OMG

OMG look at the most amazing pair of shoes I have just bought from EBAY, I just had to share them with you, they cost £482 but they are sooo amazing, and I have finally figured out how to upload pics to the site, so when I buy stuff online I can show it to you yay.

Love


Jess Bunny

xxx

Too much too soon

OK, so I have been emailing a few girls privately and have found the same thing with all of them, you are expecting too much too soon. One girl Lily and I know I am alright to mention her as I asked expected to have a very expensive car bought for her within a month, girls this is not going to happen. You may get a car leased or a not as flash car but don't expect him to buy you a car just like that, a sugar daddy is a business man, and a very successful one as well he will want to see some return on his investment before he puts up the big money and I don't mean the sex I mean he will want to see how you are together as a "couple".

When I first went with X I had a Porche but this was leased and in his name. I can't remember my starting allowance I think it was about £3500 and then went up. Even if he buys you the car you want it won't go in your name. The one thing I have tried to be most insistent about it how you get your allowance, if you have it in cash or into your bank account you may have to end up explaining to the Goverment where you got the money from and paying Tax on it. Not good!!! Also if you are having your money by cash that mean that all bills and stuff like that will go in your name, therefore if you break up you will have to take the fall. Trust me I have seen this happen.

Take a credit card, and if you want to save away some of your money take it out of a ATM through your credit card and put it into savings like that, also he can't not give you all of your allowance that way, even if you take it all out of the ATM fine but do it through a credit card. If you only listen to one piece of advice please let it be that.

Now I don't mean to upset anyone with this entry I am just writing it as a blog as the same things have been mentioned again and again with the girls I am talking too, and apart from Lily I ahave mentioned no names so don't worry girls most of you are making the same errors.

If you push for too much too soon, most guys will just see you as a Gold digger rather than a Sugar baby and trust me they are very different things.

Love Jess Bunny

xxx

Holidays!!!!

Me and the girls go to Dubai next month as part of my Xmas pressie from X, I can't wait to get a tan and everything and do lots and lots of shopping, last time I went to Dubai I went with X who has a place on the Island shaped like a palm tree but this time as it's just girl X wants us to stay at a hotel. We are flying there and back by private jet so I am sooo excited, it will make us all feel like film stars haven't really started doing any shopping, so net-a-porter and Bond street here I come over the next few weeks. Me and Izzie might even pop upto Cricket in Liverpool and see what all the fuss is about.

Did you see the Balenciaga dress Coleen wore to the Grand National that would be such a lush dress to have to go on holiday so hopefully they will still have some in or be able to point me in the right direction. I defo have to buy some new bikinis and all in one pieces too. I normally just buy all my swimwear from River Island as I don't see the poing in spending a fortune on something will be wrecked from chlorine after a while. I was looking around got a absolute bargain yesterday it's a navy sailor dress from Primark for £8 I bought a white blazer that has a navy stripe to go with it I think that was like £12, it looks so much more expensive and can be worn with flip flops or heels. I also want some maxi Dresses but being 5"5, I'm not really sure so will have to investigate that a bit more.

Love

Jess Bunny

xxx

Bit of a catch up

So I thought I would bring up smack bang upto date with everything that has happened, I am still renting a flat in the Dockland area, just haven't found one yet that I want to purchse though am thinkig of going to the owner of my current flat and asking to buy it from him.

X and his Wife are still together the rumors about her seeing someone else died down, so either she is being more careful or she ended things with the guy. He still won't divorce her, as he knows he would end up giving her half of his money as she started dating him once he got to a top level so has been with him since the big manoey started coming in. But that's life and I am happy with what me and X have so I won't complain.

Claire and Russia are still together and she still lives in the same apartment block as me, so we are always popping in to see one another which is lots of fun. But she is going back to her job in Fashion PR as she is bored with not doing anything. That's what I forgot to tell you I am now doing a home study course in Event management, I have decided that's the field I want to get into. Lullah is still dating her footballer, he plays for a premiership side so she is very well looked after. Lucy well her jelousy got the better of her, so her SD dumped her, but I manager to convinve X to give her, her old job back and she lives with Claire. Jazz is still ticking away happily with her SD.

And Izzie she is still my best friend and still with her SD, we are both still haveing the times of our lives and helping each toher through this mad roller coaster but wouldn't have it any other way.

Love

Jess Bunny

xxx

My shopping trips.....

