said any topics you want covered please just leave a comment and I will get round to it
Love
Jess Bunny
xoxox
Wednesday, March 11, 2009
A few myths busted
Hi everyone,
Sorry everyone I have been gone for a while I have gotten out of the habit of sitting down and writing in the blog, but I do promise I am going to try and get back into the habit.
I have recieved loads of emails though and have been working my way through them so If I havent replied yet I am sorry but I am trying to get through them.
Now first of all the main myth I have been getting is that the recession means you should be lowering your expectation. Okay now really girls the recession isnt going to hit the guys who can afford to be sugardaddies, yes it means they will tighten their belts but if you were looking for a £10k allowance you wouldnt have been looking for a guy who would have been paying it out if his allowance. Yes X is having a hard time with the credit crunch, but he was never the kind of guy whose wealth all depended on one factor, yes some of his shares has plummeted and his houses aren't worth so much, but he still has funds spread out and stuff like that. Now if your looking for a £1-£3k allowance I still think although his stability may be affected you have to remember these guys who want to be sd are cash rich, time poor guys, they don't have the time to spend their wages.
I personally think the problem is with the credit crunch a lot more girls are thinking about doing it. I noticed in America tyra Banks has done a show on it, more and more women are jumping into the race. So now more than ever you ladies have to be slow and steady.
Secondly a few of you have emailed saying that a guy you have chatted with has told you how he does a search on all his prospective sb's and how on some of them he has found listing for erotic services on craiglist and blah de blah. This is utter crap, one firstly he would need to pay for these kind of background checks, secondly he would need a lot more information than just your name and you picture to do these.
Now whether this is the same man or different men they are just trying to scare you and make you believe they are more powerful than they are. I mean firstly if you had put your picture up for escort services would you have used your real name, secondly its none of his god damn business if you have, what you or he have done in your past is none of each others business unless you want to share it.
The kind of background check that would need to be done to find these sort of things in the hundreds if not thousands of adverts across the internet would not only be very expensive but would also only really be needed to be preformed if you were dating in the open, which 9 times out of 10 you aren't when you are a sb.
Right well ladies or gentlemen if they vare any topics you would like covered just let me know in the comments box.
And any emails send them to jessbunny1@hotmail.co.uk
Love
Jess Bunny
xoxox
Sorry everyone I have been gone for a while I have gotten out of the habit of sitting down and writing in the blog, but I do promise I am going to try and get back into the habit.
I have recieved loads of emails though and have been working my way through them so If I havent replied yet I am sorry but I am trying to get through them.
Now first of all the main myth I have been getting is that the recession means you should be lowering your expectation. Okay now really girls the recession isnt going to hit the guys who can afford to be sugardaddies, yes it means they will tighten their belts but if you were looking for a £10k allowance you wouldnt have been looking for a guy who would have been paying it out if his allowance. Yes X is having a hard time with the credit crunch, but he was never the kind of guy whose wealth all depended on one factor, yes some of his shares has plummeted and his houses aren't worth so much, but he still has funds spread out and stuff like that. Now if your looking for a £1-£3k allowance I still think although his stability may be affected you have to remember these guys who want to be sd are cash rich, time poor guys, they don't have the time to spend their wages.
I personally think the problem is with the credit crunch a lot more girls are thinking about doing it. I noticed in America tyra Banks has done a show on it, more and more women are jumping into the race. So now more than ever you ladies have to be slow and steady.
Secondly a few of you have emailed saying that a guy you have chatted with has told you how he does a search on all his prospective sb's and how on some of them he has found listing for erotic services on craiglist and blah de blah. This is utter crap, one firstly he would need to pay for these kind of background checks, secondly he would need a lot more information than just your name and you picture to do these.
Now whether this is the same man or different men they are just trying to scare you and make you believe they are more powerful than they are. I mean firstly if you had put your picture up for escort services would you have used your real name, secondly its none of his god damn business if you have, what you or he have done in your past is none of each others business unless you want to share it.
The kind of background check that would need to be done to find these sort of things in the hundreds if not thousands of adverts across the internet would not only be very expensive but would also only really be needed to be preformed if you were dating in the open, which 9 times out of 10 you aren't when you are a sb.
Right well ladies or gentlemen if they vare any topics you would like covered just let me know in the comments box.
And any emails send them to jessbunny1@hotmail.co.uk
Love
Jess Bunny
xoxox
Wednesday, January 28, 2009
A late Xmas
Oh such a lovely few days me and X finally had our Christmas, though we had to have chicken rather than turkey hehehe!
After much dileberating I decided to buy X a piece of the rainforest and bought him 10 acres at £50 each, now with the guy who has everything you have to be more creative and I always go on at him about recycling and not using so much paper so this was good as he knew I had put some thought into it as well. And its like our own insider joke. I also had a chef come in to prepare the food for us, as I am not the greatest cook so didn't want one of my presents to be food poisoning hehehe.
My presents well I had a new apple macbook as I love technology at the moment, a load of Marilyn monroe dvds and a classic Andy warhol style picture of myself. My best present though was a eternity ring with "forever and always" engraved in it.
