Ok so I have just re-done my profile on SA.com as finding that I have no luck on there at the moment, none of my emails get replies and dont tend to get emails on there. I find my best luck in on SD.com and woke up to 6 emails this morning but can't say I liked one of them. Maybe I am just getting too fussy LOL!
I have been chatting with a few guys on SD.com but I am bored of coming across profiles that state I am not looking for an arrangement or to give an allowance, then I am sorry sweetie but what are you doing on a sugar daddy dating website!! OOh it makes me so anygry and I am hoping that if I do finally find a sugar daddy that they will fund my website so us girls dont waste our time with fakes, and the guys don't waste their time with girls who never want to meet.
I think I will do a 3 strikes and your out option if you say you'll meet and dont after 3 times your off the website that will make it so much easier for both sides then. I know I have been guilty of it myself where you say you would like to meet up with someone but then get chatting to a better prospect and forget about the other one. But I amtalking about the girls who continusally do it.
Well my little rant over, now if anyone fancies helping me out on my profile let me know hehehe!
Love
Jess
xoxox
Sunday, August 29, 2010
Friday, August 27, 2010
So I am trying to come back
Well I thought I had met a really great guy in Mr Builder our date went so well and we were planning the next one, then my Bampi died and I just fell to pieces, although he had battled cancer for 7 years we didnt expect him to go so soon. It just seems everytime I get there something happens, is this a sign that I should just forget it.
So with Mr Builder I just put of emailing him or texting him and now its been a month since the last contact so its too late. I am talking to a few guys on SD.com but no-one really seems worth it. I am looking for an allowance of £2k per month as with my grant from my studies as am now doing my law degree part-time that will be plenty to live off, obvisouly as ime went on I can look to add other things such as a car hired in his name and such but for now £2k seems good. And to be honest in this market and economical time its not that expensive, after all the men I go for are supposed to be multi-millionaires!
How is everyone else finding the sites, any tips for the best ones at the moment. Wish I could get up to London more and hit the clubs as that would be the best way to really look for a sugar daddy.
Have been reading a lot and have added links to the books I have been reading I adore Lousie Bagshawe she writes about the kind of life all us girls want to live so check them out if you can!
Well I do promise to keep up with my updates well if anything actually happens, looking at all the blogs though everyone seems to have gone quiet
Love
Jess
xoxox
Search Amazon.com for louise bagshawe
So with Mr Builder I just put of emailing him or texting him and now its been a month since the last contact so its too late. I am talking to a few guys on SD.com but no-one really seems worth it. I am looking for an allowance of £2k per month as with my grant from my studies as am now doing my law degree part-time that will be plenty to live off, obvisouly as ime went on I can look to add other things such as a car hired in his name and such but for now £2k seems good. And to be honest in this market and economical time its not that expensive, after all the men I go for are supposed to be multi-millionaires!
How is everyone else finding the sites, any tips for the best ones at the moment. Wish I could get up to London more and hit the clubs as that would be the best way to really look for a sugar daddy.
Have been reading a lot and have added links to the books I have been reading I adore Lousie Bagshawe she writes about the kind of life all us girls want to live so check them out if you can!
Well I do promise to keep up with my updates well if anything actually happens, looking at all the blogs though everyone seems to have gone quiet
Love
Jess
xoxox
Search Amazon.com for louise bagshawe
Saturday, July 10, 2010
Its date night
So me and Mr builder have a date tonight, he has travelled down to my hometown and we are meeting at 8pm. he has just checked into his hotel and sent me a picture of the room which from then going on the hotel website which has pics of every room I know costs £175 per night. So I know he isnt a cheap room which is always good! And I know he is definitely in my hometown lol.
Have decided on a summer dress with a fab pair of heels and a little black bag. The dress is actually just from Peacocks which is like Target in America, but have always had compliments when I have worn it. And asked if its from Topshop, so I know its a winner then its a little cardi on over the top. Hhad my hair done yesterday and make-up will be bronzed but natural.
I am actually so nervous tonight, I feel a little sick, first date in a while and after the hassle of my "normal" ex, but its good to be back out there.