I don't know why but on most of my shopping trips lately I have been buying cocktail dresses. I have recently discovered the great dresses of Marchesa, they are really pricey but so beautiful. I bought yesterday A beautiful dress from Zac Posen called the Tomato gown but at £3752 I am going to have to make sure I have lots of wear out of it.

I actually went to a grand national party yesterday and wore a fab dress from Oscar De La Renta, I bought it from Net-a-porter.com so have added onto my blog for you to see, it's called Taffeta embroidered dress as soon as I put it on X just loved it and I felt such a grown up wearing it http://www.net-a-porter.com/product/27564. I didn't win either which was a bit sad, but the champagne made up for it.

I am still looking for my house I just haven't been able to find one where I walk in a think wow, as I am on a health kick at the moment I am also looking for one with a gym and pool attached, I am really looking for a apartment in the Docklands area but who knows. I would love to live in Aldrely Edge as there are some really beautiful homes there but it's too far away from X.

Now as for whether you should email your prospective sugar daddy, yes but make it a jokey one tease about the weather difference especially seen as we have had some snow, keep it light hearted and n pressure just end it with have a fab holiday and that's it. Don't add i'll see you soon. Hope this helps


Love


Jess Bunny

xx

How long to wait......

OK, so I was asked when is the right time to sleep with your sugar daddy, there is only one answer to this when it feels right for you. Obviously most men want this kind of relationship so they don't have all the games and the long wait but if it doesn't feel right then you should wait, and any respectable man will respect that. If after 2 dates you wish to sleep with him go ahead.

My only advice on this is don't do it on the first date, a lot of guys will be placing adverts or answering adverts just to get sex anyone can book into a nice hotel for one night, you need to see proof that they can sustain this lifestyle. Look at what they wear, if they are comfortable in their surroundings or so they seem to have never been there before, ask them to take you to their favourite restaurant for the 1st date, do they know him there or does he have to ask where the toilets are. They are all little things to look out for when you are deciding whether he is just playing you or not.

Hope this helps

Love

Jess Bunny
xx

I love shoes....

I bought the most gorgeous pair of shoes today, I have been hankering after them for a while but today I decided to bite the bullet and buy them, they are from Prada and the heel of them has a Pink flower on it and the shoe part in a greeny blue. They are the most beautiful pair of shoes I have ever owned. I will try and take a picture or find a picture of them to show you.

Sorry it's such a short one today but haven't really got the time to write but just had to write about these shoes hee hee

Love

Jess Bunny

xx

A little crazy.....

So I went shopping all this week and i just worked out how much I spent £14k, shit I haven't spent like that in a long time but my mum's birthday is coming up this month and it was mothers day. For my mum's birthday I have paid for her and her 3 best friends to go to new york and given her $1500 to spend, she also has a spa package and some clothes and a Louis Vitton overnight bag. And for mothers day well she got a diamond and sapphire tennis bracelet, which she thinks is made from created diamonds but is actually very real so if she loses it I will kill her,lol.

I finally got myself my Bentley GTC I had it done in White with beige leather interior it is absolutely gorgeous, well I think I am in love with this car he he.

Me and X are still getting along really well and we just seem to be getting better and better every day, his wife is turning into a bit of a party animal so we are able to see each other more and more he spends a lot of his time with me now. And we have finally managed to book a holiday away together we are going back to Dubai in May so I can stock up on some jewellery. I haven't yet found the house I want to buy so am still renting my apartment but at least I can hold out till I find the perfect one.

So I have been chatting to someone I met through Craigslist about finding a SD. she seems to have had some really crappy experinces throught the sites and guys being fake and promising the world and never delivering.

So how have your experinces been girlies and any guys who are reading this - have you met anyone who isn't quite what they made themselves out to be.

Love

Jess Bunny

xx

hello

Hi all,

Sorry I haven't written for so long just had a lot going on at the moment, one of my best friends from back home died unexpectedly so have been a bit caught up with dealing with that.

X has been wonderul throughout this hard time for me, and really shown me he cares, I haven't really been out much but I have decided now is the time to start living again my mates death shows that you need to live life for now.

So girlies hold onto your hats cause today I am going on a shopping trip to end all shopping trips ha ha. Let everyone know I am back

Have missed you all

Love

Jess Bunny

xxx

Paris or bust!!!!

Sorry I have been M.I.A but me and Izzie decided to take a little trip over to Paris for a few days, we spent an amazing few days in the Le Meurice OMG how amazing are the suites in that place, Izzie decided she needed a little break as her SD has gone away on business.