Now one of the most common emails I have had since I set up my email address is that it hasn't happened yep and it's been a month, trust me ladies it will take time to meet your sugardaddy and you probably will have to go through the bad ones to get to a good one, but as I have always said don't have sex on the first date, to me this is what the fakes want. Just go for lunch and dinner for a chat so you know if there is any point of continuing, he may be for real but most men will be put off if you jump into bed straight away. The real sugar daddys aren't looking for one night stands but for something that they are receiving at the moment companionship, yes sex is a big part but it's not everything.
Jess
xoxox
After much dileberating I decided to buy X a piece of the rainforest and bought him 10 acres at £50 each, now with the guy who has everything you have to be more creative and I always go on at him about recycling and not using so much paper so this was good as he knew I had put some thought into it as well. And its like our own insider joke. I also had a chef come in to prepare the food for us, as I am not the greatest cook so didn't want one of my presents to be food poisoning hehehe.
My presents well I had a new apple macbook as I love technology at the moment, a load of Marilyn monroe dvds and a classic Andy warhol style picture of myself. My best present though was a eternity ring with "forever and always" engraved in it.
Now one of the most common emails I have had since I set up my email address is that it hasn't happened yep and it's been a month, trust me ladies it will take time to meet your sugardaddy and you probably will have to go through the bad ones to get to a good one, but as I have always said don't have sex on the first date, to me this is what the fakes want. Just go for lunch and dinner for a chat so you know if there is any point of continuing, he may be for real but most men will be put off if you jump into bed straight away. The real sugar daddys aren't looking for one night stands but for something that they are receiving at the moment companionship, yes sex is a big part but it's not everything.
Jess
xoxox
Thursday, January 22, 2009
I couldnt be bothered with shopping until today
And now I have been a bad girl and gone a little overboard HAHAHA!
Me and online shopping are like the devil when we get together, but god it was so worth it. I have bought myself one of those power plate machines, you know those things that vibrate well I am on my little health fix and on this you just have to stand on it in different positions and boom its great!!!
But apart from that as you girls all know I have a little problem with the high street and well me and River Island havent been friends for a few months since Leigh and well know I have spent over £3000 but guys I do have over 60 items coming to me so that isnt bad, now I am not one of those girls who buys a new wardrobe for every season but once I started I just couldn't stop also some are for my best mate Lily who has a few SD dates coming up which is all from the adverts we put up for her which is fun.
Lily obviously stopped looking when Leigh died but now well as heartless as it sounds life has to go on, and Leigh was the biggest believer in that. And well also he loved hearing about our crazy life in London. I got asked in a comment was asking £5-£10k a bit optomistic in this current climate, well no not when you aren't looking at guys whose net worth is small and would be based on his annual salary. I think in this current time if you are looking for a big monthly allowance then it is going to have to be a guy whose net worth is £50 million plus. And who wont have to depend on their annual salary for your allowance
As much as this sounds really stupid and really calculated do you think the guys aren't going for the prettiest, the girls with the biggest boobs. These sites let you be really direct and if you aren't looking for love you just want fun with a guy who you like that can give you a good life for however long you last the treat it a bit like a business venture and aim for the best. Its just like fishing you just need to have the right bait.
So anyway back to the clothes well I bought so much that my wardrobes are now at bursting point so me and Lily are going to have the 3rd bedroom of my flat made into a walk in wardrobe/dressing room you know like the ones starts have so if anyone knows of any companys that do these please let me know.
Its so good to be back guys Oh and I have also set up a hotmail account so you can email me privately with any questions?
jessbunny1@hotmail.co.uk
Love
Jess Bunny
xoxox
Me and online shopping are like the devil when we get together, but god it was so worth it. I have bought myself one of those power plate machines, you know those things that vibrate well I am on my little health fix and on this you just have to stand on it in different positions and boom its great!!!
But apart from that as you girls all know I have a little problem with the high street and well me and River Island havent been friends for a few months since Leigh and well know I have spent over £3000 but guys I do have over 60 items coming to me so that isnt bad, now I am not one of those girls who buys a new wardrobe for every season but once I started I just couldn't stop also some are for my best mate Lily who has a few SD dates coming up which is all from the adverts we put up for her which is fun.
Lily obviously stopped looking when Leigh died but now well as heartless as it sounds life has to go on, and Leigh was the biggest believer in that. And well also he loved hearing about our crazy life in London. I got asked in a comment was asking £5-£10k a bit optomistic in this current climate, well no not when you aren't looking at guys whose net worth is small and would be based on his annual salary. I think in this current time if you are looking for a big monthly allowance then it is going to have to be a guy whose net worth is £50 million plus. And who wont have to depend on their annual salary for your allowance
As much as this sounds really stupid and really calculated do you think the guys aren't going for the prettiest, the girls with the biggest boobs. These sites let you be really direct and if you aren't looking for love you just want fun with a guy who you like that can give you a good life for however long you last the treat it a bit like a business venture and aim for the best. Its just like fishing you just need to have the right bait.
So anyway back to the clothes well I bought so much that my wardrobes are now at bursting point so me and Lily are going to have the 3rd bedroom of my flat made into a walk in wardrobe/dressing room you know like the ones starts have so if anyone knows of any companys that do these please let me know.
Its so good to be back guys Oh and I have also set up a hotmail account so you can email me privately with any questions?
jessbunny1@hotmail.co.uk
Love
Jess Bunny
xoxox
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