Will let you know how it all goes tomorrow!
Love
Jess
xox
Have decided on a summer dress with a fab pair of heels and a little black bag. The dress is actually just from Peacocks which is like Target in America, but have always had compliments when I have worn it. And asked if its from Topshop, so I know its a winner then its a little cardi on over the top. Hhad my hair done yesterday and make-up will be bronzed but natural.
I am actually so nervous tonight, I feel a little sick, first date in a while and after the hassle of my "normal" ex, but its good to be back out there.
Will let you know how it all goes tomorrow!
Love
Jess
xox
Monday, July 5, 2010
Oooh may have a date
So I have my profiles up and am getting some good emails from SD.com, but to be honest am not seeing anything I like on SA.com.
I wish I lived in america cause the only verified ones on there are american. I am still really thnking of setting up my own website and having it so that all the sugardaddys have to be verified or they cant join. To me thats the only real way to wade out the fakes, but they I love chatting with some fakes as they stand out a mile off, and love just stringing them along seeming really excited to me the best way to find them out is the guys who talk about how much they have.
In my experience the ones who don't talk about what they have are the ones who have the most! But thats just me!
Anyway a couple of pots one I shall call Mr import as thats what he does, is very googable and I have seen his fb profile so am impressed with him, we talked a few years ago but nothing ever happened but the day i joined he emailed me so will see what happens.
Mr builder is the other pot, he owns his own construction firm but with him he is looking more for a GF than a SB but to be honest I could be open to this, I am single, I am bored of the guys round by me and he seems really lovely. He will be coming to my hometown either on the weekend or by the end of july. He did invite my to go to some Races with him but its on the day of my sisters graduation from University so thats just bad timing.
I keep being emailed about what to do if you dont fancie the guy, uum hello dont do anything then. Me main thing is I have to like and be attracted to a guy to start anything with him! If I didnt then I may as well just become a high class escort, sorry if thats harsh ladies but being with guys you dont fancie and pay per visits just dont for me fall into the catergory of a sugar baby. I am in no way trying to offend anyone that is just my thought.
Sugarbabies get called hookers enough without girls acting like it, I have heard of some girls demanding money to agree to see a guy, if a guy does give you money when you arrive great, it also doesnt mean you have to sleep with him, and I always make it clear that I am going there for an inital meet if they dont like it, oh well I wont meet them then. I do expect a guy to pay for my train ticket so I wont be out of pocket and a hotel if I am staying over but I do tell them they are not gauranteed I will sleep with them, have I slept with a pot? Yes thats cause we got on so well, and I fancied him like hell, but it wasn't cause it was expected.
Well as I said I dont mean to offend anyone thats just my thoughts from my experience of being a SB and what X used to tell me about pot SB's and of course what I have done in my search.
Love
Jess Bunny
xoxox
I wish I lived in america cause the only verified ones on there are american. I am still really thnking of setting up my own website and having it so that all the sugardaddys have to be verified or they cant join. To me thats the only real way to wade out the fakes, but they I love chatting with some fakes as they stand out a mile off, and love just stringing them along seeming really excited to me the best way to find them out is the guys who talk about how much they have.
In my experience the ones who don't talk about what they have are the ones who have the most! But thats just me!
Anyway a couple of pots one I shall call Mr import as thats what he does, is very googable and I have seen his fb profile so am impressed with him, we talked a few years ago but nothing ever happened but the day i joined he emailed me so will see what happens.
Mr builder is the other pot, he owns his own construction firm but with him he is looking more for a GF than a SB but to be honest I could be open to this, I am single, I am bored of the guys round by me and he seems really lovely. He will be coming to my hometown either on the weekend or by the end of july. He did invite my to go to some Races with him but its on the day of my sisters graduation from University so thats just bad timing.
I keep being emailed about what to do if you dont fancie the guy, uum hello dont do anything then. Me main thing is I have to like and be attracted to a guy to start anything with him! If I didnt then I may as well just become a high class escort, sorry if thats harsh ladies but being with guys you dont fancie and pay per visits just dont for me fall into the catergory of a sugar baby. I am in no way trying to offend anyone that is just my thought.
