We had a new girl come out with us last night that was introduced to us by one of X'S banker clients. You can tell she is new to this lifestyle as I think she has bought every designer known to man and thrown them all on together. It was an awful sight, she had terrible nail extensions, the chavvy French manicure ones, a tan that left her as orange as a satsuma and a dress so short I saw things of hers only her sugar daddy needs to see. But I am going to take her shopping soon so she looks a bit better as I am sure I probably done the same as her when I got into my sugar baby role I think thats why X introduced us really.
She seems a lovely girl if not a bit competitive, but I'm sure once she gets used to her role she will chill out a bit. I do think it's hard for a new sugar baby to come onto the scene as it is very daunting just being welcomed into this world, it's even harder if you have no one who understands your life. Tell people your a WAG they are jealous, tell people you are a sugar baby they call you a slag. But get the right friends around you and you will have the best time of your life.
I think that it's hard these days trying to attract the right sugar daddy, you kind of have to dress for the role, I don't think you have to be stick thin, but just make sure that you are height weight proportionate, always look done so make sure your hair is clean, your make up well applied, you need to master the art of wearing a full face and not looking like you are wearing much. Even if you can't afford designer just make sure your clothes are in good condition, as soon as they start to lose their colour get rid of them. The best website for clothes is www.asos.com, as this sells clothes in the style of the celebrities clothes and they can be quite cheap as well as having some great new designer ranges on their.
Don't go to high fashion, but make sure you look on trend, but the most important advice I could give is don't except second best, know what you want out of this experience and stick to your guns until you find it. Sugar daddys will respect you more if you don't change your mind just cause they say no, move on until you find what you are looking for, and certainly don't sleep with them if they offer you money, as that is a hooker.
Tomorrow I'll give you a few ideas about where to find potential Sugar Daddys
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It's so strange...If I tell some of my friends I am on a SD website I can see some judgement in their eyes. BUT, if I ever said I had started dating a taxi driver, they'd probably try to shake some sense into me. It's like you can just "bump into" a SD, but God forbid you actually take matters into your own hands:( Thank goodness, I like you have other gf's and we are like-minded.
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Butterfly
don't except second best, know what you want out of this experience and stick to your guns until you find it. Sugar daddys will respect you more if you don't change your mind just cause they say no, move on until you find what you are looking for, and certainly don't sleep with them if they offer you money, as that is a hooker.
Jess Bunny ~ This is the best advice!! I have been searching your blogs since it’s the only ONE I know of.... for some guidance. Just to let you in on my current experience – I am still in search of that right SDs and not willing to settle……. I just can’t “fake the funk”, however I was having a WEAK moment and needed some clarity and there it was.
Thanks!!!
Tammy
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