I love the whole atmosphere in Paris there isn't really anywhere else like it in the world, so whilst Izzie went wild in Chanel, Dolce and Gabbana and Versace, me I went a little crazy in the cute little boutiques they have there. I bought 5 formal dresses to wear as I have a few dinners coming up and events that I want to make a splash in. One of my dresses is a gorgeous hot pink number it cost over £5000 but when I put it on I just fell in love I had my own celebrity moment in it. It gave my curves where I needed them and made me look slimmer as if by magic. I think I must have spent over £15,000 on this trip just on 5 dresses but at least I know no one else will be wearing my dresses as the good things about those boutiques is they only stock one or two of each item. I also bought some great Lingerie whilst I was away especially some great silk stockings which are just so hard to find these days.

We also paid a visit to the spa in the hotel and it was the most amazing and tranquil place I have ever been to, I had the Iroise body scrub and my skin has never looked so amazing in all my life it just a sheen to it like I have been polished like you do with floors. I also has a Beauté des Mains - Soin Perfection des Mains which is a hand treatment which nourishes the skin and cuticles and all that day I couldn't stop looking at my hands. If ever you get a chance to go then do.

Well I have to be off I am off to Embassy tonight to party like a rock star.

Thanks for all those of you who are still reading the blog. I am missing your comments though, how is your SD experience coming along

Love

Jess Bunny

xx

Its a girlie day yay!!!!

Oh I am so tired now, I have just with all my girls for a catch up, we do this once a week, but for a while I have been missing them or done things with X or just really not been bothered, not cause I don't love the girls but you know sometimes when you just can't be bothered to get all blinged out and looking fabulous, which has to be done when we meet.

Anyway so I got up bright and early had the hairdresser give me a blow dry, and I had some really loose curls put in, now as it was just us meeting there was no need for make up artists and stuff like that but some of the other girls I know, not any of my inner circle don't leave the house until they have been "done" professionally - How stupid is that!! So anyway I had on a pair Victoria Beckham jeans in white, A gorgeous ruffle top from Matalan and a pair of Louboutin shoes, I was looking very chic and I had my Zagalini Python bag in Black, I also had on my Mac from Burberry and I was already to go to the Dorchester for some brunch and a girlie catch up. Now Lucy remember her the newest WAG was in need of consoling, she thinks her SD is cheating on her, no he isn't she is just getting really clingy and he is backing away. I don't understand why she isn't secure in her relationship until she started getting clingy he was the greatest guy, but she seems to be pushing him to his limit.

Calling him 3 times a day just to say hi and stuff like that, now men in general hate that behaviour but SD they can't stand it, that's why they are in this relationship so they don't have any of that crap. I think Lucy is going to lose him if she carries on with this behaviour, so me and Izzie have stolen her phone for the day and kidnapped her to stay in my apartment, we are trying to prove to her that if she doesn't contact him for a bit he will come running, so at them moment we are awaiting some pizza and then it is the start of the girlie marathon, we are keeping her away from her phone for 48 hours just to prove our point, now I am certain that by the start of tomorrow she will have a message from her SD asking how she is and how her day has been, so hopefully she can see that she doesn't need to be so full on, and tat she needs to let him do the chasing for a while. I'll let you know tomorrow if our plan has worked or backfired horribly :)

Does anyone know what happened to Babydoll - her blog has disappeared

Love

Jess Bunny

xx

Choosing your Sugar Daddy

Okay, so lets say you have done all the emailing, gotten rid of those who can't meet your needs and you have the chosen handful. What to do now?

Obviously I mean the first date but who do you see first?, do you see them all? How do you decide? All important questions, so who to see first, my advice pick the one you like the most, even if two are neck and neck they can offer you the same, are both as handsome as the other, there has to be whose email brings a smile to your face before you have even read it. This is the one you go on the first date with, as this is the one yu really want your SD to be, what is the point of going on loads of dates wit prospective SD if you want this guy and he wants you, why leave him till last. If you are lucky he could be your first and only date. This is what you are aiming for one date and then you start your SD lifestyle, why meet someone and then hold on for a few weeks and them meet another when you could have already met a great guy and started with your chosen arrangement. If you want to see if the other guy can better the first guys offer, then I am sorry but you are not looking to be a SB, you don't sell yourself to the highest bidder, you go with what your heart tells you.

Treat this process like you would any other dating experience, if you click stick with him, if not then go back to your second choice. Me personally when I was talking to SD online I would only have one serious prospective SD I would write to and then the others were there in case me and the guy I wanted to be my SD didn't work out. I know some girls have more than one SD but to me this is a Courtesan rather than a sugar baby, who just sells herself to who ever can afford her rather than has a relationship with one guy where neither wants any of the relationship hassle, and the guy likes to take care of and pamper the female.