Sugarbabies get called hookers enough without girls acting like it, I have heard of some girls demanding money to agree to see a guy, if a guy does give you money when you arrive great, it also doesnt mean you have to sleep with him, and I always make it clear that I am going there for an inital meet if they dont like it, oh well I wont meet them then. I do expect a guy to pay for my train ticket so I wont be out of pocket and a hotel if I am staying over but I do tell them they are not gauranteed I will sleep with them, have I slept with a pot? Yes thats cause we got on so well, and I fancied him like hell, but it wasn't cause it was expected.
Well as I said I dont mean to offend anyone thats just my thoughts from my experience of being a SB and what X used to tell me about pot SB's and of course what I have done in my search.
Love
Jess Bunny
xoxox
Thursday, July 1, 2010
Hello
So am you guys will see I have been away from the SD for quite a while, I had some stuff going on that needed to be sorted before I could fully look at going into this lifestyle again. I actually dated a regular guy for a while as well, only 3 months but it didnt work out.
He was a great guy but his ex was a psycho and I didn't need to deal with that. So whilst I have been away I haven't logged into SD.com or SA so am now working my way through all the emails to see if any good pots and of course I am gonna work my way through all the blogs I follow to try to catch up and see if anyone has done it and found a great SD.
So whilst I wish you all luck in your search I hope you will all wish me luck too.
Lets ride together in this bumpy world of SD dating
Love
Jess
xoxox
He was a great guy but his ex was a psycho and I didn't need to deal with that. So whilst I have been away I haven't logged into SD.com or SA so am now working my way through all the emails to see if any good pots and of course I am gonna work my way through all the blogs I follow to try to catch up and see if anyone has done it and found a great SD.
So whilst I wish you all luck in your search I hope you will all wish me luck too.
Lets ride together in this bumpy world of SD dating
Love
Jess
xoxox
Tuesday, February 16, 2010
Is it just me???
Or has anyone else noticed that the longer your search continues the more Jaded you become, even if it is a guy who is extremly googable, know his photo is recent and seems really nice, these days instead of finding myself excited I am thinking right whats gonna go wrong with this one.
I thnk my problem is I had it too easy with X I met him in a different way, even though I was on SD dating sites I still met him in a natural way. And of course I was spoilt in what I had off him, and don't get me wrong I am in no way expecting something of a similar standard, my allowance expectation is £2.5 - 3k.
I think the other thing is a lot of men on the dating sites are looking for a easy shag or send you a message or its in his profile that he is not looking to be a sugardaddy, I am sorry then I do not understand why you are on the website. It would be like me joining a "I love darts" website when I dont. A bit of a random comparison but you girls know what I mean LOL.
I wish I was one of the girls who could ask for a present before a meeting or get a guy to send me presents before we meet, but I just don't seem to meet those kind of guys, maybe it's a american thing LOL.
I do have two interesting dates lined up next week hopefully just gotta try and work out my work schedule and of course am going back to my flat tomorrow, couldn't be bothered to go home today so have stayed an extra day, but it does mean I wont have regular internet access which kind of hampers a girls SD seeking!
So how is everyone else feeling about there sugar lives, I see from other blogs I am not the only one who is feeling a bit disheartened by it all
Love
Jess
xoxox
I thnk my problem is I had it too easy with X I met him in a different way, even though I was on SD dating sites I still met him in a natural way. And of course I was spoilt in what I had off him, and don't get me wrong I am in no way expecting something of a similar standard, my allowance expectation is £2.5 - 3k.
I think the other thing is a lot of men on the dating sites are looking for a easy shag or send you a message or its in his profile that he is not looking to be a sugardaddy, I am sorry then I do not understand why you are on the website. It would be like me joining a "I love darts" website when I dont. A bit of a random comparison but you girls know what I mean LOL.
I wish I was one of the girls who could ask for a present before a meeting or get a guy to send me presents before we meet, but I just don't seem to meet those kind of guys, maybe it's a american thing LOL.
I do have two interesting dates lined up next week hopefully just gotta try and work out my work schedule and of course am going back to my flat tomorrow, couldn't be bothered to go home today so have stayed an extra day, but it does mean I wont have regular internet access which kind of hampers a girls SD seeking!
So how is everyone else feeling about there sugar lives, I see from other blogs I am not the only one who is feeling a bit disheartened by it all
Love
Jess
xoxox
Monday, February 15, 2010
Pride and Prejudice
Ok so I am reading Pride and Prejudice at the moment and in there all the women want is a man of wealth, so what is so different to what SB's are looking for???
I am talking a couple of new guys one who looks like Sean Connery only younger and another who his in his 40's and quite sweet! Haven't got a name for him yet, but the other one I will call Mr Connery.
Me and Mr connery are going to have a meet hopefully next week and he will be sending me a train ticket to travel to him, and he offered which is always good!
Well will write a bit more soon though am going back to my flat on Wednesday so will be in drips again. Sorry for that ladies and hopefully it will be sorted soon
Love
Jess
xoxox
I am talking a couple of new guys one who looks like Sean Connery only younger and another who his in his 40's and quite sweet! Haven't got a name for him yet, but the other one I will call Mr Connery.
Me and Mr connery are going to have a meet hopefully next week and he will be sending me a train ticket to travel to him, and he offered which is always good!
Well will write a bit more soon though am going back to my flat on Wednesday so will be in drips again. Sorry for that ladies and hopefully it will be sorted soon
Love
Jess
xoxox
Sunday, February 14, 2010
Havent really had much to say
The stupid dongle doesnt work in my flat as walls so thick I cant get signal but am moving end of this month into a nicer flat so finger crossed will be able to get signal there.
Mr Public well as you know one of our fellow SB's had spoken with him, and after she gave me some advice he did turn to be the same way with me. I was on SD.com replying to some mail and got a message asking why I was cheating already??? Umm hello we havent been on a date, options always need to be open with the amount of fakes and guys looking for a easy lay who are around! So he got dropped!
I am really looking into setting up my own SD website am so fed up of fakes and guys who say I am not looking to be a SD site, umm hello then get off a SD dating website you idiot!!! LOL!
Not sure when I will next be able to post, but will keep you updated if anything happens - on much sadder news the one pair of Loubs I have, I broke the heel, I actually cried after taking them to shoes man who said they cant be fixed, he looked at me like I was mad, but they were my BFF! So now defo need a SD even if its just to buy one pair lol
Love
Jess
xoxox
Mr Public well as you know one of our fellow SB's had spoken with him, and after she gave me some advice he did turn to be the same way with me. I was on SD.com replying to some mail and got a message asking why I was cheating already??? Umm hello we havent been on a date, options always need to be open with the amount of fakes and guys looking for a easy lay who are around! So he got dropped!
I am really looking into setting up my own SD website am so fed up of fakes and guys who say I am not looking to be a SD site, umm hello then get off a SD dating website you idiot!!! LOL!
Not sure when I will next be able to post, but will keep you updated if anything happens - on much sadder news the one pair of Loubs I have, I broke the heel, I actually cried after taking them to shoes man who said they cant be fixed, he looked at me like I was mad, but they were my BFF! So now defo need a SD even if its just to buy one pair lol
Love
Jess
xoxox
Sunday, January 31, 2010
Date outfits
I always get emails asking what to wear on a first date with a new pot.
Here is my advice from what I have learnt, SD's arent too fashion forward so whilstn you should keep up with the trends men are simple creatures and whilst you may get the odd one or two who are really on trend, really out there wont work. So keep it simple but well presented.
I always wear a dress when I meet a pot but then thats my personality. I am a girly girl and most of the time I am always in dresses, I only own 1 pair of trousers, being a hourglass I work with what suits me.
Always make sure your shoes aren't dirty or scuffed, and that your bag isnt falling apart as these always bring a outfit together. If you have painted your nails make sure no chips, if you haven't make sure they are clean.
Dont plaster yourself in make-up, men hate this and dont try out new looks on a date, trust me i did it and I was so self-concious because it wasnt what i was used too. Same with hair dont try anything new just make sure its clean and your happy.