So to the girl who wrote, you must like one more than the other meet with him first, if it doesn't work out then sure meet the other one but don't play both as you cuold get burned and not end up with either. From my experience of talking to my SB friends SD don't like the feeling that they are a maybe until soemthing better comes along, what happens if you really like the guy you are going to meet on Friday but hold off until you have met the other don't like him, and then turn around and the SD you really like has got fed up of waiting and found someone new. I found with X once I had agreed to this arrangement he wanted to get it moving along quite quickly, others may not be as fast as three days but they won't want to be waiting around for weeks.

I hope this helps

Love

Jess Bunny

xx

Give him some space

Unfortunately one thing you have to learn when you are in a SD relationship is that he will have to cancel meetings with just a moments notice, especially if you have never met before, X as I have mentioned previously is a banker so at the moment his time is really limited, I mean come on even I watch the news I know there are problems with the markets. I would be a bit more concerned if he could drop everything and come and see you the next day and yet he claims to be a VP if a company. So if he keeps on cancelling your first date remember what sector he work in, and look if there are any issues.

If you are already organising a first date though you should have already got him to confirm his identity with him giving you his companies website and then trying to contact him through the information from the website, whether it be by post or Phone.

So anyway, right now I am sitting with my laptop getting ready to watch My Super Sweet 16 on MTV, I have t admit I love the programmes where the show spoilt little rich kids, it's always guaranteed to make me laugh, looking at kids complaining that they have had the wrong colour BMW, or Range Rover. Before I met X I used to watch those programmes along with The OC, and dream of the day I could finally live like that. It still feels so unreal knowing that, this is how I live my life, I don't have money problems, I can look at things in Vogue or Cosmopolitan and know if I wanted them I could buy them, I still look some days at the things I have around me and just can't believe that they are mine. I have decided not to buy anywhere I am instead going to change where I rent I am moving to the Docklands, to a new 3 bedroom , 2 bathroom flat. The only reason I changed my mind is because there is this awesome flat that has the normal gym, spa, concierge and it has a In-house beautician at least this means I don't have to worry about my mani or pedi chipping I can just call down stairs. Also Claire remember her, she is the one with Russia is also moving into to a apartment there.


I have gotten a little bored of living in Kensington now, and what to live somewhere a bit more young and vibrant and it is still near X's London office so he can pop by every now and then. And it will only be a short car ride away from all the main shops so I am just having X do all the reference checks and then I am moving in ASAP. I can't wait. I have lived in my Kensington Flat now since me and X first got together so it will be like a new chapter in our relationship.

So how about all of you lot have any of you bagged yourself a SD yet

Love

Jess Bunny

xx

First date jitters

So I went shopping today with one of my non SB girlfriends who cam to London for the day to see me, she has a first date with a guy next week and it got me thinking about maybe writing a blog about what you could expect on your first date, what to wear.

So by now if it's your first date you should have spoken about the financial side of things for 2 reasons. Firstly what's the point of meeting if your expectations of this relationship aren't the same and secondly it's easier to do it over email than face-to-face. You can be bolder and if you disagree with what he is offering it's easier to be polite and say "thank you but we are not on the same level" than it is to do it to his face. Imagine if you are looking for a £6k allowance and he is only looking to spend £1k or under. Also some men are just looking for occasional dates when he has company stuff on, or when he needs to get away from the wife others want like me and X have a full time relationship.

Your emails should help you figure out the ins and out s of the relationship, obviously not how may times you have sex, what positions, but how often you want to see each other, who is going to travel to who, that kind of thing.

Now if you work and it is a dinner date try to get the day of and the day after off, the day of so you can get ready and take your time and the day after not so you can stay over with him just so you can have a think about how it went, if you could see your self with him, this is a important decision and you want to let him know ASAP otherwise he may just move on, obviously you don't have to have the day after but try to get the day of the date.

Don't have a facial the day of the date, or for 3 days before it will bring out any impurities and leave you with bad skin for your date, not great!! You should have had a spray tan the night before so you just need to jump in the shower mid afternoon to get rid of the layer colour, I always leave it till the afternoon as you get a nicer colour and always have it done by someone, don't do it your self, you know it will go wrong!! Give yourself a mani and pedi, go for a nice neutral colour, obviously wash you your hair and style it once you have had your shower.

What to wear? Whilst I was shopping today I saw some lovely Black jeans around I go for DVB jeans but there are just as good ones in River Island, New Look or Topshop. The just a nice smart top, you want to be saying with your outfit, yeah I maybe going some place posh but so what I 'll dress to my style and jeans and a top can never go wrong. And the good things with black jeans is they can be mistaken for black trousers anyway so they look smart. Don't dress like you would for a job interview for a start he has to prove himself to you, not the other way round. Go for the no make up look on the face bright eyes and glossy lips. Look to make sure it applied well, no orange line if you can buy some sponges or as I use a Benefit foundation brush, you can't go wrong with one of these. Oh and lastly don't overpower him with perfume, just go light with it and put it on your pulse points.

OK so on your date, I'll go back to my experiences before X I only took enough cash for my taxi fair there and home, always meet in a bar before you go to the restaurant do you want to be stuck eating with a man who bores you to death no! Trust me it drags for hours and hours. This isn't a normal date don't offer to pay for the drinks he wants to be your SD this is what he should be doing, that is also why the bar is a good idea. Always have a friend ring you after half an hour make sure everything is ok and of course if it's not you can make a runner stating a dying dog :)

Never, Never go to bed with them on the first date, for a start no Sugar Daddy wants to think that as soon as his back is turned that his SB is going with other guys even if you have agreed you will see other people, keep him wanting more, it's classier and men will have more respect of you. Yes this relationship gets rid of the crap of waiting 5 dates and then sleeping together but take my advice you sleep with him on the first date and you have lost him. The second or third is fine but never the first. I always had to kiss a man on a first date as for me if you can't kiss eww, I love kissing and thankfully X is very good at it :) If he say he wants to try before he enters an agreement then fine but he can take you on a little shopping trip on your second date then. Try before you buy is saved for the deli counter.

Don't get so drunk you fall about, and keep an air of mystery, if he asks how you think things have gone, then tell him. Izzy told her SD that night that yes she wanted a arrangement with him and it worked out well but she didn't sleep with him that night either.

Well I hope this helps some of you

Love

Jess Bunny

xx

House hunting.........

OMG, I can't believe Heath Ledger is dead ever since I watched 10 things I hate about you I have thought he was a awesome actor, such a shame. I hope the media leave his little girl and her mother alone so they can mourn in peace.

So I have been going into estate agents lately and looking a properties for sale, I think I want to live in the Docklands area, I love the apartments there, and X's London office is in Canary Wharf so he could pop by a lot more. I have been told the maximum budget is £5 million. The neighbour actually came to check if I was okay when X told me I was all right as one minute he had seen X coming into my apartment next minute he hears me screaming and banging, that's me jumping on the bed :)

I never expected my budget to be so big and I have seen some properties for about £2.5 million, including a awesome penthouse apartment at New Providence wharf check it out on http://www.primelocation.com it is absolutely amazing and the furniture in there is great too, so maybe if I throw in a bit more I can keep the furniture too, and you want to know the best thing, it's going in my name. So if we were ever to split the flat would be mine, and as he is telling me to pay for it on his AMEX card then no bills will come my way. YAY!!!!

So this morning I have been online and done a bit of shopping on http://www.asos.com I love this shop just because it has stuff that looks like designer but you pay half the price for it, as we all now trends come and go so why pay thousands for a dress that a celebrity has and all the rich women you see about are wearing when you can only wear it a few times and then it goes to my friends, family or OXFAM.

About every three months I bring all my girlfriends form back home up and my cousins put all the clothes I don't want up on clothes rails and some bags and shoes and just tell them to go wild anything that's left over well that goes to charity. The OXFAM on 202b Kensington High street is where I drop my stuff off, next time I drop some off I will let you know, so you can have a dig around and see if there is anything you want and I'll tell you some of my special items. See to all you haters I am not a girl just out for what she can get, I am a girl who has fallen in love with a extraordinary man and I live a extraordinary life, but I know I am lucky and very fortunate, when I first met X I was £14,000 in debt, worked three jobs just to make ends meet and went for days without food, all whilst telling my family back home that everything was fine and that I was loving my time here in London. I had no friends up here, as I couldn't go out as I was always working and any money I made went on my bills. I come from a working class background and my parents worked extremely hard to ensure we always had enough of everything so we wouldn't get bullied for being the poor kids.

So next you want to judge me, look at my background. Well after that rant I think I just defo made my decision about continuing to write or not.

Thanks for reading, even if its just Nikita and a few of the others that have left comments your comments mean the world to me, each and every day

Love

Jess Bunny

xx

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