At the end of the day if your comfortable you will be confident and girls we all know confidence is what attracts a guy, if you seem uncomfortable a guy will either think its to do with them or that your uncomfortable with yourself.
So however you want to dress you dress, they have seen your pics they know what you look like, remember ladies they are lucky to be having a date with us.
We are young confident beautiful women and we do not ever need to sell ourselves short
Love
Jess
xoxox
Here is my advice from what I have learnt, SD's arent too fashion forward so whilstn you should keep up with the trends men are simple creatures and whilst you may get the odd one or two who are really on trend, really out there wont work. So keep it simple but well presented.
I always wear a dress when I meet a pot but then thats my personality. I am a girly girl and most of the time I am always in dresses, I only own 1 pair of trousers, being a hourglass I work with what suits me.
Always make sure your shoes aren't dirty or scuffed, and that your bag isnt falling apart as these always bring a outfit together. If you have painted your nails make sure no chips, if you haven't make sure they are clean.
Dont plaster yourself in make-up, men hate this and dont try out new looks on a date, trust me i did it and I was so self-concious because it wasnt what i was used too. Same with hair dont try anything new just make sure its clean and your happy.
At the end of the day if your comfortable you will be confident and girls we all know confidence is what attracts a guy, if you seem uncomfortable a guy will either think its to do with them or that your uncomfortable with yourself.
So however you want to dress you dress, they have seen your pics they know what you look like, remember ladies they are lucky to be having a date with us.
We are young confident beautiful women and we do not ever need to sell ourselves short
Love
Jess
xoxox
Saturday, January 30, 2010
Another post
This is just my thoughts as had a email through FB stating may need to do a repost on sugar negotiaitions, now remember this is just my thoughts on the situation.
Girls who take a pay per visit now me personally that isn't a SB that is a escort situation. The whole concept of a SD in my mind is having a guy who you know month in month out will provide you with a set amount.
Now yes starting to talk about an allowance is hard but at the end of the day if you have met through the net, then he either was on a SD site or through a listing on CL - just have to say how annoying are the people who flag our posts on CL. I dont flag yours cause your ugly!!! - Anyway the hard part is done you both know why you are talking to each other, if he tells you it seems like its only about money with you. You can polietly state thats not the case but before you continue a chat then you thinks its reasonable to know to know both of your expectations meet.
If they dont then you can polietly state you are looking for different things but you wish him well with his search.
I couldn't do multiple SD's but thats me, for one I have a crap memeory so that would work against me. Secondly in my view the guys I have met have always at least stated they could afford my allowance therefore I have no need for another. Chicago sugarbaby was so right when she said know what you goals are.
Like her I know what I want out of this.
I plan to set up a savings account. I want to have a deposit for a house
I have got myself into some debt since me and X split so want to clear that and get to perfect credit once more.
I want to be able to live a WAG lifestyle for the time I am putting myself through University, its just a bit of fun and not my life long ambition to become a WAG just like how they live.
I want to give myself security for the future so any money I do get and this time I am asking for a allowance of £2.5k, I now have a little bar job I am doing my studies, so If I give myself £1.5k a month to spend like crazy I will have £1k to put into savings even if it only lasts a year I will have 12 grand thats I wouldn;t have had anyway and lots and lots of shoes again.
Of course I have the silly stuff I want, like I want to own a Hermes Birkin again, I want lots of Louboutins and I want to holiday when I want where I want. These are the dreams we all have when we begin this journey and they are good things to aim for but just remember ladies, always think of the bigger picture and life after your SD
Love
Jess Bunny
xoxoxo
Girls who take a pay per visit now me personally that isn't a SB that is a escort situation. The whole concept of a SD in my mind is having a guy who you know month in month out will provide you with a set amount.
Now yes starting to talk about an allowance is hard but at the end of the day if you have met through the net, then he either was on a SD site or through a listing on CL - just have to say how annoying are the people who flag our posts on CL. I dont flag yours cause your ugly!!! - Anyway the hard part is done you both know why you are talking to each other, if he tells you it seems like its only about money with you. You can polietly state thats not the case but before you continue a chat then you thinks its reasonable to know to know both of your expectations meet.
If they dont then you can polietly state you are looking for different things but you wish him well with his search.
I couldn't do multiple SD's but thats me, for one I have a crap memeory so that would work against me. Secondly in my view the guys I have met have always at least stated they could afford my allowance therefore I have no need for another. Chicago sugarbaby was so right when she said know what you goals are.
Like her I know what I want out of this.
I plan to set up a savings account. I want to have a deposit for a house
I have got myself into some debt since me and X split so want to clear that and get to perfect credit once more.
I want to be able to live a WAG lifestyle for the time I am putting myself through University, its just a bit of fun and not my life long ambition to become a WAG just like how they live.
I want to give myself security for the future so any money I do get and this time I am asking for a allowance of £2.5k, I now have a little bar job I am doing my studies, so If I give myself £1.5k a month to spend like crazy I will have £1k to put into savings even if it only lasts a year I will have 12 grand thats I wouldn;t have had anyway and lots and lots of shoes again.
Of course I have the silly stuff I want, like I want to own a Hermes Birkin again, I want lots of Louboutins and I want to holiday when I want where I want. These are the dreams we all have when we begin this journey and they are good things to aim for but just remember ladies, always think of the bigger picture and life after your SD
Love
Jess Bunny
xoxoxo
New pots
Firstly thanks everyone for your well wishes, no I dont know who the girls are, and yes the police are invovlved they are looking at CCTV so see if they can find the incident.
Now on to the good stuff girls, I have a new pot and when I say he is googable damn is this man googable. I only typed in his first name and 100's of entries came up about him including his society wedding and then divorce. He is early 40's which is good and him and his family actually own the company he works for!!! kerchiiing!
He did ask me to meet him where he is now, but well me and flying to meet guys for the first trip it just doesn't happen. For a first meet I am happy to go to them if it's still in this country and I have a hotel booking made and transport to and from paid for by them, or they can come to my home town by no I wont go out of this country.
Now back to my Pot, I'll call him Mr Public, I have entered in his email address and this site came up with a load of email address for bad SD's and all someone had written was is married!!! I am sorry girls but this is sugar daddy land most of them are!
So anyway thats my news ladies
Love
Jess
xoxoxox
Now on to the good stuff girls, I have a new pot and when I say he is googable damn is this man googable. I only typed in his first name and 100's of entries came up about him including his society wedding and then divorce. He is early 40's which is good and him and his family actually own the company he works for!!! kerchiiing!
He did ask me to meet him where he is now, but well me and flying to meet guys for the first trip it just doesn't happen. For a first meet I am happy to go to them if it's still in this country and I have a hotel booking made and transport to and from paid for by them, or they can come to my home town by no I wont go out of this country.
Now back to my Pot, I'll call him Mr Public, I have entered in his email address and this site came up with a load of email address for bad SD's and all someone had written was is married!!! I am sorry girls but this is sugar daddy land most of them are!
So anyway thats my news ladies
Love
Jess
xoxoxox
Wednesday, January 27, 2010
Well what a weekend
Well ladies what a weekend in 2 weeks I was supposed to be a new Pot, thanks to the weekends event I have had to cancel with a really lovely guy.
Basically on my way home I was jumped by a few girls and now have a split lip and chin, a messed up hand, broken ribs and concussion -Great!!! First thing I knew about it was coming round in hospital Sunday afternoon!
Made me quite scared of going out now which is going to make meeting Pots a bit difficult though I do always take precautions giving a friend his details, which site he from, my log in details and his screen name, but this has quite shaken me so am undecided as to what to do!
Well just giving you a update whilst I read up on everyone Else's adventures
Love
Jess Bunny
xoxox
Basically on my way home I was jumped by a few girls and now have a split lip and chin, a messed up hand, broken ribs and concussion -Great!!! First thing I knew about it was coming round in hospital Sunday afternoon!
Made me quite scared of going out now which is going to make meeting Pots a bit difficult though I do always take precautions giving a friend his details, which site he from, my log in details and his screen name, but this has quite shaken me so am undecided as to what to do!
Well just giving you a update whilst I read up on everyone Else's adventures
Love
Jess Bunny
xoxox
Saturday, January 23, 2010
Just a quick one
I am having a internet dongle posted out to me soon so will be back blogging like before sorry to keep coming and going but all that will be fixed soon
Love
Jess Bunny
xoxox
Love
Jess Bunny
xoxox
Thursday, January 14, 2010
Joined some more sites
So I have joined up some of the new sites that have popped up since I have been gone like classyarrangements.com and established men, but I have to say I don't hold out much hope for them as they don't really seem that well organised or legit, but hey they are free so I am not going to complain, but girls what are your experiences on them. where are you finding your sugardates?
It feels weird writing and not having any experiences to write about, but hopefully I will fix that. I found when I was living with my parents it was hard to get away for dates without too many questions as most of them were with me spending time away. Now I am living alone then it is a lot easier well now I finally internet again.
I have noticed since I have been away a lot more blogs are here and some of them I love reading but some of them, and this is just my opinion, it seems they treat pots like johns and are trying to do £££ per visit, for me and again just my opinion its not about per visit but builiding a relationship with a guy who can support you, even if that means it taking a longer time to find him. After all its hard enough to keep up with one guy let alone more, and we all know how demanding SD's can be for your time.
Love
Jess Bunny
xoxoxo
It feels weird writing and not having any experiences to write about, but hopefully I will fix that. I found when I was living with my parents it was hard to get away for dates without too many questions as most of them were with me spending time away. Now I am living alone then it is a lot easier well now I finally internet again.
I have noticed since I have been away a lot more blogs are here and some of them I love reading but some of them, and this is just my opinion, it seems they treat pots like johns and are trying to do £££ per visit, for me and again just my opinion its not about per visit but builiding a relationship with a guy who can support you, even if that means it taking a longer time to find him. After all its hard enough to keep up with one guy let alone more, and we all know how demanding SD's can be for your time.
Love
Jess Bunny
xoxoxo
Wednesday, January 13, 2010
A lot tougher
I have noticed that this time round I am being a lot tougher with the guys and stating what I want, after all this isn't the time for a softly softly approach when it comes to knowing if they can actually afford me. And then I can take the softly softly approach knwing that they are who they say who they are and understand what I want out of this relationship.
I have had some fun catching up on everyones blogs and so good to see people are starting to get close to finding their guy. I still notice though that some of the newer blogs still treat their prospectives like johns rather than potential SD's for me having multiple SD's isnt what its about its about being able to find he one guy who can give you everything you want and need. But hey thats just me.
Whether it takes a year or 2 I know I will find the right SD who can give me everything I want out of this relationship I also have to say a massice thanks I never imagined when I started this blog that I would have had over 15000 readers AHHHH thats so exciting.
Oh forgot to say I start my Open university law degree this month I am so scared but excited cant wait to either be a prosecution lawyer or coperate lawyer
Love
Jess Bunny
xoxox
Also I found this fab thing where you can do a shopping list which others can buy from so will now be do that so when I meet a prospective or potential will just direct him to that will be good for birthdays as well I suppose. And good for when I have a SD can think about what I need properly the boring things for the home lol.
x
I have had some fun catching up on everyones blogs and so good to see people are starting to get close to finding their guy. I still notice though that some of the newer blogs still treat their prospectives like johns rather than potential SD's for me having multiple SD's isnt what its about its about being able to find he one guy who can give you everything you want and need. But hey thats just me.
Whether it takes a year or 2 I know I will find the right SD who can give me everything I want out of this relationship I also have to say a massice thanks I never imagined when I started this blog that I would have had over 15000 readers AHHHH thats so exciting.
Oh forgot to say I start my Open university law degree this month I am so scared but excited cant wait to either be a prosecution lawyer or coperate lawyer
Love
Jess Bunny
xoxox
Also I found this fab thing where you can do a shopping list which others can buy from so will now be do that so when I meet a prospective or potential will just direct him to that will be good for birthdays as well I suppose. And good for when I have a SD can think about what I need properly the boring things for the home lol.
x
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